What people want from Akshara? - Page 6

Originally posted by: jhustju

I think Akshara should tell Abhi and Abhir the truth but not just the truth about who his bio father is. She also needs to tell him how this father threw her out and what a monster his grandmom is. Harsh was an abuser and Manjari exposed Abhi to that truth at the same age. Akshara should do the same. Also for people saying oh it was only that day that Abhi behaved like that well actions have repercussions. Aksharas carelessness and stupidity had repercussions and Abhis callousness and temper should have consequences as well. As far as Manjari she should never ever be allowed to interact with Abhir

Exactly! That person has only "loved" her as per his convenience. I don't understand why she even got back with him after he divorced her the first time around.

You know what I think the old Abhimanyu would have done back then if Akshara told him sje didn't want to be with him? He would have married Aarohi and taken away Abhir from her as well. Isn't this what he did when his ego got hurt the first time around? Oh, you don't want me? Alright then!I'll just marry your sister.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Exactly! That person has only "loved" her as per his convenience. I don't understand why she even got back with him after he divorced her the first time around.

I kinda do... Some people need multiple jolts before they finally learn their lesson. I, too, used to fall in that category.

It's not that they are blind to the situation. It's just that they are not willing to accept it and face the music. It's hard to accept that someone you love and have loved for a long time (though not the case in AbhiRa's situation) is not even worthy of your respect, forget love.

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

You think it would be so easy?

She would tell Abhi, one of our kids survived, but I don't want the toxicity in my life, so I will move on, and Abhi will be like okay dear,as you wish, let's just co-parent but.

If Abhi was this understanding, things wouldn't have been the way they are today.

And you think co-parenting is easy for the kid?

No way, it's 10 times more difficult. I have seen my friends whose parents are into co-parenting, the kids are made to stay with their mother during weekdays, and then they need to shift to their father's place during the weekends or summer holidays, which takes a toll on their mental health, social life and education.

Every kid wants their parents to be together. Once Abhir gets to know the truth, he would want his real parents to be together, how much ever he loves Abhinav, irrespective of that. And it's not easy to explain the nuances of relationship and family dynamics to a 6 year old kid, how much ever mature and understanding the kid might be, he is a still a kid, and Sharma family and Kausali is his safety net.

Telling the truth to Abhir will not only complicate his life but also his parents life.

But I have a strong feeling even if truth is told to Abhir about his real parents...

He will still choose Abhinav....

I have seen Yeh Hai Mohabbatein....where Ruhi choose her Ishima over her biological parents....and it was such a sweet mother daughter bond story ..

I hope makers do this here too as it's too good to see Abhir Nav bond .

Yeh hain mohabbatein was different because their Ruhi's biological mother was showing to be negative, she did not care about the kid, and Ruhi received motherly love for the first time from Ishita.

But here, that is not the case. Abhir likes Abhimanyu, in a way he kind of idolized him as well.

Nor is Abhimanyu like Shagun.

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

Yeh hain mohabbatein was different because their Ruhi's biological mother was showing to be negative, she did not care about the kid, and Ruhi received motherly love for the first time from Ishita.

But here, that is not the case. Abhir likes Abhimanyu, in a way he kind of idolized him as well.

Nor is Abhimanyu like Shagun.

Maybe....but Abhinav loved Abhir unconditionally for 6yrs...did everything for him ..his love is pure towards Abhir...just because Abhimanyu is biological father it's not logical and right that Abhir should forget Abhinav completely and happily live with Abhimanyu and Akshara ..and throw away Abhinav like a tissue paper...

And yes . Abhimanyu maynot be negative like Shagun but he is also toxic .who threw away his just miscarriaged wife with divorce papers and said he has nothing to do with Akshara even it is about their kid ...never once went to see how Akshara is who he claimed to love so deeply....

I agree, even I would want Abhir to choose Abhimanyu, people have become obsessed with biological relations, real and the most beautiful relations are formed by heart.

And Abhir is Abhinav's heart.

Originally posted by: shubhK2308

I agree, even I would want Abhir to choose Abhimanyu, people have become obsessed with biological relations, real and the most beautiful relations are formed by heart.

And Abhir is Abhinav's heart.

Yes..Dil se Dil ka rishta