Housemates were heartless and insensitive towards Afsana - Page 4

I thought BB does physical and psych evaluation of the contestants before admitting into the house. If so then how could they allow such a contestant.

NB: I am not supporting housemates actions though.

Originally posted by: Molly555

sorry to disagree. Awareness and treatment is more important. Because if one is really kind , then should help others get treatment for mental health.That is the best thing one can do for anyone with mental health issues.

LOVE IS NOT A TREATMENT. It can only aid in treatment.

Not talking about love. Talking about kindness. What i read today, there was a big huge lack of empathy and kindness in the house today. By contstants and an even bigger one by BB. Kindness is not affection ot love, its not hug and calming someone down. Kindness is understanding whatever hell someone is going through, if not understanding then atleast trying to comprehend, giving space, backing off when required, not berating and bullying when someone's going through a manic-depressive episode, slipping a glas sof water may be, just being there without words. Imo, kindness is bigger than love. And of course kindness,like love, is not a medicine to heal. Its just something very humane and its something without which world wouldnt be world.

Originally posted by: Mumbaikar007

I think it was a malicious statement from Shamita. She was trying to insinuate that Afsana might commit some kind of crime.

Not necessarily. As I said there is a term called 'maniac glint' in psychiatry. Pupils getting dilated, a strange look in the eyes contributes to it. Even if shamita said that as a malicious statement , that is what majority of people think about mentally ill patients.That they can commit crimes. Not necessarily right or wrong.

Afsana in the last episode with her mental health issues possessed serious threat to herself and others .

I have stopped watching episodes…. From what I read about what happened today. I am so glad I didn’t watch.

consistent view is that it’s good for affo to be evicted. It’s for her own good. Accepted …

Anyways. As a viewer I want justice for the following to be evicted for heensa

Pratik - week 1. Instead of his house. The house got dand

Karan - he patkoaoed pratik
Simba - pushed Umar

Shamita for using ✂️ While fighting physically for map pieces.

these were all actual acts of violence.

And in any case. We know what’s going to happen on wkv. Shamita has already given dhamkees to a few that they gonna be sorted this wkv. So ofc that will happen.

I have stopped watching episodes…. From what I read about what happened today. I am so glad I didn’t watch.

consistent view is that it’s good for affo to be evicted. It’s for her own good. Accepted …

Anyways. As a viewer I want justice for the following to be evicted for heensa

Pratik - week 1. Instead of his house. The house got dand

Karan - he patkoaoed pratik
Simba - pushed Umar

Shamita for using ✂️ While fighting physically for map pieces.

these were all actual acts of violence.

And in any case. We know what’s going to happen on wkv. Shamita has already given dhamkees to a few that they gonna be sorted this wkv. So ofc that will happen.

I don’t believe that I watched a worst season of BB in the few I seen. It’s only worse that I did think OTT was better even more so now despite KJo (I know I know. I am in minority on this)

Ps. Mumbaikar how is weather you at. From tomorrow we in cold backwaas :(. Sad….. winter sucks

Not talking about love. Talking about kindness. What i read today, there was a big huge lack of empathy and kindness in the house today. By contstants and an even bigger one by BB. Kindness is not affection ot love, its not hug and calming someone down. Kindness is understanding whatever hell someone is going through, if not understanding then atleast trying to comprehend, giving space, backing off when required, not berating and bullying when someone's going through a manic-depressive episode, slipping a glas sof water may be, just being there without words. Imo, kindness is bigger than love. And of course kindness,like love, is not a medicine to heal. Its just something very humane and its something without which world wouldnt be world.

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Can I say you are expecting too much from fellow housemates?? Except umar none has prior knowledge or exposure regarding mental health. Some are even considering that afsana have done drama.in that situation I don't expect any form of understanding from housemates. When u think someone is putting up drama , abusing other members for game they are not going to come out for support.And also post her outbreaks afsana says sorry and acts all normal.what about the hurt she has dished out to others??

And I don't think she is going through manic depressive episode. The presentation of mania and depression varies

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I am not a medical pedson, and yet i can understand what is happening. And i am sure they all do too.

And bb just cashed this to provide voyeuristic pleasure to its audiences. So yeah if i can understand and empathise, without being a doctor. I am sure they all can do too.

I am a mom of a kid on autism spectrum and various other comorbidities associated. Along with medical help and threpies, i found kindess of people, acceptance and empathy equally helpful. So i speak from experience

I have no intention to argue whether medical science is bigger or whether humanity. Both, imo. And my point was never that awareness is below kindness, my point was even if people do not understand things, they can still show kindness. So, for me kindness is not up for debate. :)

And yes,again reiterating, i do not have any kind of medical background. So i may not have exact terms and labels. But i do understand that anyone can show kindness without knowing any of the terms, anyway.

Originally posted by: KJasoosChulbulP

I have stopped watching episodes…. From what I read about what happened today. I am so glad I didn’t watch.

consistent view is that it’s good for affo to be evicted. It’s for her own good. Accepted …

Anyways. As a viewer I want justice for the following to be evicted for heensa

Pratik - week 1. Instead of his house. The house got dand

Karan - he patkoaoed pratik
Simba - pushed Umar

Shamita for using ✂️ While fighting physically for map pieces.

these were all actual acts of violence.

And in any case. We know what’s going to happen on wkv. Shamita has already given dhamkees to a few that they gonna be sorted this wkv. So ofc that will happen.

I don’t believe that I watched a worst season of BB in the few I seen. It’s only worse that I did think OTT was better even more so now despite KJo (I know I know. I am in minority on this)

Ps. Mumbaikar how is weather you at. From tomorrow we in cold backwaas :(. Sad….. winter sucks

Bold 1: I watched the episodes for most part ( Till the 19th over😆, Uske baad i watched match and went to burst crackers🥳) and i agree with this. First of all Afsana shouldnt have accepted to come inside with such problems. Or BB team should have done proper scanning and checking of contestants mental health. But they brought her for controversy.

Then whatever happened in house, i see it only as afsana mistake, no one else. Its a survival of the fittest game , these things will happen. DEAL WITH IT.

And if BB said afsana was evicted because of violence, its totally wrong. the wordings should have been different but the decision was right. Its not safe for anyone to have such a psycho in the house. I never saw the likeable/watchable/good behaviour that people somehow saw and kept praising her from time to time.

@bold 2: Totally disagree. 😆 This is one of the good ones that i remember. Maybe if you watched s13 then it would have been a bit diff.

I didn't watch the whole episode because I simply couldn't. It made me so incredibly sad for afsana and shamita is pure evil, she pushed her to this. Knowing how unsteady she is they shouldn't have plotted to do what they did with her, it was madame shetty's plotting! And the disdainful way she treated her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The poor woman needed help, needed some love, needed calming down, needed understanding and not what she got;

Anyway don't want to watch this shitty season any more.

Feeling very very sad for afsana. She is an awesome singer, they should have given her the respect she deserved instead of shamita shetty playing high class low class with her and others behaving with her as they would with other contestants who are not vulnerable like her!

and strange that just because she was not chosen for some task madam shetty makes an outrageous comment saying humanity has died in this house or something like that!!!

It was yesterday that humanity died on the show!

Am I the only one who doesn’t see the “housemates” fault in this ?

It’s the makers fault for bringing her and Afsana did say a lot of horrible vulgar stuff. The knife thing was really really bad too!

Also, the second she stepped into the confession room her tone became normal.

I’m sad because I did find her funny a number of times. Wish she had a better graph than this