What people want from Akshara? - Page 4

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

Jab jab kisi ne Akshara ke face par yeh bola ki usne apne baccho ko khoya hai tab tab uss ek dead baby ke bare mai sabne bilkul sahi kaha lekin what about that poor ALIVE CHILD? ALIVE CHILD ka kya galti hai jo usko duniya Mara hua samje , dead samje?!

Baap ne phone nahi uthaya , maa ne zyada attempt karna zaruri nahi samja toh isme uss ALIVE CHILD ka kya galti?
As a mother I fail to understand ki koi maa kaise yeh sun sakti hai?!

The fear of getting her lies exposed is >>>> for akshara it seems

Ek Zinda bache ki maut ka matam kaise manane de sakti hai koi bhi parent

When Aarohi called Akshara falsely accusing Abhimanyu of conspiring about Rudra, sje straight out denied it,that her Abhimanyu would never do something like that. But Abhimanyu Birla did not trust the person who he claimed to love sooooo deeply even when she told him that she had the proof of his innocence and got Kairav and Manish arrested after making a public spectacle out of the Goenkas. What a great husband he is. And with Khera she shouldn't have "run away" with him. She should have just let Abhimanyu die.

She said if Abhinav does not consider them as his own then they would not want to be a burden on him. Apples and oranges here.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

“What people want from Akshara “🤔

Dunia mai ek bhi insaan agar mere bacche ko galti se mara hua maan kar uska maatam manaye toh I can’t tolerate. This is my personal feeling when it comes to child.
I really don’t like it jab abhir ko mara hua baccha samaj kar uska baap uska maatam manata hai.
Apne zinda bacche ko mara hua samaj kar dusre partner ko uska maatam manane dene se accha hai CO-PARENTING.
Muje personal level par chahe kitna bhi ex-husband and uski family uncomfortable lagti ho, I can’t allow anyone to think my child as “dead”.

It’s not mandatory to get back to each other for child’s sake. Divorce is everyone’s right and no one can force you to stay with incompatible partner but kisi ko apne bacche ko “dead” samaj kar uska maatam nahi manane dena chahiye.
Baap ne phone nahi uthaya isme bacche ka kya galti jo uski maut ka maatam manane dete ho ‘ 🤮

Aisi maa bhi hoti hai kya jo apne zinda bacche ki maut ka maatam kisi ko manane de! 🤮

jo log iss bacche ka sach janna deserve bhi nehi karte unke pass vo chale jane k darr se maatam manane de rahi na vo...to itna kya bada crime hai...baccha to zinda hai uske khud k pass and vo khud k pass sahi salamat happy rahe isilie aisa hone de rahi...

Originally posted by: DotDash

From what they have shown so far, I don’t think BP knows. I agree if you see a young kid specially until age of 2.5 - 3 years, you can easily judge how old they are. Beyond that age it can be a little tricky to tell exactly, specially if kid is smaller or bigger for his age. So may be BP met him when he was 4 and they passed him off as 3years. Not sure how Sharmas pulled it off though, but just guessing as they haven’t shown anything abt it.

PS: My child was born 2 months premature with low birth weight and was always smaller for his age. After 2-3 years, he could pass off as a year younger.

But looking at Abhir, he doesn’t look smaller for his age (may be just a casting challenge).

Yes it manish met Abhir when he was four yes May be he thought he was big for a three year old. But Manish specifically mentioned that he had met Abhir when he was very little. That would mean when he was 1 or 2. There is no way he could have made a mistake then. Also how heartless were the Goenka ladies that they did not even think of Akshara coming back for delivery. It is obvious that they use nairas kids whenever it is beneficial to them. The only grandkid they love is Arohi and now Ruhi.

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

When Aarohi called Akshara falsely accusing Abhimanyu of conspiring about Rudra, sje straight out denied it,that her Abhimanyu would never do something like that. But Abhimanyu Birla did not trust the person who he claimed to love sooooo deeply even when she told him that she had the proof of his innocence and got Kairav and Manish arrested after making a public spectacle out of the Goenkas. What a great husband he is. And with Khera she shouldn't have "run away" with him. She should have just let Abhimanyu die.

She said if Abhinav does not consider them as his own then they would not want to be a burden on him. Apples and oranges here.

I feel abhimanyu would have done the same if arohi called him and told the same thing about akshara and by that time akshu was also aware of arohis true colors. But running away abandoning some one and then coming back and expecting some one to trust is plain stupidity

Thia is not the first time Abhimanyu has not trusted Akshara. Did he trust her when she said she didn't leak Neil's paternity? She had not given any reason for him to distrust her back then. Or when she said Aarohi had ulterior motives behind marrying Neil? Truth of the matter is Abhimanyu has never once trusted Akshara without her having to give him proofs to back her up. But Akshara has always trusted him blindly.

Abhimanyu wanted to abort the kids because he didn't want Akshara to die. Lets assume that Akshara was the one who was getting operated by Khera(a female surgeon) and there was no way Abhimanyu could have outsmarted her. Would he choose to let Akshara die or would he choose one year of separation?

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

Thia is not the first time Abhimanyu has not trusted Akshara. Did he trust her when she said she didn't leak Neil's paternity? She had not given any reason for him to distrust her back then. Or when she said Aarohi had ulterior motives behind marrying Neil? Truth of the matter is Abhimanyu has never once trusted Akshara without her having to give him proofs to back her up. But Akshara has always trusted him blindly.

Abhimanyu wanted to abort the kids because he didn't want Akshara to die. Lets assume that Akshara was the one who was getting operated by Khera(a female surgeon) and there was no way Abhimanyu could have outsmarted her. Would he chosen to let Akshara die or would he chosen one year of separation?

I want her to be strong self sufficient so that if tomorrow nav dies she should not go to abhi because abhir needs a father in life but she should go to abhi because she thinks he has been redeemed completely and she has enough trust on him

Akshu is shown weak till now. I definitely want her to be stronger in the future and as per me she married nav for abhir. I don't want her to do that again.

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

I want her to be strong self sufficient so that if tomorrow nav dies she should not go to abhi because abhir needs a father in life but she should go to abhi because she thinks he has been redeemed completely and she has enough trust on him

Akshu is shown weak till now. I definitely want her to be stronger in the future and as per me she married nav for abhir. I don't want her to do that again.

Same. This is what I want to see.

You think it would be so easy?

She would tell Abhi, one of our kids survived, but I don't want the toxicity in my life, so I will move on, and Abhi will be like okay dear,as you wish, let's just co-parent but.

If Abhi was this understanding, things wouldn't have been the way they are today.

And you think co-parenting is easy for the kid?

No way, it's 10 times more difficult. I have seen my friends whose parents are into co-parenting, the kids are made to stay with their mother during weekdays, and then they need to shift to their father's place during the weekends or summer holidays, which takes a toll on their mental health, social life and education.

Every kid wants their parents to be together. Once Abhir gets to know the truth, he would want his real parents to be together, how much ever he loves Abhinav, irrespective of that. And it's not easy to explain the nuances of relationship and family dynamics to a 6 year old kid, how much ever mature and understanding the kid might be, he is a still a kid, and Sharma family and Kausali is his safety net.

Telling the truth to Abhir will not only complicate his life but also his parents life.