Originally posted by: laksh
I was brought back to reality or should I say that we were shown that there has been absolutely no change in the Chavans or their attitude towards Sai in the past few weeks. I am not sure if I should be happy about it or not but one good thing is it doesn’t look like they have been whitewashed but they all stayed true to their characters atleast.
If this is the reality, when Virat can see how much maan and sammaan his family has been giving to Sai, he decided to take a transfer and leave Sai with this bunch of people who taunt her, insult her and humiliate her?
Even after Virat has been watching how they keep taunting Sai in her presence or in her absence, how biased they, how much hatred they have for Sai, he is upset that his transfer got cancelled?
I really want to know how did he apply for his transfer in first place. Didn’t he take Sai’s responsibility and is this how he will fulfill it? I know that he has failed many times in the past too but I do not agree that the transfer was a well needed one for their problems to end. Leaving Sai with such people and him going away for his peace, to cool down, for their relationship to get a break doesn’t seem the right thing to do. Is it all about him and the relationship? If he needs a break, the girl also needs a break from the Chavan family. If he is hurt and he needs to stay away from Sai, doesn’t he have so much maturity to handle in a way that one should be by staying indifferent, by talking less with Sai, by avoiding confrontation or arguments with her staying in the same house? Why is his transfer necessary for him to cool down or from him to take a break? Can’t the same be handled graciously?
Hasn’t Sai been living in this house after everything she has been put through? His advice is not applicable to him when he said that she should take this as a challenge and win the love of his family members? Why couldn’t he win the love of Sai? Why couldn’t he stay back and win over his hurt or anger? Why couldn’t he stay back and act like a human even his feelings aren’t getting reciprocated? They all act inhuman with Sai, so much that they were getting pleasure looking at the girl’s burnt hands while grinding chilly and because she was getting late unable to attend her college and he expected that she wins the heart of such people but he cannot win the heart of a woman who speaks bitter, who has a harsh exterior but whose intentions has always been right and good, who is so compassionate?
I have really never appreciated marriage and especially this deal marriage as a solution that Virat gave for Sai’s issues at GC too. In this whole thing, the girl is in his house not for her act like his lover or his wife. That was not in picture at all in first place. He has had a change of heart doesn’t mean she needs to too. The only truth that remains is the word that he gave to the villagers that he will take the responsibility of his daughter, the waada that he gave to his mentor that he will take care or protect his daughter.
And that itself is getting lost by Virat not thinking before applying for transfer leaving her with a family who never leaves a chance to taunt or humiliate Sai. How did Virat even think that it is right for him to leave without once thinking about Sai’s state? I am totally against his transfer and it being a solution for their problem. If the girl should stay back without moving to hostel despite the family being so venomous, he should be staying back protecting her, fulfilling his responsibility even if she doesn’t reciprocate his feelings. If he had got this transfer from his department and not by him applying for it, it is understandable that it is his work and duty, not when he himself applies for it.
Virat gets hurt and wants to move away since he is not able to handle it it, bear it but doesn’t think even once how hurt Sai will be listening to so many people’s taunts snd bitter words? If he thinks he is doing it for Sai, that is ridiculous. How did he even think that she will be okay with such people who spit venom on Sai and torture her day in and out? How did he think that his ex wouldn’t harass Sai? Hasn’t he been been noticing how she keeps attacking Sai all the time? He seems to be least interested about Sai’s protection, forget love or respect. The whole purpose of Sai’s responsibility and her protection for which he put her through his kind of marriage is lost. Why was the girl made to get into a deal marriage if he cannot even fulfill his promise? He himself couldn’t give her a peaceful environment, forget the family. He has been spitting venom on her, has been judging her, putting her down, taunting her, abusing her and harassing her. All that Kamal sir saw was one side of this man and he made a mistake of handing over his daughter’s responsibility to this guy. Virat says that Sai doesn’t deserve the love of her father, he is the one who doesn’t deserve Sai’s or her father’s love. He is such a selfish, self centred man who just cannot think beyond himself. He shouldn’t be using words like pakki zabaan, farz. He had long back failed his mentor and is still failing even after Sai gave him a chance after his behaviour during the Ajinkya’s issue.
Just my views. Anyway, I don’t accept or agree that him going on transfer was/is the right thing to do. I wish Sai had left this house the day the chilly kaand happened. Why is there so much of difference in expectations? She has to tolerate the torture but he needs a break from all these issues?
