What people want from Akshara? - Page 3

Originally posted by: surbhi163

Why does everyone expect Akshara to divulge Abhir's truth to Abhimanyu?

She tried calling him even after he threw her out just hours after her miscarriage.

He said he had nothing to do with her or their child. (One could argue he was angry, no good dad in any state of mind would utter this sentence about their child).

6 Years later, she had built her happy family, one where she doesn't have to prove herself every second.

Secondly, how could she even be sure Abhi has had redemption, he never even apologized in the mandir, after that she never saw him.

Even after the first leap, he said he has realized his mistake and apologized to her , but hey 6 months later we saw the same thing again.

He has negative character built, he is the same toxic man who threw her out. What if he does the same to Abhir if he does something to Ruhi?

Because she will lose her son’s trust if she doesn’t tell the truth to Abhir and for that she needs to tell the truth to Abhi too.

From where the story is only Ak, Nav and Muskan know about Abhir’s parentage, no one in gorillas know. So if the Abhi-Ar marriage happens, how is she going to explain it to Abhir that she stood by watching his father get married to his mausi, creating a mess of relationships for him.

Ignore Nav, Muskan here as sides and they are quite because Ak asked them to but the same applies to them also. And gorillas do not know anything so they are discounted too in papa-bane-mausa fiasco. Even after the truth is known and wedding happens atleast she can face her son knowing she did everything in her right to straighten things.

She doesn’t need to know about Abhi’s redemption or his regret because she doesn’t need to go back to him or trust him. But she needs to trust herself. She is studying law and can give big lectures to get Nav out, but can’t do the same for her son?

Originally posted by: DotDash

If they were separate and had never met again, it is justified that she doesn’t seek Abhi out to tell him, but when Abhir-Abhi met, she needs to tell the truth for Abhir’s sake. She told her son a white lie when he asked “docman mere kya lagte hai”.

Because she will lose her son’s trust if she doesn’t tell the truth to Abhir and for that she needs to tell the truth to Abhi too.

From where the story is only Ak, Nav and Muskan know about Abhir’s parentage, no one in gorillas know. So if the Abhi-Ar marriage happens, how is she going to explain it to Abhir that she stood by watching his father get married to his mausi, creating a mess of relationships for him.

Ignore Nav, Muskan here as sides and they are quite because Ak asked them to but the same applies to them also. And gorillas do not know anything so they are discounted too in papa-bane-mausa fiasco. Even after the truth is known and wedding happens atleast she can face her son knowing she did everything in her right to straighten things.

She doesn’t need to know about Abhi’s redemption or his regret because she doesn’t need to go back to him or trust him. But she needs to trust herself. She is studying law and can give big lectures to get Nav out, but can’t do the same for her son?

see this is what I don’t understand, how do the goenkas not know about Abhir? I mean at least Manish should know. If Akshara told him about her marriage she would have told them when she had the baby. Also manish did mention that he saw Abhir when he was little. You can defiantly tell how old a kid is when they are that young. I have a feeling Manish knows but is not saying anything since Arohi May her hurt since that has been their justification for treating Akshara like crap since Neil died. The whole thing makes me think that secretly all of them hate Naira and love sirat since time and again Naira’s kids are treated like they are disposable and Arohi is treated as if she is a princess

Maybe she should tell Abhir the truth, but not just a part of the truth,the entire truth about how his father kicked his mother out of his house when she lost his brother/sister and how he said he didn't want anything to do with Akshara and her child. Lets see of the kid will still continue to love his docman.

She does not need to stop the wedding to the Mayan if father wants it right ? It is the fathers choice and if she does not intend to go back to him , how is it any different if he marries Arohi or someone else? It is not really incest in the real world if he married Arohi .. I don’t like it because of personal opinions .. but if Abhimanyu has no problem in marrying the sister of his ex wife and wife of his dead brother .. why should Akshara stop him? Why is it her responsibility ? If it is just co parenting that will ultimately happen, then he can be married to anyone right ? And they will need to work it out .. but truth has to be complete truth .. not just a plain he is your father truth .. it should be told that father threw out the mother and refused to speak to her .. but imagine which mother would want to tell this to a 6 year old ? The full truth ? Otherwise how convenient for Abhimanyu and family .. child will only know glamorous and sweet dicman and liar mother who kept him away from his father just like that ..I don’t know if any mother tells such things at such an age .. else like Nav , Muskaan everyone it will be your papa is great , Mahaan , best and kid will also wonder mother alone is bad for telling him lies .. already they diluted the initial bond that was between Abhir and Akshara and Abhinav by making that sequence of Abhir hiding his illness .. that was such a bad way of building connection with Abhimanyu .. but anyway I just hope the truth will be the whole truth and not a simple she kept you from your papa and lied to you ..

Also, a quick reminder of what Nav did for the child is quite enough why he is the father of Abhir.

I am not denying that Abhi won't have done the same thing but he wasn't there and the question is why wasn't he. Oh yeah he was supporting Aru in her normal (probably ivf) pregnancy.

I think now that he also knows what exactly happened that day he should be considered and be in debt to Nav.

What i think they are going to show Nav vs Abhi not for Akshu but Abhir. Like if Abhi got it Abhi is his son he will thank nav like Mere bete k liye apne itna kiya and Nav will be like mera Beta and all

“What people want from Akshara “🤔

Dunia mai ek bhi insaan agar mere bacche ko galti se mara hua maan kar uska maatam manaye toh I can’t tolerate. This is my personal feeling when it comes to child.
I really don’t like it jab abhir ko mara hua baccha samaj kar uska baap uska maatam manata hai.
Apne zinda bacche ko mara hua samaj kar dusre partner ko uska maatam manane dene se accha hai CO-PARENTING.
Muje personal level par chahe kitna bhi ex-husband and uski family uncomfortable lagti ho, I can’t allow anyone to think my child as “dead”.

It’s not mandatory to get back to each other for child’s sake. Divorce is everyone’s right and no one can force you to stay with incompatible partner but kisi ko apne bacche ko “dead” samaj kar uska maatam nahi manane dena chahiye.
Baap ne phone nahi uthaya isme bacche ka kya galti jo uski maut ka maatam manane dete ho ‘ 🤮

Aisi maa bhi hoti hai kya jo apne zinda bacche ki maut ka maatam kisi ko manane de! 🤮

Originally posted by: Kacchakela21

He did not reconcile with her immediately though. His first instinct amd action after she came back was to divorce her. Only after she proved her innocence he wanted her back in his life. Even then, I did not like the dialogues he said to armtwist her jnto giving in "saath hjne mein hi samajdari hai, samaj dao " n all that BS. Did he even apologize to her properly after the 1st divorce fiasco. No.

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

“What people want from Akshara “🤔

Dunia mai ek bhi insaan agar mere bacche ko galti se mara hua maan kar uska maatam manaye toh I can’t tolerate. This is my personal feeling when it comes to child.
I really don’t like it jab abhir ko mara hua baccha samaj kar uska baap uska maatam manata hai.
Apne zinda bacche ko mara hua samaj kar dusre partner ko uska maatam manane dene se accha hai CO-PARENTING.
Muje personal level par chahe kitna bhi ex-husband and uski family uncomfortable lagti ho, I can’t allow anyone to think my child as “dead”.

It’s not mandatory to get back to each other for child’s sake. Divorce is everyone’s right and no one can force you to stay with incompatible partner but kisi ko apne bacche ko “dead” samaj kar uska maatam nahi manane dena chahiye.
Baap ne phone nahi uthaya isme bacche ka kya galti jo uski maut ka maatam manane dete ho ‘ 🤮

Aisi maa bhi hoti hai kya jo apne zinda bacche ki maut ka maatam kisi ko manane de! 🤮

Kitni baar bola Gaya akshu ne apne bacho kho diye, their babies died but she didn't utter a word to correct one of my son is alive but she didn't utter a single word. This is my gripe with mr and mrs. Acha admi just say one of my baby survived but I don't want this toxicity in my life and move on

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

this exactly

Kitni baar bola Gaya akshu ne apne bacho kho diye, their babies died but she didn't utter a word to correct one of my son is alive but she didn't utter a single word. This is my gripe with mr and mrs. Acha admi just say one of my baby survived but I don't want this toxicity in my life and move on

Baap ne phone nahi uthaya , maa ne zyada attempt karna zaruri nahi samja toh isme uss ALIVE CHILD ka kya galti?
As a mother I fail to understand ki koi maa kaise yeh sun sakti hai?!

Originally posted by: Bedardiya27

see this is what I don’t understand, how do the goenkas not know about Abhir? I mean at least Manish should know. If Akshara told him about her marriage she would have told them when she had the baby. Also manish did mention that he saw Abhir when he was little. You can defiantly tell how old a kid is when they are that young. I have a feeling Manish knows but is not saying anything since Arohi May her hurt since that has been their justification for treating Akshara like crap since Neil died. The whole thing makes me think that secretly all of them hate Naira and love sirat since time and again Naira’s kids are treated like they are disposable and Arohi is treated as if she is a princess

PS: My child was born 2 months premature with low birth weight and was always smaller for his age. After 2-3 years, he could pass off as a year younger.

But looking at Abhir, he doesn’t look smaller for his age (may be just a casting challenge).