Why she needs pakhi to attend - Page 4

We don't know that Sai went to call Pakhi out of her own will or not. Maybe Kaku & gang will start another drama about Pakhi not attending and Sai might have gone to call Pakhi so that everyone's mood is not spoiled. Or maybe Sai was forced by Cgang to call Pakhi for the celebrations.

Originally posted by: asmi_joya

Honestly I dont understand the requirement of Pakhi being there or Sai insisting on her coming. That certainly does not mean I feel for Patralekha or feel for her oh so discomfort while she is in a particular situation. Right now the way she makes other uncomfortable, I dont really care about her much.

Coming back to Sai, I always relate to the Sai who while getting gifts for people in the house, clearly said she has got it only for the ones she loves and she did not get it for Kaku , because she loved Kaku as much Kaku loves her back. However I also have to see what made her go there to get her. Knowing Sai if anyone of the members be it Mansi Bua as well is unhappy or want Patralekha there in the party of the house they belong to, she will definitely go to call her. Since the time Virat has told her to make efforts to be the part of the family and to adjust, she has been doing that. She has been trying to do that. She probably thinks Patralekha is not very important to ghar ke bade but Virat as well. And she also knows , she would be taunted during and after her celebrations, for hurting Patralekha for whatsoever reasons..

And yet even after understanding this part of hers, I am not okay with her going to call Patralekha for the party. Not needed.

BTW was this hand holding scene between Pakhi and Virat and Sai going after Pakhi in the originals??

Yep, In the precap she was saying "neeche mere liye nahi, aapke liye bhi intezaar karrahe heiin".

I think she went to call her after seeing someone in the house feeling bad that pakhi is not attending.

Originally posted by: scarlett22

I watched the pre cap once more. Sai says ..neeche sirf mera intezaar nahi ho raha hai, aapka bhi jo raha hai.

Maybe the family makes comments about Pakhi not being there?? After all, Pakhi is their favourite DIL. Sai anyway feels noone likes her. Maybe she calls her just to keep peace on her birthday?

They are celebrating Sai's birthday only because Virat forced them to.

Plus, Pakhi was so rude .."Mujhe nahi aana tumhari stupid cake cutting mein". I mean, what was that??!! Pakhi's reaction is not part of your post, sorry I had to put it out there.

Replied the same thing, without checking your post. Sorry 🤗

Originally posted by: Momrin

Exactly i am also want her to understand that a no is no..she is understable but her action isn’t acceptable as something right..here she clearly know pakhis feelings and she might not have grudges for pakhi but she clearly know pakhi has grudges for her and she will not be able to attend happily so if she feel like sulking alone then she should get the freedom na..sai's intentions i have no complain about that but sai's way of dealing to forcing others when she Her self doesn’t like to forced by others isn’t right.. She is young and may b doesn’t understand yet but that doesn’t mean we can't say anything if we find her action wrong..

That's one of the flaws of Sai, I guess. When she feels it's right and harmless, she doesn't hesitate from pushing the opposite person to involve in things. And when she hates it herself when it's done to her, she should know this better. This is where she needs more time and experiences of life to get that kinda maturity.

During the college fest, sai had said that pakhi Nahi Aaye toh chalega. Same thing should have continued even now.

But Ghar ke function mein Didi KO kaise ignore karte..... Mayb Dil ke ache would have asked to get her or smthin.

Normally, toh koi bhi bother Nahi karta agar koi Nahi aana chahete toh. But aisa Nahi Hoga toh Didi KO foottage kaise denge.... Sab Kuch Didi ke liye ho Raha hai 😂😂😂

Originally posted by: janecastle

We don't know that Sai went to call Pakhi out of her own will or not. Maybe Kaku & gang will start another drama about Pakhi not attending and Sai might have gone to call Pakhi so that everyone's mood is not spoiled. Or maybe Sai was forced by Cgang to call Pakhi for the celebrations.

Exactly what I mentioned.. Because Sai is the one who clearly said during the college function that if Pakhi does not want to come, she would not be forced to come.. I always feel when it comes to Pakhi she goes out of her way, because she thinks she is important to family and also Virat. She apologised to Pakhi, only because she thought Virat is fidgety , unsettled without her.

I have lived in a joint family and what I have seen is even if you don't like the person, you have to invite and request the person to attend your occasion otherwise everyone in the family becomes uncomfortable to celebrate and enjoy the occasion. This doesn't mean that you have to follow this unhealthy practice for lifetime. Just do it on 5-6 happy occassions and still if the other person doesn't respond positively then instead of requesting to join, just start informing them and leave the decision to join or not on the person.

It takes time to come out of this unhealthy practice but I think with time Sai will learn to take a NO as NO and will leave the person alone.

It's a family gathering then why she should NOT get her from room. Unlike other occasions Sai clearly said she doesn't care if Didi doesnt attends to her college fest and also she wasnt really keen on going to Pakhi's parents anniversary.

How would someone feel if her birthday is celebrated with whole family but one leaves and sits in the room.

Sometimes i really get irritated by sai's actions.. Why she needs pakhi to attend her cake cutting ceremony.. Pakhi is an adult if she doesn’t feel like to attend certain incident of house why can't she get the freedom not to attend.. I am not saying Pakhi doing right.. She was mean but she clearly hate sai and don’t like to see virat sai's sweet moments so It's better for her mental peace keep distance from their matter..sai forcing her to attend isn’t something acceptable.. She should not decide for others whether someone will attend or will not attend..she should not interfere..

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What is the story after the precap today? Will virat get angry at pakhi for hurting Sai?

Originally posted by: MSgayatri

During the college fest, sai had said that pakhi Nahi Aaye toh chalega. Same thing should have continued even now.

But Ghar ke function mein Didi KO kaise ignore karte..... Mayb Dil ke ache would have asked to get her or smthin.

Normally, toh koi bhi bother Nahi karta agar koi Nahi aana chahete toh. But aisa Nahi Hoga toh Didi KO foottage kaise denge.... Sab Kuch Didi ke liye ho Raha hai 😂😂😂

The problem is if Patralekha does not attend a function celebrated in the house, where she is the most prioritized member, Sai would be taunted. SHe would be taunted for hurting her, for celebrating her birthday, for upsetting her. Also for the family, Patralekha's presence in anything they do is of utmost importance, warna unki or favourite bahu ki Beizzatti hoti hai...😆