Why she needs pakhi to attend - Page 2

Originally posted by: Momrin

Sometimes i really get irritated by sai's actions.. Why she needs pakhi to attend her cake cutting ceremony.. Pakhi is an adult if she doesn’t feel like to attend certain incident of house why can't she get the freedom not to attend.. I am not saying Pakhi doing right.. She was mean but she clearly hate sai and don’t like to see virat sai's sweet moments so It's better for her mental peace keep distance from their matter..sai forcing her to attend isn’t something acceptable.. She should not decide for others whether someone will attend or will not attend..she should not interfere..

I agree. Sai knows Pakhi’s whatever feelings feelings towards Virat. She knows Pakhi has nothing but animosity towards her. Why force someone who is not willing? I understand Sai doesn’t bear any ill will towards anybody and her intentions are good. But Sai should start understanding that when she doesn’t like to be forced to do something she doesn’t like, so does the other person. It’s just their right to sulk in their room.

Unless one of these Chakrams missed Pakhi and made it a big deal and Sai had to bring her to make everybody happy. I wish to see tom’s episode before concluding…

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Originally posted by: 404_NotFound

I wanted to write this but I knew this will be seen as bashing Sai . I agree Pakhi being an adult has an the right to refuse just like Kaku and gang had the right to refuse to be part of her college fest . I understand her intentions are noble but still she shouldn’t force them for two reasons . One they have to right to refuse and second why involve people who will sulk in the celebration.

Exactly if pakhi id happy for her but can't attend for some other reason like she is gloomy for husband then it can be understable but here she clearly not happy to see sai's happiness.. When we hate something It's natural we avoid them here pakhi is doing same..though It's mean and mannerless not to attend family members birthday just because of jealousy but still she has full right on her own choice sai is no one to force her..in modern era people even point out parents forcing their choice on children her we aren’t even allowed to point out sai for forcing someone forcing her decision to pakhi attend her birthday?

Originally posted by: Momrin

Sometimes i really get irritated by sai's actions.. Why she needs pakhi to attend her cake cutting ceremony.. Pakhi is an adult if she doesn’t feel like to attend certain incident of house why can't she get the freedom not to attend.. I am not saying Pakhi doing right.. She was mean but she clearly hate sai and don’t like to see virat sai's sweet moments so It's better for her mental peace keep distance from their matter..sai forcing her to attend isn’t something acceptable.. She should not decide for others whether someone will attend or will not attend..she should not interfere..

I agree with this totally. Pakhi is an adult and she should have that freedom to not attend something she doesn't have the heart to. Definitely not supporting the ill feelings she's harbouring for Sai. But come on, Sai is her rival in her eyes due to Virat. And the same happened with Sai's college function. She didn't wanna go but her Mother in law ordered her to come along.

Good or bad, a person has to be given choices to participate or not in situations like this.

But I can also understand where Sai comes from. Sai just wants everyone from her family to take part in her happy occasion as she doesn't hold any grudges against Pakhi despite all the issues between them. When someone says no, they should leave them to it rather insisting. Sai is naive and young to just understand that yet.

Originally posted by: Momrin

Tamasha wouldn’t happen if sai give her space..she wanting someone to attend in her happiness isn't problem here problem is her forcing.. When pakhi force virat to reciprocate her feelings and blackmail him inspite of his no we all say It's wrong but when sai forcing her when she clearly saying no we aren’t accepting that sai is wrong here..

Paapi started the tamasha by going up to her room and crying instead of being an adult and sucking it up for the sake of the family. She is a family member, so she should partake in the family function instead of doing these antics. Sai wanted her to feel included, and hence went to call her. Despite knowing that Paapi hates her, Sai always extends a hand towards her. She even thanked her in her college fest speech with the rest of the family. It is in Sai's nature to include and love everyone. TriMurthi is always telling Sai she has to do things for the sake of the family, and they live in a joint family, always saying that everyone must do things for each other, think about the family, etc. etc. So then why does Paapi not have to abide by those same rules? A part of Sai's actions can be attributed to her stubbornness, but her intentions are pure. I am not one to defend Sai regardless of her actions, so I am not trying to come across as someone who cannot see her faults. It's just that in this moment, I don't think she did anything wrong.

Originally posted by: Fruitcustard_9

How can u say a word against sai or tried to point out her flaw. This is d rule of this forum u can't say anything against her , u can only sympathize or praise her

Kudos to u 👏pointing out something correct . Sai also don't take no for anything.

Well i have always try to see right as right and wrong as wrong in my point of view..It's not like i am claiming my point of view of seeing things are always right thats why forum is for share thoughts..i usually like to post when i feel something isn’t right so that i can discuss with others and know their point of view also..if show goes smooth i don’t usually post cause if everything is right i feel their is nothing to discuss but enjoy.. So no matter what forum people think and no matter wheather its sai or anyone else i will give my opinion and discuss and point out what feels unpleasant to me..

Originally posted by: Amor_fati

I agree. Sai knows Pakhi’s whatever feelings feelings towards Virat. She knows Pakhi has nothing but animosity towards her. Why force someone who is not willing? I understand Sai doesn’t bear any ill will towards anybody and her intentions are good. But Sai should start understanding that when she doesn’t like to be forced to do something she doesn’t like, so does the other person. It’s just their right to sulk in their room.

Unless one of these Chakrams missed Pakhi and made it a big deal and Sai had to bring her to make everybody happy. I wish to see tom’s episode before concluding…

Yes we still need to see full scenario i agree with u..but as per precap like u say sai should understand when someone saying no she should respect that..

Originally posted by: Spicyfood

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Originally posted by: Nja91

Agree.

Sai was forced to attend pp's parents anniversary too because of an obligation as family member. Similarly pp has an obligation to be present even just for formality n courtesy. Despite her obvious hate , Sai is trying to bridge things not by trying to be best buddies with pp but atleast trying to be civil. Sai isnt mahaan. She does not hesitate to speak clearly and call pp out. But she is doing her best to make things courteous, formal so that living together wont be unbearable but pp isnt meeting her halfway. Even bk, ninad omi are finally budging but pp isnt. Everything isnt about her. Sai foesn't want to have a cake cutting and party where one family member is sulking in the room. And even if pp truly had a fever or headache, its not serious enough that she cant stand there for 10 minutes for a cake cutting before excusing herself. Sai is showing her inclusiveness, her maturity, her goodness. In real life too, there are people one cant stand but sometimes we have to do certain things out of obligation. Sai calling pp to join in her cake cutting is her obligation as "family" member. Pp attending Sai's party despite not wanting to was her obligation but she wasn't mature enough to do that without pointless drama.

Originally posted by: Sudharies

I agree with this totally. Pakhi is an adult and she should have that freedom to not attend something she doesn't have the heart to. Definitely not supporting the ill feelings she's harbouring for Sai. But come on, Sai is her rival in her eyes due to Virat. And the same happened with Sai's college function. She didn't wanna go but her Mother in law ordered her to come along.

Good or bad, a person has to be given choices to participate or not in situations like this.

But I can also understand where Sai comes from. Sai just wants everyone from her family to take part in her happy occasion as she doesn't hold any grudges against Pakhi despite all the issues between them. When someone says no, they should leave them to it rather insisting. Sai is naive and young to just understand that yet.

Exactly i am also want her to understand that a no is no..she is understable but her action isn’t acceptable as something right..here she clearly know pakhis feelings and she might not have grudges for pakhi but she clearly know pakhi has grudges for her and she will not be able to attend happily so if she feel like sulking alone then she should get the freedom na..sai's intentions i have no complain about that but sai's way of dealing to forcing others when she Her self doesn’t like to forced by others isn’t right.. She is young and may b doesn’t understand yet but that doesn’t mean we can't say anything if we find her action wrong..