Housemates were heartless and insensitive towards Afsana - Page 5

I blame BB here for not calling her when she broke down in the garden and repeatedly asked to speak to BB. Instead they were cashing on her to bring their TRPs out of the gutter by broadcasting her entire breakdown.

One of the houseguests should have made her sit outside the CR away from the crowd and given her an opportunity to calm down. Sadly she had no true ally in the house.

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I am not a medical pedson, and yet i can understand what is happening. And i am sure they all do too.

And bb just cashed this to provide voyeuristic pleasure to its audiences. So yeah if i can understand and empathise, without being a doctor. I am sure they all can do too.

I am a mom of a kid on autism spectrum and various other comorbidities associated. Along with medical help and threpies, i found kindess of people, acceptance and empathy equally helpful. So i speak from experience

I have no intention to argue whether medical science is bigger or whether humanity. Both, imo. And my point was never that awareness is below kindness, my point was even if people do not understand things, they can still show kindness. So, for me kindness is not up for debate. :)

And yes,again reiterating, i do not have any kind of medical background. So i may not have exact terms and labels. But i do understand that anyone can show kindness without knowing any of the terms,

Afsanas situation asked for RATIONALITY rather than kindness. Yes people with mental health issues requires kindness , but not at the cost of one's own safety and safety of the concerned individual. sometimes showing kindness to a highly volatile individual like afsana will do her more bad than good.

The best thing others could have done was to stop arguing with her , call for help from bb.

Kindness, acceptance and empathy will enable the affected individual to have a normal place in society.iam no way undermining the importance of above mentioned qualities.

I have stopped expecting kindness or empathy for mentaly ill people. Now I merely expect some sort of understanding from family and friends when we repeatedly educate them regarding the illness and its treatment. I used to feel bad when people show disdain for mentally ill people, but my experience have taught me not to always berate others or look down upon them for not showing kindness or for not acting in a way which I want them to act.

Agree with your point that bb have stooped so low , making trp out of one's vulnerability. Its pathetic 😒

Originally posted by: KJasoosChulbulP

I have stopped watching episodes…. From what I read about what happened today. I am so glad I didn’t watch.

consistent view is that it’s good for affo to be evicted. It’s for her own good. Accepted …

Anyways. As a viewer I want justice for the following to be evicted for heensa

Pratik - week 1. Instead of his house. The house got dand

Karan - he patkoaoed pratik
Simba - pushed Umar

Shamita for using ✂️ While fighting physically for map pieces.

these were all actual acts of violence.

And in any case. We know what’s going to happen on wkv. Shamita has already given dhamkees to a few that they gonna be sorted this wkv. So ofc that will happen.

I don’t believe that I watched a worst season of BB in the few I seen. It’s only worse that I did think OTT was better even more so now despite KJo (I know I know. I am in minority on this)

Ps. Mumbaikar how is weather you at. From tomorrow we in cold backwaas :(. Sad….. winter sucks

WKV pe toh kuch honi jani nahi hai. I fully expect Salman to present Shamita with the Nobel Peace prize on Saturday for her mistreatment of Afsana. And maybe even give Shamita the Prime Minstership of India. I kid. He won't do that. We know why. Because he doesn't have the power. That's the only reason. Otherwise he would have.

Weather to filhal theek hai yaar. Looks like 19th se kadak winter shuru hone wala hai.

Originally posted by: BeingBlunt

Bold 1: I watched the episodes for most part ( Till the 19th over😆, Uske baad i watched match and went to burst crackers🥳) and i agree with this. First of all Afsana shouldnt have accepted to come inside with such problems. Or BB team should have done proper scanning and checking of contestants mental health. But they brought her for controversy.

Then whatever happened in house, i see it only as afsana mistake, no one else. Its a survival of the fittest game , these things will happen. DEAL WITH IT.

And if BB said afsana was evicted because of violence, its totally wrong. the wordings should have been different but the decision was right. Its not safe for anyone to have such a psycho in the house. I never saw the likeable/watchable/good behaviour that people somehow saw and kept praising her from time to time.

@bold 2: Totally disagree. 😆 This is one of the good ones that i remember. Maybe if you watched s13 then it would have been a bit diff.

Her eviction decision was fair

She has mental health issues and needs therapy immediately

I find her good hearted and genuine thats why I started liking plus her spontaneous humour

I will held bb team accountable though as they didn't acted til affo took put knife

And even milking her footage of mental illness

Biasedness was max in bb13 and they used to ruin every game of opponents ,even tasks bhi

Hats of to rashmo and asim who stopped caring about host biased opinion

I feel if jasoos had watched bb13 ,winner uska fav banta

And aisa supprt and Biasedness maine kabhi nahi dekha before bb13

Violence get normalized and defended and poking become bigger crime than violence

Bb15 mai favouritism to shamita is more like appeasing the queen and in turn get her more reactions

Wapas finale mai haaregi

Originally posted by: Shaitan-Haiwan

Am I the only one who doesn’t see the “housemates” fault in this ?

It’s the makers fault for bringing her and Afsana did say a lot of horrible vulgar stuff. The knife thing was really really bad too!

Also, the second she stepped into the confession room her tone became normal.

I’m sad because I did find her funny a number of times. Wish she had a better graph than this

She was a total gawti gawar, suited for villages and small towns

Originally posted by: BeingBlunt

Bold 1: I watched the episodes for most part ( Till the 19th over😆, Uske baad i watched match and went to burst crackers🥳) and i agree with this. First of all Afsana shouldnt have accepted to come inside with such problems. Or BB team should have done proper scanning and checking of contestants mental health. But they brought her for controversy.

Then whatever happened in house, i see it only as afsana mistake, no one else. Its a survival of the fittest game , these things will happen. DEAL WITH IT.

And if BB said afsana was evicted because of violence, its totally wrong. the wordings should have been different but the decision was right. Its not safe for anyone to have such a psycho in the house. I never saw the likeable/watchable/good behaviour that people somehow saw and kept praising her from time to time.

@bold 2: Totally disagree. 😆 This is one of the good ones that i remember. Maybe if you watched s13 then it would have been a bit diff.

Bhai -- Affo was extremely geniune and amazingly entertaining. However, she had clearly issues where she crossed lines and lost control... I never said she should not be evicted or blame others...in fact she is not good at handling issues in house she because she is genuine and cant handle bb dynamics etc.... which means i agree with you... this is not show for her and good she is gone ...

But I did like BB OTT tbh.... I didnt see BB13 :) good for me..

Originally posted by: Molly555

sorry to disagree. Awareness and treatment is more important. Because if one is really kind , then should help others get treatment for mental health.That is the best thing one can do for anyone with mental health issues.

LOVE IS NOT A TREATMENT. It can only aid in treatment.

I completely agree and I am in agreement of your other points as well. It is very easy to say one should do this when we are watching it in safety of our home and nothing to worry about. In that situation last thing anyone should do is hug her.
She was having a full blown episode and I wonder even with medication if it’s not being controlled which means she is extremely stressed. It isn’t a place for her, She needs serious help and she needs calm environment that will help her. Let’s hope this is a lesson for her family who should have taken her out after that first outburst.

The irony in all this is —- safety of self and HMs …

✂️ Is exceptionally dangerous in the situation used by shammo.

Simba ka push could have led to fatal serious injuries (what if he landed in pool and head banged on the side etc)?

Karan - what if the concrete on floor was not meelavatee? Or pratik fell In a diff way

Glass break by pratik . Sallu himself said could have led to 100+ stitches. And he banged walls next week also on gallees.

Let’s be honest. There are extremely dangerous behaviors too. And let’s hold the same standard of safety …. They too should be evicted. (Not saying affo should not as I am actually glad she is not there anymore and out of the madhouse which is not well suited for her).

Is shammo ka mental health ok after what seen in OTT but her question on whether tripping someone running at full speed. (Forget just tripping but someone at full speed) and if it would be considered bal ka prayog vs potential injuries ? I don’t even know who exactly bashed Donal the way she got hurt. Btw…

Suyash. I think you misunderstood my prev post on this as violence. But violence is bad due to safety.. safety for self and/or others. Feel free to convince me otherwise (without comparing to other seasons and lack of BB. Actions / BB bias) that those aren’t serious safety concerns In the house.

Originally posted by: Mumbaikar007

WKV pe toh kuch honi jani nahi hai. I fully expect Salman to present Shamita with the Nobel Peace prize on Saturday for her mistreatment of Afsana. And maybe even give Shamita the Prime Minstership of India. I kid. He won't do that. We know why. Because he doesn't have the power. That's the only reason. Otherwise he would have.

Weather to filhal theek hai yaar. Looks like 19th se kadak winter shuru hone wala hai.

mera weather bad already. :(. So sad…. 🥲🥲🥲

And yeah. I think this wkv sallu coming With special power to send someone to VIP room directly. And u know who is going to enter there with that :). I don’t know if they change it last minute to a guest doing it. Chances are it’s him.

And great stuff. Bapat escaped sure shot elimination and returning to house I heard. 🤣

I think @dedhshani and @vibha28 have the most sensitive and accurate answers to the post.

This looks more like anger issues compared to panic/ anxiey attacks. I had a close friend who had panic attacks often and it is not something easy to snap out the way Afsana had done. Another thing is even though it was panic attacks, the last thing you should be doing to a person having them is crowding around him or her.

Umar is a medical professional and knows on a basic level how to deal with things like this. It was best that others stayed out of the way. There is nothing about being a man and hugging her in fact some people hate physical contact when having a panic attack. He dealt with like a doctor👏 and it was for the best that no other person stepped in.

The game is such that there will be fights and people will provoke each other. The other day everyone was provoking her saying ki 'tera katta' even when she was clearly getting agitated... but that cand of manipulation is part of the game. Now I am not excusing anyones behaviour. I think Jay, Rajiv, Neha and Shamita continuing to reply and argue was insensitive.