What people want from Akshara? - Page 5

I honestly don’t believe Akshu is shown weak or is weak .. she didn’t marry Abhinav because she couldn’t take care of the child .. anyway post marriage also she was the one handling equal responsibility of the child, managing the finances , helped Nav move from a tour guide to owner of 2-3 taxis , running a small business , ensuring a good upbringing and education for her child .. I believe the marriage was out of practical reasons that it will be very obvious to her family that it is her and Abhi’s child if she is single and after waiting till her delivery she didn’t want to keep hoping for a future with Abhimanyu .. and she didn’t want confrontations, toxicity , legal hassles I. Her life .. and probably after the way Nav stepped up on the day of delivery and what he did for the new born .. knowing his biggest wish is to have a family , fill those frames , she decided the only way to repay him is by giving him a family which in her eyes GE earned .. of course this is how I see it .. Akshara is one of the strongest characters in this gen as far as I am concerned ..

Originally posted by: Bedardiya27

Yes it manish met Abhir when he was four yes May be he thought he was big for a three year old. But Manish specifically mentioned that he had met Abhir when he was very little. That would mean when he was 1 or 2. There is no way he could have made a mistake then. Also how heartless were the Goenka ladies that they did not even think of Akshara coming back for delivery. It is obvious that they use nairas kids whenever it is beneficial to them. The only grandkid they love is Arohi and now Ruhi.

Originally posted by: solembaum

She does not need to stop the wedding to the Mayan if father wants it right ? It is the fathers choice and if she does not intend to go back to him , how is it any different if he marries Arohi or someone else? It is not really incest in the real world if he married Arohi .. I don’t like it because of personal opinions .. but if Abhimanyu has no problem in marrying the sister of his ex wife and wife of his dead brother .. why should Akshara stop him? Why is it her responsibility ? If it is just co parenting that will ultimately happen, then he can be married to anyone right ? And they will need to work it out .. but truth has to be complete truth .. not just a plain he is your father truth .. it should be told that father threw out the mother and refused to speak to her .. but imagine which mother would want to tell this to a 6 year old ? The full truth ? Otherwise how convenient for Abhimanyu and family .. child will only know glamorous and sweet dicman and liar mother who kept him away from his father just like that ..I don’t know if any mother tells such things at such an age .. else like Nav , Muskaan everyone it will be your papa is great , Mahaan , best and kid will also wonder mother alone is bad for telling him lies .. already they diluted the initial bond that was between Abhir and Akshara and Abhinav by making that sequence of Abhir hiding his illness .. that was such a bad way of building connection with Abhimanyu .. but anyway I just hope the truth will be the whole truth and not a simple she kept you from your papa and lied to you ..

When the truth comes out, it won’t/can’t be just plain he is your father truth. Abhir would have questions, isn’t it? And I hope he gets age appropriate answers to them. All his life, he knew Nav as his father and suddenly he will know Nav isn’t his father but docman is. So the way truth comes out to him will impact his view of things.

The most sensible thing parents can do in such difficult situations is to talk to the child and answer his questions in age-appropriate manner giving him lots of reassurance of their love and support - which is what Ak/Nav should have done in telling Abhir about his illness too rather than lying to the child. He would of course find the truth out at some point - like he guessed why his surgery was of heart and not tummy when parents said it was tummy trouble. Kids are little and have limited understanding but they are not dumb, they absorb a lot from their surroundings and leaving things to their interpretation often leads to more harm. Hence my view that Ak should be the one thinking abt this and telling him. But given the current situation, she herself is hell bent on avoiding the situation, how is she going to explain it to her child.

As regards to whole truth, there has been constant debate/discussion even among us grown-up viewers as there are different views/opinions about it - expecting a child to comprehend all that and pick sides is a big ask really. Even in the story, after knowing both sides, Nav and Muskan don’t really hate Abhi shows it’s not a straight forward black and white situation.

But writer need to carry forward the story and create more drama, so I think the way they might do that is by straining Abhir/Ak relation and Roohi/Abhi relation. This is my prediction of the way things are headed but writers might have more “amazing” ways to “amaze” us in the future though!!

I think Akshara should tell Abhi and Abhir the truth but not just the truth about who his bio father is. She also needs to tell him how this father threw her out and what a monster his grandmom is. Harsh was an abuser and Manjari exposed Abhi to that truth at the same age. Akshara should do the same. Also for people saying oh it was only that day that Abhi behaved like that well actions have repercussions. Aksharas carelessness and stupidity had repercussions and Abhis callousness and temper should have consequences as well. As far as Manjari she should never ever be allowed to interact with Abhir

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

I do not think it's because he thought she is having an affair but the stranger guy knowing the details of his life and and telling him about his dead babies . If he was that sort of guy then they wouldn't have ever reconciled after she ran away and abandoned him for one year with khera.

he suffered the trauma of loosing his brother and children and to top it of all the anxiety pills which he eats like gems might be one of the causes.

It nowhere justifies his shit behaviour and his actions definitely needs redeemption but I do not think it's right on aksharas part to hide abhir from him. She could instead say abhir is your biological son but my kid does not deserve a toxic family and person like you therefore stay away.

That would have made me root for her instead of lying through her teeth

I mean I kinda understand where you're coming from, and I too would have preferred if she hadn't lied, but I do not feel that she needs to go and announce it to him. The only person she owes the truth to is her son, IMO.

I do not feel Akshara owes Abhimanyu anything including the truth. She doesn't need to go out of her way to inform him, but she shouldn't have gone out of her way to hide Abhir's true identity either. She just needs to rectify her mistake of changing Abhir's parentage. But doing so will have repercussions now that their lives are entangled yet again. Like the whole situation could have easily been avoided had Akshara just put "Abhi" as father's name. It would have been more ambiguous than a lie then.

I acknowledge that my POV on this is kinda twisted, but this entire situation is convoluted.

I'd be furious if I were Akshara. Like dude, you saw what I went through because of that guy. How could you be so accepting (I wouldn't say forgiving because it's okay to forgive for your own sanity, but it's annoying how Abhinav has him and his familia placed on a pedestal) of a person who caused your beloved this much agony?

Originally posted by: surbhi163

Yes Abhimanyu deserves the truth, but after total redemption. His deeds cannot be whitewashed just because he cried for 2 days . He just went on to get engaged after that. No one could move on that fast. This is no redemption.

He still thinks manjari is a God while she has made mockery of every single relationship. What will she do if she knows of abhir? She doesn't even want Akshara to stay in Udaipur and the rest of birlas 🤢

I just wish their lives hadn't intertwined this much while Akshara was actively trying to conceal the truth. It would have been better had she been ambiguous with the father's identity rather than lying.

Don't get me wrong, Abhinav is more of a father to Abhir than Abhimanyu Birla could ever be and has every right to be acknowledged as a father by Abhir, but that doesn't change biology and the fact that there is some lying involved.

While Akshara itself still behaves as an slave to manjari what could Abhinav do..

Abhinav's basic character is to not judge anyone based on their past.... he applies the same logic to Abhi and his family.

Exactly! He was such a disappointment in that aspect.

Originally posted by: surbhi163

While Akshara itself still behaves as an slave to manjari what could Abhinav do..

Abhinav's basic character is to not judge anyone based on their past.... he applies the same logic to Abhi and his family.

Facts.

I'd be more furious at myself if I were Akshara for crawling back to them and still addressing Manjari as ma 🤢🤮