Originally posted by: nethraa_99
It's alright to rant. My blood is still boiling. Devyani's past was chilling and disturbing. How dare the makers trivialize such a grave crime? It happens in urban, middle class families and it is not a a fodder for drama. What has the maker's education taught them? If you cannot handle such serious issues, simple - don't include them. Or change them.
@bold very very true
Bhavani - Like you said, all of a sudden she was sad to see her daughter in takleef. Never mind that we did not see even basic empathy for Devyani for 200 episodes, she was wrongly given sedatives, and the same mother did not really bother about her daughter's safety after DevKit wedding and was infact rejoicing over Sai's ousting. If we question the makers with such logic, they will start explaining about onions & layers and the 50 shades of grey of Bhavani.
We have to remove a few circuits from our brain while watching I guess.
Virat - The most infuriating part is they constantly pull the standards for Virat down - and we compromise - we try to explain (not justify) his actions (& his flaws) using psychology and what not - only for his character to be pulled down even more.
Why are they doing it to a lead character?
As I have been saying, I find Virat's redemption to be incomplete. The repentance was genuine but it was based on whether Sai was right or wrong. No matter how badly I wanted him to introspect on his reactions independent of Sai's actions (because they were inhuman), I resigned myself to never seeing it being addressed. Nor were we likely to see an emotional conversation between SaiRat regarding the same - everything was to be covered up with romance. I also accepted that even though these things were never explicitly shown, we have to assume that lessons were learnt from the subtext of the scenes that were shown (courtesy: @nja91)
True đ
Regarding his return from GC, like you, all I wanted was for him to be distant, aloof from his family. He was like that for about 2 episodes and then he suffered amnesia. I was not even looking for a 180 deg changed Virat who will always jump in to defend his wife - old habits die hard. He took baby steps - in being firm with his elders that Sai is his wife and she always speaks the truth, unlike previously he didn't stop/scold Sai for defending herself, he seemed to be learning to trust Sai more than his family. I was happy with these few steps and hoped for things to improve with time. But within two days, he was again cordial and nice to his elders, as if nothing happened. Virat genuinely believed that his ghar-ke-bade cared about him. After realising that they were happy about Sai's ousting (not caring about how it broke their 'chaheeta beta'), he didn't feel a sense of betrayal, sadness, resentment? Is he a human or an alien?
@bold exactly, that is really disturbing.
@italics he doesnât give these a thought at all from what we have been noticing or does he for it come out some other time when Sai leaves him again? The point is why should he act only when Sai isnât with him, why not when she is with him too?
Coming to the latest episode. Call it Virat's nature or unwritten rules of ITV, I didn't expect Virat to put his family behind bars. We know that Virat is weak when it comes to dealing with his family, but this particular crime was too much for even someone like him. Virat is supposed to be sensitive, moralistic, caring and intelligent. Where was his sense of outrage, disillusionment, pain, anger? Where was his moral dilemma on the appropriate thing to do? Did he not feel so sick in the stomach that he wanted to cut ties with all of them? Move out of CN?
@bold did he not question Kamal for how he had dragged Jagtap by a jeep? Why cannot he cut ties with him? Instead they show him thinking that all this can be fixed by giving Harini a big family, dil ke acche bade log đ¤Śââď¸đĄ
It is obvious that comparison will be made with his aggressive reaction against Sai - who did not even do a millionth of what his family has done. It only shows him in poor light - of being shallow, insecure and abusive.
It definitely shows him in poor light. Are the writers even aware of these? Do they want to show his character this way? Should we assume that is how he is? đ¤ˇââď¸
And seriously, he wants Harini to know that she has a large family that "loves" her? Which love is he talking about? The one that separates a baby from the the mother thorough deceit and abandons it in an orphanage - to be left to a grim possibility of abuse, trafficking?
đĄI couldnât digest it at all. I donât know how did he even think this way. See, he didnât know about the truth until Kaku and Sai revealed it. But once he came to know of the truth, he still decided to go ahead with the same plan? I am not able to understand this at all. Why force the child to be accepted by such people? They should beg to be introduced to the child sometime in future when they have realised their mistakes/crimes. Why should these people beg her to accept the child and be a part of the party? Canât Devi and Harini be united without these people?
His skill of simple deductions is abysmal. He knows that Omi planted the fake document, Bhavani's version of the truth. It didn't strike him that despite being part of/privy to the conspiracy, they all made Sai the villain and shamelessly instigated/ emotionally manipulated him against Sai?
@bold I have not seen him connecting dots at all. He does it very rarely. I was surprised that he had understood that Sai was jealous with the nurse. He doesnât seem to have a curiosity that a regular person would have too.
I'm sure that Bhavani will be whitewashed even further - using some tear-jerking flashback. I don't know about others, but I always considered Virat to have had a toxic upbringing and I consider that to be an important part of his characterization. Some of his bad attributes - his escapist attitude, his tendency to look the other way when other family members (including his mother) are treated badly, his blind belief in his family - seemed to stem from a survival mechanism developed to survive a dysfunctional, traumatic environment. If Bhavani is going to be made into a decent woman, Virat's characterization suffers because it becomes no longer relatable. Having a bunch of loud, crass, idiotic relatives can be difficult for anyone to handle (people who have lived in joint families might know) - Virat being extremely diplomatic makes sense. But the flaws that I pointed out are big enough to be consistent ONLY with a dysfunctional upbringing.
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Sai - Such a disappointment. As if not satisfied with butchering Virat, they are on their way to butchering Sai. The girl who always stood for justice did speak strongly against Bhavani but all those words lost meaning when she conceded Bhavani's crime to be unintentional after witnessing her crocodile tears. Both Sai and Virat decided that attending a stupid birthday part was a good enough "pashyatap" for such a heinous crime. The writers even had the audacity to try to manipulate audience by making Karishma say that if Pulkit anyway got Harini safe & sound, what is the problem?
I donât understand the need to butcher her character too. So is this the new Sai? đ˛
The Karishma dialogue was a little too much, that was meant for her to support Pakhi as how they both had once teamed up, she was just acting her role or part. That was like a point given to Pakhi for Pakhi to continue to fight with Sai and not give up đĄ.
We become attached to the show because we spend time trying to make sense of the half-hearted content the writers throw at us.The writers are lazy and are not invested in their own story and characters. Then why should we care? Ditch this crap fest and move on.
True, I agree.
P.S. @red - highlighted it because i somehow feel very strongly about it but don't know if I'm giving this point more importance than it actually is.
I understand.