Originally posted by: KJSairat
As much as I agree with laksh' rant, after discussing all this with someone I realised a few things. They may not justify everything that's wrong right now, but it's a bit more positive way to look at it.
They are showing us some progression in Virat's character. In the initial episodes he didn't speak up for Aai, he didn't say anything to CNgang for their utterly nonsense. Now he does reprimand them, like you just said. It is a slow progression, but it's there and (hopefully) it will grow in the future. Moreover it's realistic, it took someone I know 18 years to realise that she has to speak up against her father and come up for her mother and she still struggles to do it. Her upbringing wasn't even that toxic as Virat's. In the way Virat was brought up you don't question elders, so it already is a big deal for him. Although you can't justify his behaviour, somewhere it does make it more bearable to watch with this in mind.
True, I agree. What I feel is that there is an influence of Sai on him like how Bua once said when he disagreed with his Dad defending Sai saying that Sai has only good intentions for Devi and wouldnât hurt her. That was the second time as per bua. She told Ashwini as how Virat defended Ashwini, asked his Dad not to speak about his mom like that. This was when Ashwini was with her mom who was ill at that time and they were all wondering where Sai went (she had been to Pakhiâs house that day).
See, Virat could have watched how Sai always stands up for what is right, how she doesnât fear at all, I feel he also got some confidence after he started to work, after he had become independent. It only added to his confidence after he met Sai. So, this progression though could have happened a little late too, but even without Sai in picture, I think he wouldnât have let his Dad raise his hands on his mom once he grew up.
Also, we donât know if he has witnessed such things in the past. He might have been a child or might not have been at home once he became an adult. We donât know. So, it does look like progression, but my faith on Virat is making me tell that he might have anyway done it if he had witnessed it.
Also, it is his duty to do it, I would have expected him to. So, I wouldnât say that I am happy but I will say that thank god he didnât disappoint me 𤣠by acting how any son should have. One reason less for me to scold him đ¤Ł.
I wanted Sai to progress as a character, but not like this, agreed. But based on real life experiences, I do somewhere understand it a little bit. I know someone who is to some extent like Kaku and that person has children. So I'm analysing a bit based on them.
People who have regressive thoughts, who are purane khayalaat ke, are usually extremely adamant when it comes to their POV. Nothing is gonna change. You may keep pointing out the faults, you may present as many arguments as you wish, you may scream daily at them it won't help. They will not realise their mistakes. It will only result in a more toxic environment, with daily quarrels. It's difficult to understand/imagine this if you don't live in such an environment or haven't witnessed it, but this is what I've seen. People living in such an environment do realise that however, and will act accordingly. And maybe it's something Sai also has realised in the time she spent in CN.
@bold Although I am not happy, I agree with you. You have explained it right. Just like how Virat has learnt a few qualities, she has learnt a few things.
I too feel that this is because she has started to learn a few things after living with such a big family. She has learnt to live with different kinds of people in a family, learnt to live with people like Devi, Mohit, Ashwini and also Ninad, Kaku, Pakhi and Omi. She has been learning how to deal with rad of these family.
Even though I am not entirely happy with how much she has changed, she has learnt what family means, how one might have to let go of a certain things to maintain peace in the family. She knows how important these people are for Virat, knows how much he respects them and what he thinks of them. Is this not the same reason she stayed silent and accepted an unfair punishment, taunts and abuses after Deviâs wedding instead of just revealing the truth about the kidnapping? She didnât want Virat to know of what his family did and she heard what Pulkit said. That is not something she would have done, but she is a person who gives a thought to certain things. She thought about what Virat had said about her leaving the house in the terrace after the Amays fight when Pakhi tried to feed Virat. She was reminded of his words that even if she can support herself financially through her scholarship or aaabas money, she does need the blessings of elders. Not many liked her praying for everyone in the family on that yellow dress day Pooja đ¤Ł, but it only came out of the fact that they were all related to Virat. She herself didnât realise how important him and his family started to become for her.
Anyway, Virat himself wanted this even after the truth, she might or might not have agreed even if he didnât want this. God knows what kind of bhooth entered both their body that they decided to do this as a remedy to all their crimes đ¤Śââď¸.
It's however necessary to point out that what they did or what they're thinking is wrong, wrong on so many levels and that you don't agree with it at all, and that's what Sai and Virat did (to some extent). You don't have many options anyway if you want to keep living with them (what Virat wants at any price).
I'm not saying that it's right, I'm only trying to see why they reacted in such way. And trying not to loose my sanity. I still fail to see why not a cold treatment? Why uniting Devi Tai and Harinee with CNgang? Why did Sai say 'anjaane me', made my blood boil. Why this rush? They could have let rest all this. Where is Virat's emotional side gone now? Tel lene? 10 years, 10 years are a lot. Losing 10 years if your life. Why is it showcased as if it's nothing? Where is Sai's 'wrong is wrong, no matter what'? Kuch aur nahi to why not showcase atleast an inner turmoil of Virat/Sai? That would make it sooo much better and more realistic too.
Cold treatment from Virat is how it should have been. A friend of mine spoke about Anjaane me. She feels that as Kaku claimed, she wouldnât have really known that Deviâs mental position would get affected, she wouldnât have known how exactly their action would affect Devi.
@bold donât even want to talk about it. I hated those episodes đĄ.
Inner turmoil? They couldnât show a proper redemption track, what are they going to do now. They will start showing party and then show what was shown in the promo. I feel they are rushing and there is no need to it.