Originally posted by: PV_IFhandle
So here in this video, at 1:32 PD's mom actually tells Arunita "le tu pakad le" when the Panditji hands over that ceremonial offering. So at least it is not that she was unhappy or angry about Aurunita taking that from the Panditji.
Later from 2:15 onwards Jyotideep is not in her place but standing nearby and she is talking with Arunita who seems to be kneeling rather than sitting down (judging from the position of her head relative to others). At this time OD's mom is talking about either Jyoti or Arunita when she says "rasam mein baithna chahiye..." and some more things which are not clearly audible. Note that rasam here means rituals, not the rasam that is the South Indian food :). Then PD, Chandni and PD's dad all seem to be touching her arm and asking her to chill.
So all in all it appears more to be a case of so much acceptance as to be comfortable enough to point out what to do in rituals, how to sit, etc. rather than being angry about something.
Another thing I noticed while searching for this video. Arunita seems to be the only one to whom Chandni returned the favour of putting haldi on the cheeks. The comfort level / friendliness is quite high.
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