How is Virat’s transfer right? - Page 3

Originally posted by: vimeo

Thnx for replying so politely Laksh inspite of having different opinion which is rare on this forum.

@bold: yes I do agree that had Sai said she wanted him to stay he wud hv stayed back happily. If he chose to leave the city so that he has a peaceful life as well then who is anyone to stop him? If his mom didnt then Sai had no rights other than as a wife (if she thought she was which apparently she wasn't). Sai blowing hot and cold is what irritates me. She either shud behave like a deal wali wife or a real wife. Why did she interfere in his transfer if she was a deal wali wife. She shud hv just taken a transfer herself and left Nagpur or shifted to the hostel. Why poke ur nose into everything.

And one more thing I didn't like is Sai telling the DIG that he had mental issues. That is very wrong in a profession like his. She telling he was sick and down with fever was ok but mental issues was very wrong.

I am talking from an audience’s perspective. Of course Sai was wrong to stop his transfer this way. She doesn’t have any rights to interfere in such matters.

I understand what you mean when you say that she doesn’t even consider herself to be his real wife and yet did this. This is where her turmoil is coming into picture. I am in no way defending what she did but just sharing my understanding.

What I had gathered was that she heard what the family wanted and more importantly, it was her subconscious mind who takes liberty as a wife that made her do this. Didn’t she blurt out in front of Pakhi and Virat that Pakhi had tried to take her place at the hospital. That’s how she thinks. She does act like a wife but she doesn’t want to accept it and keeps. pushing the thoughts away. She refused it outrightly when Shivani, Sunny or Samrat asked because she is in a defence mode because they caught her lies, because they can see through her and can sense she has feelings for Virat. The biggest roadblock for her is Pakhi and what Virat spoke during their marriage. Just like his Virat would stay back if he comes to know that Sai cancelled his transfer because she wants it, Sai will accept the marriage if she comes to know or understands that Virat wants this relationship and that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi. At the moment whatever Virat said, he has not told in clear words that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi and even if he says that, she might be thinking that he is saying all that because he wants her to move on with Samrat and also because he is worried it would not be ethically right for him to take their relationship forward. Sometimes when a person does a few things, it will just set in our mind and many actions of that person will be perceived in the same manner. She has always seen Virat agreeing to people snd doing things for the sake of others. She has seen him compromising many things. From whatever she has been noticing, she has seen that he had unwillingly got married to her, he followed many rasams out of force and has been noticing recently that he is doing so much for his brother’s happiness. She has deciphered the reason behind the failure of Virat and Pakhi’s relationship. She has made up her mind that whatever he is doing is for his family’s and brother’s happiness. This mindset is not even allowing her to think or give a benefit of doubt that Virat could have actually moved on and is not having any feelings for Pakhi at all.

Even though she thinks this way, she acts like his wife many a times instinctively, without her own knowledge. It is this conflicting emotions and actions that we are watching. I have got annoyed many a times when she does that and so I understand what you are saying.

@bold I read someone’s views on this and understood it. Anyway, she shouldn’t have interfered in his decisions. She could have instead told him that she wants him to stay back. But she doesn’t allow herself to open up or even accept it to herself that she wants it. Only if she accepts it to herself, will she even be able to tell him. She is in denial.

My only issue is that Virat didn’t think about her while applying for this transfer. He should have thought about her protection, her well being.

The purpose behind marrying her was to protect her, to help her become a doctor. Love, his feelings, their marriage are all secondary. They are not above what Sai is going through in that house. She is actually getting abused in the house which Virat fails to even realise. It looks very normal to him even though he is a police officer. I feel that he should have thought about how she would be treated in his house in his absence before planning to move out due to his heartbreak.

I understand Sais conflicts but it's becoming to overbearing for me! Each person has their own thresholds I guess. I wanted her moving out right after Chilli grinding incident and then I lost it when she returned after Ajinkya khaand. So I always feel her suffering here is her own doing! See the accident during Ajinkya incident was quite recent and I cannot fathom that she hadn't realised that Virat was two timing her then! Where as now after Samrat's return she accuses him of being a two timer. If this was her thoughts abt Virat why didn't she move out earlier. Why did she agree to return back to CN?

Anyways you kno my thoughts about Sai staying at CN after Virat moves out. It makes no sense to me. She shud move out to a hostel. It as plain stupidity on Virat’s part to even think that she can live in CN.

Originally posted by: msin

I agree with most of what you say .., many times parents make a mistake of handing their daughter son to the wrong partner .. I can say the same for Mansi Bua getting a bad spouse for her son and forcing him to stay in this marriage when she sees clearly .. that this girl is doing natak and has cheated on her son for one whole year ..

Kamal Sir has been brought in the conversation so many times .. I wish Sai tells everyone clearly.. that I wish my father had not taken that bullet .. my life would not have been ruined like this .. I wish my father had been more selfish like you people .. then maybe he would have been living .. I wish I can change the clock back

Sorry this in my drafts and I just noticed it.

Hmm, true. I am failing to understand Mansi bua.

Ashwini knows Pakhi’s intentions and has seen many things that Pakhi was trying to do but even then she is acting so happy. It shows how selfish she is and makes me sad that she doesn’t care for Samrat. Does she also believe that Pakhi is moving on? Unbelievable.

I don’t think Sai would ever say and I don’t want her to tell that too. He did what he felt was right, to save Virat. I am happy with what she told him yesterday. Served him right. He only passed the exam and became an IPS officer but he failed as a police officer, as a student and as a human being importantly.

But I really wish that Sai tells him one day that she wishes that she can change the clock and change her decision to have accepted to marry him or trust him and move to a new place and house. She can even ask him if this is why he even stopped her from moving to hostel. She can also say that if you can do inhuman things like locking me in a room, your family members would obviously look like dil ke acche log to you.

Originally posted by: laksh

I am talking from an audience’s perspective. Of course Sai was wrong to stop his transfer this way. She doesn’t have any rights to interfere in such matters.

I understand what you mean when you say that she doesn’t even consider herself to be his real wife and yet did this. This is where her turmoil is coming into picture. I am in no way defending what she did but just sharing my understanding.

What I had gathered was that she heard what the family wanted and more importantly, it was her subconscious mind who takes liberty as a wife that made her do this. Didn’t she blurt out in front of Pakhi and Virat that Pakhi had tried to take her place at the hospital. That’s how she thinks. She does act like a wife but she doesn’t want to accept it and keeps. pushing the thoughts away. She refused it outrightly when Shivani, Sunny or Samrat asked because she is in a defence mode because they caught her lies, because they can see through her and can sense she has feelings for Virat. The biggest roadblock for her is Pakhi and what Virat spoke during their marriage. Just like his Virat would stay back if he comes to know that Sai cancelled his transfer because she wants it, Sai will accept the marriage if she comes to know or understands that Virat wants this relationship and that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi. At the moment whatever Virat said, he has not told in clear words that he doesn’t have any feelings for Pakhi and even if he says that, she might be thinking that he is saying all that because he wants her to move on with Samrat and also because he is worried it would not be ethically right for him to take their relationship forward. Sometimes when a person does a few things, it will just set in our mind and many actions of that person will be perceived in the same manner. She has always seen Virat agreeing to people snd doing things for the sake of others. She has seen him compromising many things. From whatever she has been noticing, she has seen that he had unwillingly got married to her, he followed many rasams out of force and has been noticing recently that he is doing so much for his brother’s happiness. She has deciphered the reason behind the failure of Virat and Pakhi’s relationship. She has made up her mind that whatever he is doing is for his family’s and brother’s happiness. This mindset is not even allowing her to think or give a benefit of doubt that Virat could have actually moved on and is not having any feelings for Pakhi at all.

Even though she thinks this way, she acts like his wife many a times instinctively, without her own knowledge. It is this conflicting emotions and actions that we are watching. I have got annoyed many a times when she does that and so I understand what you are saying.

@bold I read someone’s views on this and understood it. Anyway, she shouldn’t have interfered in his decisions. She could have instead told him that she wants him to stay back. But she doesn’t allow herself to open up or even accept it to herself that she wants it. Only if she accepts it to herself, will she even be able to tell him. She is in denial.

My only issue is that Virat didn’t think about her while applying for this transfer. He should have thought about her protection, her well being.

The purpose behind marrying her was to protect her, to help her become a doctor. Love, his feelings, their marriage are all secondary. They are not above what Sai is going through in that house. She is actually getting abused in the house which Virat fails to even realise. It looks very normal to him even though he is a police officer. I feel that he should have thought about how she would be treated in his house in his absence before planning to move out due to his heartbreak.

No one is entirely right or wrong..the less is said the better for Virat..

Sai wasn't right interfering in such matters.. She does have the habit of making decisions without thinking much about the consequences....

Since the last one year it was kind of push and pull situation.. As I said earlier virat kind of let her take the authority in his life as a wife.. Sai was thoroughly cordial in the beginning .. But then again he wouldn't show his composure when he is emotionally messed..there were lots of incident happened that imprinted in Sai's mind that Virat indeed has still residual feelings for Pakhi.. And here we go Sai is back to her shell..

Sai can be financially independent.. But end of the day she needs someone who would wait for her..why would she return home to talk to the furnitures ??...she was tortured in CN but she still wanted to be happy with the people who genuinely loves her.. She kind of knew it has an expiry date..

Sai is still vary inexperienced dealing with things more tactfully...If someone shows her tiny winy love she would see her Aaba in it.... She would feel certain level of authority ..She thought that she has every right to do anything not just as a wife but because she shares something special with him...

It was the same Virat who loved her bachpana, who admired her brashness... Now all gone because he is extremely selfish..he is NOT going to stop until he gets Sai....

Originally posted by: Shaome

No one is entirely right or wrong..the less is said the better for Virat..

Sai wasn't right interfering in such matters.. She does have the habit of making decisions without thinking much about the consequences....

Since the last one year it was kind of push and pull situation.. As I said earlier virat kind of let her take the authority in his life as a wife.. Sai was thoroughly cordial in the beginning .. But then again he wouldn't show his composure when he is emotionally messed..there were lots of incident happened that imprinted in Sai's mind that Virat indeed has still residual feelings for Pakhi.. And here we go Sai is back to her shell..

Sai can be financially independent.. But end of the day she needs someone who would wait for her..why would she return home to talk to the furnitures ??...she was tortured in CN but she still wanted to be happy with the people who genuinely loves her.. She kind of knew it has an expiry date..

Sai is still vary inexperienced dealing with things more tactfully...If someone shows her tiny winy love she would see her Aaba in it.... She would feel certain level of authority ..She thought that she has every right to do anything not just as a wife but because she shares something special with him...

It was the same Virat who loved her bachpana, who admired her brashness... Now all gone because he is extremely selfish..he is NOT going to stop until he gets Sai....

@bold Beautifully written ❤️

She used to get happy to have someone and to get some love especially when she was left all alone in the world after he Aaba passed away. She has been feeling thankful for many things the family or Virat gave her or did for her which is why she stayed back, returned even after a lot of things had happened. She didn’t want to make him feel sad even after the Ajinkya’s issue, she just couldn’t see him in tears. I think that is another reason why she wants to leave without letting him know because he might try to convince her to stay back and she will then be forced to oblige. She will also not be able to see him crying and she doesn’t want herself to become emotionally weak this time.

I completely agree with you.

But do you really think he wants sai at all now?

By his actions all I can see that he wants to punish her ,break hera,torture her and teach her a lesson that how life can be miserable without him in her life?

He can't stand the fact that unlike his bff she still is not bending down in front of him and still has the guts to show him the mirror.That has hurt his ego .Typical MCP behavior .

That's why he is hell bent on breaking her bit by bit.

Just like what pakhi is doing .She is not pretending to be a good wife with Samrat not because she wants virat to come back to her, but she wants him to get tortured and miserable by showing what he has lost and the consequence of losing her.

That was always her plan ,even before samrat went MIA and virat didn't had Sai in his life.

These 2 are exactly like each other

That's what I would like to understand why do you think 🤔 Virat still wants her?

Would love to know your POV

Originally posted by: Shaome

It was the same Virat who loved her bachpana, who admired her brashness... Now all gone because he is extremely selfish..he is NOT going to stop until he gets Sai....

Off late Sai has said some things to Virat which cannot be termed bachpana. She insulted Virat on the anniversary day and later abt his supposed relationship with Pakhi and him two timing her. She did all this as an all.knowing adult and not as an innocent child. So the same Virat who had loved her bachpana cannot accept this. I am not saying Virat has been perfect here but certain things cannot be easily let go off...

Sai totally crossed the line when she called him a two timer.

Originally posted by: vimeo

Off late Sai has said some things to Virat which cannot be termed bachpana. She insulted Virat on the anniversary day and later abt his supposed relationship with Pakhi and him two timing her. She did all this as an all.knowing adult and not as an innocent child. So the same Virat who had loved her bachpana cannot accept this. I am not saying Virat has been perfect here but certain things cannot be easily let go off...

Sai totally crossed the line when she called him a two timer.

Where I have said that Sai didn't cross the line..

Well his actions do not match with words I front of her in most cases..

Sick and tired of this kind of lame excuses in the forum for an domestic abuser..

Virat is not just imperfect he is criminal..

I do not have the patience to defend some character and reply every single person..

For now on please do not try to quote me

Pls don't reply when you don't want to. I quoted your post but didn't force you to respond.