Why she needs pakhi to attend

Sometimes i really get irritated by sai's actions.. Why she needs pakhi to attend her cake cutting ceremony.. Pakhi is an adult if she doesn’t feel like to attend certain incident of house why can't she get the freedom not to attend.. I am not saying Pakhi doing right.. She was mean but she clearly hate sai and don’t like to see virat sai's sweet moments so It's better for her mental peace keep distance from their matter..sai forcing her to attend isn’t something acceptable.. She should not decide for others whether someone will attend or will not attend..she should not interfere..

Originally posted by: Momrin

Sometimes i really get irritated by sai's actions.. Why she needs pakhi to attend her cake cutting ceremony.. Pakhi is an adult if she doesn’t feel like to attend certain incident of house why can't she get the freedom not to attend.. I am not saying Pakhi doing right.. She was mean but she clearly hate sai and don’t like to see virat sai's sweet moments so It's better for her mental peace keep distance from their matter..sai forcing her to attend isn’t something acceptable.. She should not decide for others whether someone will attend or will not attend..she should not interfere..

Virat can hold pakhi hand and go close to her so you know how much she important to Virat . So this party arranged by Virat so his most important person his ex love best friend sai should be greatfull to him . So he can again hold pakhi hand and hug her and vankar can show virakhi creativity . Sai inviting her.

Why everyone always pointing Sai fault of inviting pakhi or bringing pakhi in sai Virat conversation why no one points virat harkate towards pakhi knowing her intentions still she is his friend and giving her benefits of doubt.

Why shouldn’t Sai interfere? Afterall it is a family function. If Pakhi claims herself to be a member of the family she should be there whether she liked it or not. She did not want to attend college function but she did when Manasi insisted. It is ill manners not to attend the birthday bash.

Ofcourse Sai would want Pakhi to attend. Infact she will do the same for anyone in Pakhi’s place. She is Sai Joshi who never nourishes a grudge and always try to take a step forward to extend her warmth. That is her charecter trait.

I don't see anything wrong with Sai wanting Paapi to attend her cake-cutting. Yes, Paapi hates Sai, but Sai is too warm and loving to hold anything against anyone. She wants Paapi to be included in this function just like she wanted TriMurthi to be included in the college festival. It is a family affair, so she wants everyone to be present. It is Paapi's fault for once again creating tamasha.

I wanted to write this but I knew this will be seen as bashing Sai . I agree Pakhi being an adult has an the right to refuse just like Kaku and gang had the right to refuse to be part of her college fest . I understand her intentions are noble but still she shouldn’t force them for two reasons . One they have to right to refuse and second why involve people who will sulk in the celebration.

Originally posted by: SonuRani

Virat can hold pakhi hand and go close to her so you know how much she important to Virat . So this party arranged by Virat so his most important person his ex love best friend sai should be greatfull to him . So he can again hold pakhi hand and hug her and vankar can show virakhi creativity . Sai inviting her.

Why everyone always pointing Sai fault of inviting pakhi or bringing pakhi in sai Virat conversation why no one points virat harkate towards pakhi knowing her intentions still she is his friend and giving her benefits of doubt.

What are you talking about? My post wasn’t for virats action.. Read the post properly.. I point out when i feel someone wrong no matter what the character is..so don’t tell me what i will point and what i will not..here my post is sai's particular action you bringing virat here..doesn’t make any sense..if u have something to defend sai's action then tell me about that rather then using virats name and actions..many times in forum i point out Virats fault also..so don’t unnecessarily make my post virat vs sai and just focus on my threads topic it was not about who is right or wrong between sairat It's about sai's particular action as a character.. Read and understand before comment..

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Why shouldn’t Sai interfere? Afterall it is a family function. If Pakhi claims herself to be a member of the family she should be there whether she liked it or not. She did not want to attend college function but she did when Manasi insisted. It is ill manners not to attend the birthday bash.

Ofcourse Sai would want Pakhi to attend. Infact she will do the same for anyone in Pakhi’s place. She is Sai Joshi who never nourishes a grudge and always try to take a step forward to extend her warmth. That is her charecter trait.

Agree.

Sai was forced to attend pp's parents anniversary too because of an obligation as family member. Similarly pp has an obligation to be present even just for formality n courtesy. Despite her obvious hate , Sai is trying to bridge things not by trying to be best buddies with pp but atleast trying to be civil. Sai isnt mahaan. She does not hesitate to speak clearly and call pp out. But she is doing her best to make things courteous, formal so that living together wont be unbearable but pp isnt meeting her halfway. Even bk, ninad omi are finally budging but pp isnt. Everything isnt about her. Sai foesn't want to have a cake cutting and party where one family member is sulking in the room. And even if pp truly had a fever or headache, its not serious enough that she cant stand there for 10 minutes for a cake cutting before excusing herself. Sai is showing her inclusiveness, her maturity, her goodness. In real life too, there are people one cant stand but sometimes we have to do certain things out of obligation. Sai calling pp to join in her cake cutting is her obligation as "family" member. Pp attending Sai's party despite not wanting to was her obligation but she wasn't mature enough to do that without pointless drama.

Originally posted by: ltelidevara

Why shouldn’t Sai interfere? Afterall it is a family function. If Pakhi claims herself to be a member of the family she should be there whether she liked it or not. She did not want to attend college function but she did when Manasi insisted. It is ill manners not to attend the birthday bash.

Ofcourse Sai would want Pakhi to attend. Infact she will do the same for anyone in Pakhi’s place. She is Sai Joshi who never nourishes a grudge and always try to take a step forward to extend her warmth. That is her charecter trait.

But everyone not sai joshi right..she doesn’t hold grudges its a very positive and plus point of her character and thats why she is likeable.. But pakhi isn’t like her as an individual pakhi have her own thoughts..she always fume and feel jealous whatever Virat do for sai then will it not be hypocrisy if she pretend to attend happily in someone's birthday who she clearly hate..exactly its sai's character trait but not all the trait her character is right.. She can be wrong and that's my point that forcing someone who is clearly hating to attend in her happiness isn't something right in my point of view..

Originally posted by: Momrin

What are you talking about? My post wasn’t for virats action.. Read the post properly.. I point out when i feel someone wrong no matter what the character is..so don’t tell me what i will point and what i will not..here my post is sai's particular action you bringing virat here..doesn’t make any sense..if u have something to defend sai's action then tell me about that rather then using virats name and actions..many times in forum i point out Virats fault also..so don’t make my post virat vs pakhi and just focus on my threads topic it was not about who is right or wrong between sairat It's about sai's particular action as a character.. Read and understand before comment..

How can u say a word against sai or tried to point out her flaw. This is d rule of this forum u can't say anything against her , u can only sympathize or praise her

Kudos to u 👏pointing out something correct . Sai also don't take no for anything.

Originally posted by: tptwi

I don't see anything wrong with Sai wanting Paapi to attend her cake-cutting. Yes, Paapi hates Sai, but Sai is too warm and loving to hold anything against anyone. She wants Paapi to be included in this function just like she wanted TriMurthi to be included in the college festival. It is a family affair, so she wants everyone to be present. It is Paapi's fault for once again creating tamasha.

Tamasha wouldn’t happen if sai give her space..she wanting someone to attend in her happiness isn't problem here problem is her forcing.. When pakhi force virat to reciprocate her feelings and blackmail him inspite of his no we all say It's wrong but when sai forcing her when she clearly saying no we aren’t accepting that sai is wrong here..