Episode Spoiler - 17 May 2021 - Page 9

Originally posted by: inlieu

Well, it depends how they want to take this journey. I mean, she wasn't madly in love with Mandaar, was she? Actually, I have idea, she never talks about this. Let's assume for now that she wasn't. This means that she's not in that position where she can't give anyone else the place of her husband emotionally and physically. However, her total lack of trust in him and the fact that she doesn't respect him will get in the way of her being able to see that he really is her life partner in every sense and that she can actually consider building a beautiful future. Trust is hard to come by and easy to break, especially because of how ruthlessly Raghav did all that to her. Can she ever have faith in him? She's attracted to him, we know that, but the kind of deep intense love that Raghav is bound to feel for her, will she ever feel that way about him? Maybe not. There are many relationships where one partner loves the other far far more, and they find a way to make it work.

What I would hate the most, though is Pallavi accepting him and the marriage just for social regions or as a marriage of convenience, apni kismat ko maan lena kind of attitude. I think Raghav would prefer she hated him than her supposedly 'accepting' him because she has no other option. He would never want to be her last resort but first choice. Dekhte hain how realistic they want to make this.

So i totally agree. I dnt want pallu to accept her circumstance. And showing some restraint with raghav will be the right move but i think pallu needs to have a raghv moment. She will see his goodness and begin to melt towards him. She already trusts him to some extent. She feels relief when he comes to save hrr from goons . She knows he isnt a bad person. Hes just volatile and destructive. She needs to see thr better of him and once that happens i have no doubt that shell be able to develop feelings for him and eventually grow to trust him.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Baki sab to thik hai, but why didn't Raghav tell Sanki that he had gotten Nikhil arrested and had blackmailed Pallavi into marrying him in order to get him released? Coz Sanki's anger was mainly because of the fact that she married Raghav which according to him is the biggest proof that whatever Raghav said that night was true..In all probability Sanki wouldn't have believed him but when he was there to clear all MUs then why miss out on such an imp fact?

Because this involves his mother, and he will never say anything that could bring her name into the conversation. You notice he didn't really talk about the extent to which BWA maligned Keerti and Amma, the video only showed BWA saying she targeted them and got them in trouble for revenge.

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

So i totally agree. I dnt want pallu to accept her circumstance. And showing some restraint with raghav will be the right move but i think pallu needs to have a raghv moment. She will see his goodness and begin to melt towards him. She already trusts him to some extent. She feels relief when he comes to save hrr from goons . She knows he isnt a bad person. Hes just volatile and destructive. She needs to see thr better of him and once that happens i have no doubt that shell be able to develop feelings for him and eventually grow to trust him.

And for this to happen, she needs to stop pitting Raghav against the D-fam in her mind. Right now she sees it as either or, meaning either she sides with D-fam or with Raghav. She doesn't see that she could have both, which I understand right now.

Once she starts to actually see the D-fam for what they are, and listen to what her heart already knows about their nature, it will free her mind up to notice her surroundings. She also needs to realize that she's a married woman now with rights and responsibilities and that the possibilities are endless for her new life. It's only then that she can start to at least feel neutral about Raghav and let herself no longer shy away from her attraction to him.

I remember discussing somewhere that in a role reversal typical of this show, Pallavi is more attracted to him physically and he's more attracted to her personality. There's nothing wrong with it and I hope they focus on this when the time comes. How she's unable to stay away from him and is drawn like a magnet to the attraction he represents. As she has more such experiences she will subconsciously drop her guard and start to notice him as a person, what makes him tick, beyond her preconceived notions about him.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Because this involves his mother, and he will never say anything that could bring her name into the conversation. You notice he didn't really talk about the extent to which BWA maligned Keerti and Amma, the video only showed BWA saying she targeted them and got them in trouble for revenge.

True but fact is that this half baked expose only proved that he lied about them having a relationship but doesn't prove Pallavi's innocence in the decision she took to marry Raghav..had they not gotten married, maybe D's even that Sanki would have been in two minds today about whether or not they punished Pallavi for no fault of hers.. but that marriage thanks to Amma made sure they never trust her again.. which is a blessing in disguise if u ask me.. but just saying.

Originally posted by: OceanicHeart.

Rosh do you remember the QH forum craziness when Asad had slapped Zoya.

Everyone lost their minds. So much hungama to boycott the show

But for RR I see not even a single post and bechare ko 8 thappad pad chuke hai abhi tak 😆

#JusticeForRaghu 😭

Arey... Everyone is with Raghu but again not supporting blindly... He need to get that at the place when he deserves like on that party night but not when he is right... 2 slaps from Amma are uncalled and 2 slaps from Pallavi are uncalled for...Rest 4 (2 by sanki, 1 by pallavi and 1 by Amma are called for and also deserved by him)

Waiting for the day Sanki will be kicked out of the house by his ''bhai ki biwi'' Sulochana😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

True but fact is that this half baked expose only proved that he lied about them having a relationship but doesn't prove Pallavi's innocence in the decision she took to marry Raghav..had they not gotten married, maybe D's even that Sanki would have been in two minds today about whether or not they punished Pallavi for no fault of hers.. but that marriage thanks to Amma made sure they never trust her again.. which is a blessing in disguise if u ask me.. but just saying.

I get what you mean. I think at that point he realized it was no use arguing with Rambo, because no matter what he said, Rambo wasn't going to believe him. I liked the fact that he pointed out that they shouldn't have thrown her out of the house just based on his words. That's the actual problem here. Raghav is an outsider, what he says shouldn't count. Rambo chose to believe things that he found convenient and filtered out the rest. Raghav and he can be similar in this regard.

Was I the only one. Who was happy Takla did not believe RR 😆

Lol! I so want sulu baby to torture him and throw him on the streets 😈

Some people just learn the hard way - Too bad 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

I get what you mean. I think at that point he realized it was no use arguing with Rambo, because no matter what he said, Rambo wasn't going to believe him. I liked the fact that he pointed out that they shouldn't have thrown her out of the house just based on his words. That's the actual problem here. Raghav is an outsider, what he says shouldn't count. Rambo chose to believe things that the found convenient and filtered out the rest. Raghav and he can be similar in this regard.

Absolutely! Each and every word that came out of his mouth today was GOLD! Vijay Deshmukh is an egoistic moron..someone who has a hard time to accept his mistake or wrong doing even when facts are staring him at his face. I think somewhere he is also jealous of Raghav.. young guy, successful and rich businessman, something maybe he had aspired to be at some point..Raghav stands upto him and states fact as they are..its easy to say that he compromised on principles to be where he is today when fact is he earned every bit of it with hard work and an astute sense of how to manage and run a business.. He hates his stature, his guts and flamboyance because Sanki is used to submissiveness and compliance..I think that added to his monstrous ego, doesn't let him see plain logic especially when its coming from Raghav.. I mean he is trusting Sulochana..that itself is the biggest proof of how far he has gone this time..I think Ayi believed Raghav...

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Absolutely! Each and every word that came out of his mouth today was GOLD! Vijay Deshmukh is an egoistic moron..someone who has a hard time to accept his mistake or wrong doing even when facts are staring him at his face. I think somewhere he is also jealous of Raghav.. young guy, successful and rich businessman, something maybe he had aspired to be at some point..Raghav stands upto him and states fact as they are..its easy to say that he compromised on principles to be where he is today when fact is he earned every bit of it with hard work and an astute sense of how to manage and run a business.. He hates his stature, his guts and flamboyance because Sanki is used to submissiveness and compliance..I think that added to his monstrous ego, doesn't let him see plain logic especially when its coming from Raghav.. I mean he is trusting Sulochana..that itself is the biggest proof of how far he has gone this time..I think Ayi believed Raghav...

You know, everything you said here is what I've concluded after the street interaction between Sanki and Raghav. He is jealous, has been from day one, for many reasons. He's been selling sarees for 30+ years and has had a simple middle-class life and income, based on his swabhimaan, etc. He sees a guy like Raghav who is at the age he must have been when he moved to Hyderabad and made it his karmbhoomi. He never got to where Raghav is even after all these years, because he either lacked amibition, drive, skill, or whatever. He finds it easy to try and diminish Raghav's efforts by accusing him of playing unfair to get all this. Raghav realized he was jealous, hence his response about how his hard work got him there, which in turn pissed Rambo off further. Raghav represents everything that Sanki wished he could be, but isn't. I am also wondering if he sees in Raghav the son that he would've wanted Mandaar to be but couldn't have, either because Mandaar wasn't capable, was interested in a different profession, or just died untimely. Raghav has a massive ego too, but when he sees the error of his ways he at least tries to make amends. It's this flexibility and openness that has gotten him where he is today.

Ayi has no reason not to believe Raghav. She was suspicious when BWA came in all beaten up and asked her what she was planning next. Raghav's words confirmed her suspicions. I think this was a wake up call for her, she's seeing Raghav in a new light and will also think about what he said about them not deserving Pallavi. Maybe not now, maybe later. Because that's when she will go back on her word and will support Pallavi because she'll figure out that Raghav is the right person for her.