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Posted: 2 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: Anu234


He need to leave anyone but he should have been with his wife kya is us time abhimanyu ko akshara k sath b hona chahiye tha thats what i said. Sorry she didn't run away she was thrown out how you expect her to go their after all what happened that no one will go their so only he had to do was when she called him he need to just talk to her keeping his anger aside that's what I said.


These points have been discussed countless times, but I can still reiterate for you. Yes, he and everyone accepts that he should have been with Ak and supported her too. But the situation was bad and his reactions are understandable. He got mad on white day, but for the phone calls he was shown not picking up or not listening cause his mother was in a critical condition and he was literally scared to lose even her after all of this.


At this point, Ak's duty as a wife was to not accept his stupid anger and sign those documents. To say that you are in anger and grief and we can talk when you have calmed down. To go to Goenkas house like he asked her to do and give them all some space. Abhi failed in his duty as a husband to support his wife and to ensure her well being. But Ak also failed in her duty as a wife by not supporting the family IN ANY WAY she can.


They didn't throw her out, he divorced her. She could have gone to Goenkas and he would have come to talk to her after a few days once things calmed down. Even if she was mad at him for what he did, she had no reason to go off alone like that. Even if she hated Abhi and didnt want to be with him anymore, she had no reason not to go back to Goenkas after finding out she is still pregnant. Her reasoning is off in everything she does and that is where she fails. Making stupid decisions.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: Anu234


He need to leave anyone but he should have been with his wife kya is us time abhimanyu ko akshara k sath b hona chahiye tha thats what i said. Sorry she didn't run away she was thrown out how you expect her to go their after all what happened that no one will go their so only he had to do was when she called him he need to just talk to her keeping his anger aside that's what I said.

She was not thrown out. She also signed on the divorce paper. If she knew Abhi is angry then why she didn’t try to understand him that he is mad because he has lost his brother, his two unborn kids and her mother was uncontrollable due to all these.


she knew that Abhi will be mad but still she didn’t listen even after all these. Abhi asked her to stay in her room but she didn’t.

Who gets marry again within 7 months of running away and that too after went through so much. There is no way in any sane woman can get take this big decision to marry again within 7 months.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: shivu01

Akshara didn’t married for that reason at all. She married because she wanted to take revenge and she was angry since Abhi didn’t pick up her phone.

Initially, her maternal grandparents also did not supporting her. It was completely different scenarios.

If she really wanted to give secure childhood and if she knew Abhi is bad then in first place why she had a relationship with Abhi and became pregnant. Abhi didn’t rape her it was her choice in spite of her knowing that it was critical for her to conceive.

If she wanted revenge she had a lot of opportunities , motive and means . Recent one being let abhim rot in jail for a crime he didn't commit. 6 yrs bk if she filed a domestic violence case against him and custody along with that , she would have sure shot won...



@bold. Basically you're trying to say that akshara should have known that abhim will divorce her on wd hence she shouldn't get pregnant ? 🤔 by this logic, why did abhim make a murderer , who never listens to her ,pregnant ?

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Posted: 2 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: JustaFan13

I' completely disagree with this!!!

It's has been a pattern with Akshara!!! She never fights for abhi, be it preleap or post leap!! Whenever abhi gets angry, she used to just go to her maika!!!

Pl give me one reason why she should fight for dr Birla. She's not his slave. If shes treated like garbage , she won't stand on his doorstep waiting for him to calm down.


It sounds totally misogynist.

Posted: 2 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Krinya

If she wanted revenge she had a lot of opportunities , motive and means . Recent one being let abhim rot in jail for a crime he didn't commit. 6 yrs bk if she filed a domestic violence case against him and custody along with that , she would have sure shot won...



@bold. Basically you're trying to say that akshara should have known that abhim will divorce her on wd hence she shouldn't get pregnant ? 🤔 by this logic, why did abhim make a murderer , who never listens to her ,pregnant ?

No. 6 years back, agar woh custody case file karti toh definitely kabhi nahi jitnewali thi isiliye toh bacche ka existence chupa kar rakkha kyunki 6 saal pehle her choices were very irresponsible for her own unborn kids. 6 saal pehle agar court jati toh lawyers bacche ke piche forest mai bhagna, goons ke paas complicated twin’s pregnancy mai babies ko le jana in sab ka hisab karta karta and court mai jab uski mahaan pregnancy stunts ka hisab kitab hota tab conceive karne wali maa kitni irresponsible hai apni khud ke pregnancy mai woh bhi saaf saaf called out ho jata so yes usne bacche ka existence chupaya he isiliye tha 6 saal pehle because she knew case toh woh pakka harti.


Again wrong, domestic violence ka case agar koi kisi ki baat par ghar mai 4 cheez feke yah miscarried wife se rudely baat kare toh toh nahi hota. Domestic violence ka category itna random actions ke liye nahi banaya hai. Ugly break up , ugly divorce, couple ki verbal fights in sab ko domestic violence category mai nahi gina ja sakta jaise Akshara ke baat baat par abhimnayu ka collar pakadne ko domestic violence bol sakte.


So again Akshara ko acche se pata tha ki seeing her irresponsible behaviour throughout the pregnancy court usko akele ko baccha kabhi nahi deti , usne bacche ke existence ko hide rakkha and dusri baat, usko baat baat par abhimanyu ka collar pakadne ke aadat hai , dhakke Marne ki aadat hai isiliye she knows ki violence category mai kya aata hai and kya nahi aata.

Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania

No. 6 years back, agar woh custody case file karti toh definitely kabhi nahi jitnewali thi isiliye toh bacche ka existence chupa kar rakkha kyunki 6 saal pehle her choices were very irresponsible for her own unborn kids. 6 saal pehle agar court jati toh lawyers bacche ke piche forest mai bhagna, goons ke paas complicated twin’s pregnancy mai babies ko le jana in sab ka hisab karta karta and court mai jab uski mahaan pregnancy stunts ka hisab kitab hota tab conceive karne wali maa kitni irresponsible hai apni khud ke pregnancy mai woh bhi saaf saaf called out ho jata so yes usne bacche ka existence chupaya he isiliye tha 6 saal pehle because she knew case toh woh pakka harti.


Again wrong, domestic violence ka case agar koi kisi ki baat par ghar mai 4 cheez feke yah miscarried wife se rudely baat kare toh toh nahi hota. Domestic violence ka category itna random actions ke liye nahi banaya hai. Ugly break up , ugly divorce, couple ki verbal fights in sab ko domestic violence category mai nahi gina ja sakta jaise Akshara ke baat baat par abhimnayu ka collar pakadne ko domestic violence bol sakte.


So again Akshara ko acche se pata tha ki seeing her irresponsible behaviour throughout the pregnancy court usko akele ko baccha kabhi nahi deti , usne bacche ke existence ko hide rakkha and dusri baat, usko baat baat par abhimanyu ka collar pakadne ke aadat hai , dhakke Marne ki aadat hai isiliye she knows ki violence category mai kya aata hai and kya nahi aata.


Agar abhimanyu tabhi custody milta toh yahi haal hota baccha apne ma k bina nhi rehta chahe voh ma kaise b vamp ho irresponsible ho jaise b ho and the same thing happened now also. Aur agar ak ka collar pakadne vala aadat violence mei aata hei toh abhimanyu ne jo apne mis carried wife sadak par pheke divorce Dene vala best pati k character mei aata hoga right. Galti dono se hua hei sirf ek se nhi unfortunately yaha logo ko bas abhimanyu sahi lagta hei baki k Galt. Anyways carry on kyuki you know why abhimanyu khud akshara ko better person keh chuka hei. Ab isse aage kya hi bacha hei.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tania

No. 6 years back, agar woh custody case file karti toh definitely kabhi nahi jitnewali thi isiliye toh bacche ka existence chupa kar rakkha kyunki 6 saal pehle her choices were very irresponsible for her own unborn kids. 6 saal pehle agar court jati toh lawyers bacche ke piche forest mai bhagna, goons ke paas complicated twin’s pregnancy mai babies ko le jana in sab ka hisab karta karta and court mai jab uski mahaan pregnancy stunts ka hisab kitab hota tab conceive karne wali maa kitni irresponsible hai apni khud ke pregnancy mai woh bhi saaf saaf called out ho jata so yes usne bacche ka existence chupaya he isiliye tha 6 saal pehle because she knew case toh woh pakka harti.


dv cases and custody cases are not decided on the basis of looks . . 20 janam mei bhi dr Birla case na jeet sakte. Pehle toh jail mei rehte . Settle karte bhi toh custody na milti. And that time he didn't have the excuse of abhinav and fake bc also.

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Posted: 2 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: Anu234


Agar abhimanyu tabhi custody milta toh yahi haal hota baccha apne ma k bina nhi rehta chahe voh ma kaise b vamp ho irresponsible ho jaise b ho and the same thing happened now also. Aur agar ak ka collar pakadne vala aadat violence mei aata hei toh abhimanyu ne jo apne mis carried wife sadak par pheke divorce Dene vala best pati k character mei aata hoga right. Galti dono se hua hei sirf ek se nhi unfortunately yaha logo ko bas abhimanyu sahi lagta hei baki k Galt. Anyways carry on kyuki you know why abhimanyu khud akshara ko better person keh chuka hei. Ab isse aage kya hi bacha hei.

It’s about joint custody since the birth of child. Ugly Divorce is not rare in the society and daily basis par hote hai. Pregnant, just delivered kisi bhi category mai wife ho , court ugly fight ki wajah se divorcee couple ko ekdusre ke mooh nahi lagane deta and baccha dono ki presence mai bada ho sake isiliye daily, weekly , biweekly, monthly, yearly jaise bhi milne ka arrangement bacche ke other parent ke liye kar deta hai. Yaha bacche ke toh janm se he ek parent ne apni chalane ke liye paternity badal diya.

Sadak par utha kar feka aisa scene dikhaya nahi tha lekin baar baar collar pakad kar dhakke marte hue kai baar dikha chuke hai.
Log religious place like temple mai darshan ke time par ek dusre ko Itne dhakke nahi marte hoge jitna in logo ko collar pakad kar dhakke marte hue dikhaya gaya hai.

Better person toh akshara bhi bol chuki hai Abhimnayu ko khud se zyada so isse aage bhi kuch nahi bacha bolne ko kyunki in logo ke liye dhakke marna, collar pakadna, verbal diarrhea karna , gussa karna yeh kisi abuse ki category mai nahi aata hai, inka roz ka hai acting like fish market.

Posted: 2 years ago
#60

Originally posted by: Krinya

dv cases and custody cases are not decided on the basis of looks . . 20 janam mei bhi dr Birla case na jeet sakte. Pehle toh jail mei rehte . Settle karte bhi toh custody na milti. And that time he didn't have the excuse of abhinav and fake bc also.

Court action dekhti hai, situation nahi in the cases of domestic violence. 20 janam chodo , issi janam mai court ne Akshara ke birth certificate jhol ko highlight kar diya.

Jail ka toh sawal he nahi uthta kyunki inke yaha collar pakaadna dhakka dena ekdusre par shout karna yeh badi regular actions hai.

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