Episode Spoiler - 17 May 2021 - Page 10

Originally posted by: christobelle

Atleast Raghav said off to deshmukhs

I want him to say to his amma to shut up with her threats everyday and tell that he knows how to treat his wife.

Pallavi no words rather then her i felt sad for her brother

I can't accept her family rant coz she is the one who disregarded her brother who for years behaved like her aai n baba n raised her.

She should not mellow in her own self that she didn't have parents. She should be grateful that her brother was there for her throughout.

Who gets a brother like Siddesh nowadays ? Its rare to find a brother taking care of his sister without any support from parents

@bold, that will be the day. I won't be surprised if he gets fed up and does this at some point. We saw a glimpse of it during the sangeet where he humbly told Amma that he wasn't always wrong. The day she realizes that she doesn't hold that power over him anymore, she won't be able to blackmail him and he can finally be his own self, find his own dynamic with Pallavi.

Originally posted by: inlieu

You know, everything you said here is what I've concluded after the street interaction between Sanki and Raghav. He is jealous, has been from day one, for many reasons. He's been selling sarees for 30+ years and has had a simple middle-class life and income, based on his swabhimaan, etc. He sees a guy like Raghav who is at the age he must have been when he moved to Hyderabad and made it his karmbhoomi. He never got to where Raghav is even after all these years, because he either lacked amibition, drive, skill, or whatever. He finds it easy to try and diminish Raghav's efforts by accusing him of playing unfair to get all this. Raghav realized he was jealous, hence his response about how his hard work got him there, which in turn pissed Rambo off further. Raghav represents everything that Sanki wished he could be, but isn't. I am also wondering if he sees in Raghav the son that he would've wanted Mandaar to be but couldn't have, either because Mandaar wasn't capable, was interested in a different profession, or just died untimely. Raghav has a massive ego too, but when he sees the error of his ways he at least tries to make amends. It's this flexibility and openness that has gotten him where he is today.

Ayi has no reason not to believe Raghav. She was suspicious when BWA came in all beaten up and asked her what she was planning next. Raghav's words confirmed her suspicions. I think this was a wake up call for her, she's seeing Raghav in a new light and will also think about what he said about them not deserving Pallavi. Maybe not now, maybe later. Because that's when she will go back on her word and will support Pallavi because she'll figure out that Raghav is the right person for her.

Yup that street interaction is exactly the scene, where jealousy was written all over his face. Im sure even Raghav sensed. He has no idea of what Raghav does for a living but he was quick to conclude that whatever he does must be illegal and unfair.. because that's easy and convenient to believe than to accept that a guy half is age has already achieved so much in life, which he could never even dream of..he is just a jealous, egoistic and bitter man..

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Yup that street interaction is exactly the scene, where jealousy was written all over his face. Im sure even Raghav sensed. He has no idea of what Raghav does for a living but he was quick to conclude that whatever he does must be illegal and unfair.. because that's easy and convenient to believe than to accept that a guy half is age has already achieved so much in life, which he could never even dream of..he is just a jealous, egoistic and bitter man..

I don't know if Mandaar will return or if there will be a track when we learn what kind of person he was. I bet there will be some interesting tidbits about his clashes with his father.

Later down the line, once things settle down I actually see Raghav and Sanki developing a strong bond of mutual respect, man to man, not quite as sasur-damaad per se.

I was thinking, Milind's prediction came true about Raghav getting hit by his wife after marriage.

Originally posted by: subbuappu

Arey... Everyone is with Raghu but again not supporting blindly... He need to get that at the place when he deserves like on that party night but not when he is right... 2 slaps from Amma are uncalled and 2 slaps from Pallavi are uncalled for...Rest 4 (2 by sanki, 1 by pallavi and 1 by Amma are called for and also deserved by him)

Hahaha itne slaps pade hai iss ladke ko unka dissection kar rahe hai hum 🤣

Agree with you 👍🏼

Okay, so I don't know why, I was rather satisfied that the Deshmukhs will stay out of the RaghVi equation for some time. I mean if they hogged the limelight, then there would be no growth for the couple. And boss, after 70 episodes, I think that the couple needs some time together.

Coming to Pallavi's breakdown, well, considering how Raghav pushed her around in the name of righteous justice and her family throwing her out of the house, everything took a toll and pura ka pura thekra phoota Raghav ke sar. And I don't know about others, but I think it was good ki ussi par phoota. Kyunki, it just bolsters the fact, that unconsciously, they have acknowledged the fact, that they can let out and vent all that is within, on each other, and not others. That means that they see the family in each other atleast from one aspect. If Pallavi cannot express or vent before Deshmukhs and Raghav cannot explain to his family, yet they are so comfortable to do this with each other, then that's a good thing in my opinion. Do hell with the rest of them. Inka jo bhi hai, ek dusre ke saath hi hai, baaki sab ki zaroorat kya hai.

And, strangely, why didn't Sharda say anything today. She always believed right that Pallavi was being wrongly blamed? Cause she was the one who walked out on her husband for her daughter. So, any particular reason for this silence. And is the anger so big on Pallavi, that she chose not to speak then. I am totally leaning on my initial thoughts about this "Aai and Baba", both are dubious and unreliable in their own way.

The funny aspect was Raghav meets Cheeni ki bori Raghav. Itni mithaas to khud Raghav ko hazam na ho, to humko kaise hogi😆. Khair, the fact that Raghav so proudly accepts, that Pallavi is his wife, and he can do everything for her as much as he does for his family, it's Raghav being Raghav the egoist. Uff, although I am not a big fan of his "I am Raghav Rao" wala persona, but for once it just depicted in a weird sense that "Pallavi mera guroor hai." For once the egoist was sweetly egoist.😆

Overall, I am keen to see Pallavi's breakdown. Her previous breakdown wasn't sufficient for me. Alteast, before Raghav it is a Pallavi-style breakdown. And I am also keen to see Raghav exploring himself within. It started with today, cause his conscience revisited him. And I get from that scene that Raghav will have to do double work - ek taraf he has to safeguard her emotionally and gradually prepare her to see the ultimate truth, she isn't able to see in her vulnerable state, and also become the family, she has always wanted to have. Raghav par iss baar jyada responsibility hai. I just don't want an imbalance though. As in tip the scale so much on Raghav and Pallavi not responding to it. Pallavi has to have that one definitive moment to realize who her family is and what she wants from life, in fact, who she wants in her life.

Originally posted by: libran90

Okay, so I don't know why, I was rather satisfied that the Deshmukhs will stay out of the RaghVi equation for some time. I mean if they hogged the limelight, then there would be no growth for the couple. And boss, after 70 episodes, I think that the couple needs some time together.

Coming to Pallavi's breakdown, well, considering how Raghav pushed her around in the name of righteous justice and her family throwing her out of the house, everything took a toll and pura ka pura thekra phoota Raghav ke sar. And I don't know about others, but I think it was good ki ussi par phoota. Kyunki, it just bolsters the fact, that unconsciously, they have acknowledged the fact, that they can let out and vent all that is within, on each other, and not others. That means that they see the family in each other atleast from one aspect. If Pallavi cannot express or vent before Deshmukhs and Raghav cannot explain to his family, yet they are so comfortable to do this with each other, then that's a good thing in my opinion. Do hell with the rest of them. Inka jo bhi hai, ek dusre ke saath hi hai, baaki sab ki zaroorat kya hai.

And, strangely, why didn't Sharda say anything today. She always believed right that Pallavi was being wrongly blamed? Cause she was the one who walked out on her husband for her daughter. So, any particular reason for this silence. And is the anger so big on Pallavi, that she chose not to speak then. I am totally leaning on my initial thoughts about this "Aai and Baba", both are dubious and unreliable in their own way.

The funny aspect was Raghav meets Cheeni ki bori Raghav. Itni mithaas to khud Raghav ko hazam na ho, to humko kaise hogi😆. Khair, the fact that Raghav so proudly accepts, that Pallavi is his wife, and he can do everything for her as much as he does for his family, it's Raghav being Raghav the egoist. Uff, although I am not a big fan of his "I am Raghav Rao" wala persona, but for once it just depicted in a weird sense that "Pallavi mera guroor hai." For once the egoist was sweetly egoist.😆

Overall, I am keen to see Pallavi's breakdown. Her previous breakdown wasn't sufficient for me. Alteast, before Raghav it is a Pallavi-style breakdown. And I am also keen to see Raghav exploring himself within. It started with today, cause his conscience revisited him. And I get from that scene that Raghav will have to do double work - ek taraf he has to safeguard her emotionally and gradually prepare her to see the ultimate truth, she isn't able to see in her vulnerable state, and also become the family, she has always wanted to have. Raghav par iss baar jyada responsibility hai. I just don't want an imbalance though. As in tip the scale so much on Raghav and Pallavi not responding to it. Pallavi has to have that one definitive moment to realize who her family is and what she wants from life, in fact, who she wants in her life.

Agree with what you've said here, and yes the entire fandom probably also doesn't want to see the Deshmukhs for a while.

Raghav does have a lot of responsibility and I'm eager to see how he navigates things. Amma can only push him so much. The rest he'll have to figure it out himself. I also want to see if all this does take a mental and emotional toll on him, because it's new territory that he has little to no experience in. How will he react then? Whom can he share his thoughts with? Farhad? Perhaps.

I hope the upcoming tracks force them to have more proper conversations because without those, this relationship's not going to progress much. Today was a good start but it only scratched the surface. I loved how Raghav was horrified and shocked seeing Pallavi in that state towards the end of the episode. Wake up call for him that his wife has multiple layers that he needs to learn more about and adapt his response to her.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Agree with what you've said here, and yes the entire fandom probably also doesn't want to see the Deshmukhs for a while.

Raghav does have a lot of responsibility and I'm eager to see how he navigates things. Amma can only push him so much. The rest he'll have to figure it out himself. I also want to see if all this does take a mental and emotional toll on him, because it's new territory that he has little to no experience in. How will he react then? Whom can he share his thoughts with? Farhad? Perhaps.

I hope the upcoming tracks force them to have more proper conversations because without those, this relationship's not going to progress much. Today was a good start but it only scratched the surface. I loved how Raghav was horrified and shocked seeing Pallavi in that state towards the end of the episode. Wake up call for him that his wife has multiple layers that he needs to learn more about and adapt his response to her.

Let's see. Right now it will be all about earning Pallavi's forgiveness. And iss sab ke chakkar me kuch aur facts and details saamne aaye, then to this guy will fall deeply - either in love or guilt or both. Raghav papad ki factory foundation dal raha hai aur kuch nahi.

Let's see what happens.