Episode Spoiler - 17 May 2021 - Page 8

@inlieu

The day he doesn't see the words "Raghav gets slapped" in his script, he would be like - yeh kissi aurr ka script aa gaya mere paas!

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Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Im ready for raghv to loose it. ☺️ yes great point though! She did committ to mandhar to care for that family and your right that could be why shes so attached to them..id love if that was it and was uncovered latrr! But it would also be inconsistant because pallu RARELY remembers or mentions mandhar.. idk.

We were all annoyed that Raghav and Farhad didn't react when they heard she was an orphan but today strangely enough it helped him see what being an orphan mean to her, especially after his comment on the drive home that she was better off being an orphan than with a family like the Deshmukhs.

Oh, she will remember Mandaar, I bet. More and more... she will speak fondly of her memories. So even though she mentioned it in passing today and he didn't really react, (hawa mein filter again), when the time comes he will learn how she felt about Mandaar and the dreams they'd seen together. I am so eager to see how he processes that info later on, when he'll be far more invested in her and in their relationship.

One thing that widowed people can at times struggle with is that in a bid to hold on to their late spouse's memories and any promises/commitments made to them, they are often unable to realize that they are not giving their all to the current spouse who is very much alive. Raghav will definitely experience this too when he's in love with her and realizes she either doesn't love him, will never love, him and will never see him as her husband in the true sense because she's still stuck in the past.

Originally posted by: inlieu

We were all annoyed that Raghav and Farhad didn't react when they heard she was an orphan but today strangely enough it helped him see what being an orphan mean to her, especially after his comment on the drive home that she was better off being an orphan than with a family like the Deshmukhs.

Oh, she will remember Mandaar, I bet. More and more... she will speak fondly of her memories. So even though she mentioned it in passing today and he didn't really react, (hawa mein filter again), when the time comes he will learn how she felt about Mandaar and the dreams they'd seen together. I am so eager to see how he processes that info later on, when he'll be far more invested in her and in their relationship.

One thing that widowed people can at times struggle with is that in a bid to hold on to their late spouse's memories and any promises/commitments made to them, they are often unable to realize that they are not giving their all to the current spouse who is very much alive. Raghav will definitely experience this too when he's in love with her and realizes she either doesn't love him, will never love, and will never see him as her husband in the true sense because she's still stuck in the past.

Hai 😭 .. this is so tragic. I want angsty potrntially jealous raghav but also this seems saadd 😭 i want pallu to love and choose him.

Originally posted by: christobelle

I m sorry to disagree with you

If going by writers logic. I can say oh writers slipped and made raghav behave like a jerk

Its the whole thing we r seeing for both Raghav and Pallavi

The violence thing is getting overboard now. She should have shouted at him , its fine.

He talked to her in a gentle tone too not a domineering tone to receive a slap at that time

Its high time makers stop this violence. It is distasteful to see onscreen

Yeah... I too feel that everyone is maKing Raghav scapegoat... Pallavi par usne kabhi haath nahi uthaaya...

Originally posted by: christobelle

Raghav shows d family the proof

Sanki doesn't believe it. Raghav tells how they don't deserve her.

Raghav and his counter part talk

Raghav acknowledging Pallavi as his wife

Raghav telling about reality of deshmushks

Pallavi explaining the importance of deshmukhs in her life

Precap : Amma advising him to mend his ways by threatening of their leaving. Raghav is shocked to see Pallavi . What happened to Pallavi?

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Paisa vasool 🥳episode

SKR & SK take a bow 👏

Not a Sec of the episode was a drag even Takla was so annoyingly fantastic 🤣

High time Jaya Rao stops blackmailing her son to make amends

Faaltu. ki dhamki all the time loses its power & charm 🤣

Raghav should work at it for himself not for the blackmail

Best part sulu baby looked human with her make up messed up today 🤣

PRECAP

Am 100% sure Pallavi fainted under the weight of the saree 🤣

first time after slap, Raghav was not angry😲😆...progress in his slap expression😆.felt bad for Raghav😭 ( wont say ketan cause thats fake slap😆)

Raghav & alter ego(more like Ketan)😆.scenes were funny😆😆

alter ego expressions were☺️😆

Raghav saying Pallu is my family now, now wife☺️

his thinking about Deshmukh👍🏼😆.were on point👍🏼

aai seemed like she was somewhere believing Raghav🤔.hopefully she should confront him alone

sanki believing BWA is not new🤪😡.earlier also he did that🤪

Urgh I forwarded D-fam scene. I get that they can’t believe Raghav but believing Sulo esp after the abortion track is just ego and stupidity. Aayi needs to say something man, tomorrow we need a scene where she does something. Pallavi and Raghav’s conversation I liked. The first part, Pallavi was justified and second half was where we saw her flaws. I could see her get defensive and felt like the only way she could cling on to her delusions was by yelling at Raghav. Both of them are like this for their families. Poor Siddhesh. I feel like because as a society we have given so much importance to a mother and father as family.. people fail to realize that family is people who love, trust and respect them . Not everyone without parents doesn’t have a family and not everyone with them has one. I just hope they address this later on and Pallavi apologizes to her brother.

As to the slaps, I dislike them. There are circumstances where they are acceptable ig but I still don’t like them. I just recognize that this is ITV and everyone feels like they have a right to slap people so let it go.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Brother, who?

I felt the same as you. It can't have been easy to raise her, a newborn, after having lost his parents and becoming orphaned himself. He must have just been a kid.

I hated the slap so much. It was uncalled for. I know she's hurting and so does he, so he let it pass. I don't want this becoming a habit between them. The real reason she hit him was because he told her tough things that she didn't want to accept and he touched a nerve.

How can she ignore her brother/mother/father for a good 22 years to the ones who are just 2 years old related.... I can't get this digested... Aayi and baba ka with some difficulty i can understand aa she is craving for mother and father love..but what is with Kaku ??? Why she has to crave for her acknowledgement????

Baki sab to thik hai, but why didn't Raghav tell Sanki that he had gotten Nikhil arrested and had blackmailed Pallavi into marrying him in order to get him released? Coz Sanki's anger was mainly because of the fact that she married Raghav which according to him is the biggest proof that whatever Raghav said that night was true..In all probability Sanki wouldn't have believed him but when he was there to clear all MUs then why miss out on such an imp fact?

Originally posted by: RosyRosh

Hai 😭 .. this is so tragic. I want angsty potrntially jealous raghav but also this seems saadd 😭 i want pallu to love and choose him.

Well, it depends how they want to take this journey. I mean, she wasn't madly in love with Mandaar, was she? Actually, I have no idea, she never talks about this. Let's assume for now that she wasn't. This means that she's not in that position where she can't give anyone else the place of her late husband emotionally and physically. However, her total lack of trust in Raghav and the fact that she doesn't respect him will get in the way of her being able to see that he really is her life partner in every sense and that she can actually consider building a beautiful future with him. Trust is hard to come by and easy to break, especially because of how ruthlessly Raghav did all that to her. Can she ever have faith in him? She's attracted to him, we know that, but the kind of deep intense love that Raghav is bound to feel for her, will she ever feel that way about him? Maybe not. There are many relationships where one partner loves the other far far more, and they find a way to make it work.

What I would hate the most, though, is Pallavi accepting him and the marriage just for social reasons or as a marriage of convenience, apni kismat ko maan lena kind of attitude. I think Raghav would prefer she hated him than her supposedly 'accepting' him because she has no other option. He would never want to be her last resort but first choice. Dekhte hain how realistic they want to make this.