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Originally posted by: Chaitu.V

precap aaj hi dhika diya kya ? Aab depression hoga tho hi UD mein reh sakthe hai and This brilliant Dr can visit them everyday.They will show all sort of nonsense to keep them 2 together and slowly intense romance start karenge! Mj and BP will suggest them to get back together ..patha nahi Ar ka kya hoga! They might cliff her off or she might sacrifice this time.. Ak will be snatching her sister’s fiancé for 2nd /3rd time.🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s the need for Ak to become defensive lawyer for AbM..she can just submit the evidences in th me court or handover them to his lawyer and that stupid evidence on shefali s phone 😂 ..nothing left in the show now..Boring ,forced and predictable!

Originally posted by: Krinya

Bhaiji ne public apology de dali🤣And also said akshara you're a better person than I am🤣 ye kya ho gaya kaise hua kab hua

Akshara hogi better person

But Dr. Birla shuruaat se besht human hai

🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Indira1211

another big joke..Abhimanyu suffered alot in his childhood..like really what suffering did he have..he has both his parents…he’s not an orphan..his mother and father were married right until he got married..yes..his parents had an unhappy marriage..but they both loved him and he Came from a super rich background and he lived with a big family in a huge house..full of servants..I really don’t know what major childhood suffering abhimanyu had. He’s a spoilt brat as far I’m concerned…this show is a joke.or rather abhira are a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

Losing parents at a young age, being orphan or being poor is not the only trauma in the world!!!

Abhi has seen his father abusing his mom!!! He has seen Manju's own sister not supporting her, he has seen the entire family being okay with the abuse!!! He has seen his mother's passion and ambition being crushed just to satisfy his dad's ego!!! He has seen his mom crying and suffering everyday!!!!

This is a traumatic experience for any kind or even an adult!!!

He is a responsible doctor and a human being!!! None of the Birla kids were Spoilt brats!!! Spoilt brat was ms arohi goenka!!!!

By this theory, Abhir should be happy and celebrating rather than being depressed.🥳

Originally posted by: Indira1211

another big joke..Abhimanyu suffered alot in his childhood..like really what suffering did he have..he has both his parents…he’s not an orphan..his mother and father were married right until he got married..yes..his parents had an unhappy marriage..but they both loved him and he Came from a super rich background and he lived with a big family in a huge house..full of servants..I really don’t know what major childhood suffering abhimanyu had. He’s a spoilt brat as far I’m concerned…this show is a joke.or rather abhira are a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

In my opinion witnessing your mother being a victim of DV and getting abused daily by your own father is a suffering! Imagine seeing such traumatic stuff at a young age and unable to do anything about it! I think abuse and DV in a marriage is more than ‘unhappy’ but that’s just me! So many kids in the world are witnesses to their parents being abused daily but are helpless and as a result become mentally disturbed from this trauma and affects their life! Is this not a major childhood suffering! Just because someone loves you it doesn’t make them a jovial saint same goes with abusive parents!

Just because he lives in a huge house with his big family and servants doesn’t mean that his childhood is perfect! Clearly his family members are all useless his uncle is a busy surgeon and his aunt is a selfish woman who never cared about her own sister and grandparents were probably dead so there was no emotional support from any relatives! Is that not suffering having a dysfunctional family with selfish family members but unable to do anything!

Clearly characters like Aarohi who lived an aishon aaram ki zindagi are a spoilt brat but of course that doesn’t count cause she’s an orphan! I agree that losing parents is one of the worst things that can happen to anyone and it’s something that no one should ever experience but it doesn’t mean that other pains and sufferings in the world don’t exist!

I honestly couldn't care less about this show, it’s characters or Abhira but I do find it shocking how suffering from childhood trauma is seen as a joke all because someone is not an orphan!

Don’t really write such long posts but this really triggers me and I couldn’t resist!

Originally posted by: Indira1211

another big joke..Abhimanyu suffered alot in his childhood..like really what suffering did he have..he has both his parents…he’s not an orphan..his mother and father were married right until he got married..yes..his parents had an unhappy marriage..but they both loved him and he Came from a super rich background and he lived with a big family in a huge house..full of servants..I really don’t know what major childhood suffering abhimanyu had. He’s a spoilt brat as far I’m concerned…this show is a joke.or rather abhira are a joke 🤦🏻‍♀️😂

@ Bold ,u r right ..now after all the love confessions to Abhinav and rejections to Manyu …this show and the reunion will be illogical and a joke !

Originally posted by: Criticiser

In my opinion witnessing your mother being a victim of DV and getting abused daily by your own father is a suffering! Imagine seeing such traumatic stuff at a young age and unable to do anything about it! I think abuse and DV in a marriage is more than ‘unhappy’ but that’s just me! So many kids in the world are witnesses to their parents being abused daily but are helpless and as a result become mentally disturbed from this trauma and affects their life! Is this not a major childhood suffering! Just because someone loves you it doesn’t make them a jovial saint same goes with abusive parents!

Just because he lives in a huge house with his big family and servants doesn’t mean that his childhood is perfect! Clearly his family members are all useless his uncle is a busy surgeon and his aunt is a selfish woman who never cared about her own sister and grandparents were probably dead so there was no emotional support from any relatives! Is that not suffering having a dysfunctional family with selfish family members but unable to do anything!

Witnessing ones mother getting abused on daily basis is def traumatizing for the child .a lot of what abhim is , is bec of his childhood trauma.

But here was a lady whose father basically funded the hospital and her husband was supposed to be on her mercy , instead he was abusing her ..what I mean to say is that she cud have & should have walked out of the marriage instead of letting her son suffer , she had an advantage over those women who are financially dependent on their spouse and unable to walk out due to social stigma and lack of confidence...instead she was putting up a huge smile and serving the family , like they're so rich why can't they hire servants ? The suffering hence seems to be self inflicted , much like anupama...

Mahima Anand etc are like that , that's not a problem. They take pride in their selfishness & narcissim , that's the problem...

In any case , manjaris pain & suffering all these years can't be overlooked...initially I loved their dynamic bec it seemed like mahima the politician didnt let manjari have any power , hence she encouraged harsh to subdue her.. . I feel sad that the same woman was capable of causing so much pain to her daughter in law..

Having said that , childhood trauma isn't something to be worn as a badge or used as an excuse for one's behavior..a child fails to understand these things but an adult can ..and if they understand the root cause they can def work to be the better version of their parents.

Rightly said. Agreeing that childhood trauma needs healing. If only Abhir could go through this tunnel and come out as good human being considering his entire childhood so far has been traumatic, thanks to his mom! Hopefully he can heal and be a better person as an adult!

Originally posted by: Ambajee

Rightly said. Agreeing that childhood trauma needs healing. If only Abhir could go through this tunnel and come out as good human being considering his entire childhood so far has been traumatic, thanks to his mom! Hopefully he can heal and be a better person as an adult!

You have any doubt abt that ? Let's wait for the 4th gen.

And if I watched the show everyone else watches then I believe it’s Akshara who said that they both had a rough childhood. yes, you can have a full support of the family but when you see your parents fighting everyday it’s not easy and they does creat impacts on your mind. And even by surrounding everyone you feel lonely just like what Abhir is feeling now. Agree he lost his father but seeing parents always in fighting zone and torturing his mom did left impact on him as well