Why all blame on Ragav? - Page 5

Originally posted by: inlieu

Honestly, I don't want her to be doing the duties of the bahu. You only become a bahu after you become a biwi. Since this whole relationship is a farce, why should she do all this? Or is she going to be an annoying person who takes this marriage seriously? Gross...

Well, she will take care of amma and be a cordial friend to Keerti... this time it'll be a true case of bahu = beti. This time her duties as a bahu won't involve listening to constant taunts from irritating women who fear their white skin may turn dark.

Originally posted by: Bee222

Well, I think her talk with aai convinced her that Pallavi won't marry anyone in an ordinary situation... she's too devoted to that family. So she decides to get her own son tied to her 😆 Businessman bete ka businesswoman amma... she saw an opportunity and she cashed on it 😆

But I really want to see her questioning Pallavi at least once, exactly how she got convinced for this marriage. She knows her enough to understand that the situation must've been extreme...

If Keerthi could guess that her brother must have resorted to some unfair means to get Pallavi to accept his proposal then Jaya Rao is Raghav's amma.. She obviously knows that her son must have unfairly put pressure on her.. she is ignoring the short term losses for the long term gains..that's how she must be justifying her actions in her head.

Anyone remembers IPK? Anjali blackmails Khushi to get her in Raizada house to train Lavanya? I know this is marriage and doesnt equate to brnging someone home temporarily but my point is they make the otherwise fair character do unfair things to get the leads together lol

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

By being a bahu, I dint mean she has to do household chores, though there is no shame in that.. but in this case I meant giving respect to amma as her MIL, accepting Keerthi as her SIL.. This maybe a deal to bring his family home for Raghav but Pallavi believes in the sanctity of marriage..so she will be the bahu for Jaya Rao but not Raghav's wife till the time they fall in love..

I understand, but this is exactly what I don't want her to do. I want her to be selfish. Why should she pretend at all that everything is hunky dory?

Sanctity of marriage is fine but this is a deal and I don't want her to repeat what she did with the Deshmukhs. She needs to get out of her bubble.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

If Keerthi could guess that her brother must have resorted to some unfair means to get Pallavi to accept his proposal then Jaya Rao is Raghav's amma.. She obviously knows that her son must have unfairly put pressure on her.. she is ignoring the short term losses for the long term gains..that's how she must be justifying her actions in her head.

Anyone remembers IPK? Anjali blackmails Khushi to get her in Raizada house to train Lavanya? I know this is marriage and doesnt equate to brnging someone home temporarily but my point is they make the otherwise fair character do unfair things to get the leads together lol

Still doesn't make it right... but yeah, the show must go on. Both Jaya and Raghav will have to do things to make it up to her. I won't be happy otherwise.

Originally posted by: moksha89

Summed up my thoughts exactly !

I enjoy all the flaws in the characters bc it makes it that much more fun to analyze them && it’s entertaining that way. What I dislike is when writers drag a story/situation or create these out-of-character/ ill-fitting scenes just to fill cracks in plot and time. We experienced a week of that post-Lion, since Lion was technically a distraction form lots of cast quarantining, and to bring the story back into planned trajectory was brutal to watch.

As for watching the show from different characters POV, it’s definitely helpful. At times, it can help viewers keep up with a show and understand why a tract may go the way it does. Personally, I like to understand why people act and deal the way they do — if I don’t then I feel bad judging or commenting on their character (as fake as these people may be -like BWA & Baba LOL). I’m also a bit too empathetic - i get invested when I enjoy a show and need to know how the characters are developing 🤣

For me lion track and post lion some episodes were some kind of fanfictiin somebody wrote. I don't include those episodes in to my analysis of these characters.

Here also I understand why they did but they could have showed something went along with the character of RR and Pallu. And then even RR and Pallu was like, did even a lion come? They jumped to how they were pre- lion to post-lion, it was like they never got close to an extent. (That bedroom scene was so out of place, RR and Pallu don't even think/ remember about that moment.)

That's what I exactly do. I think from all the sides (my friends call me a good candidate for moderator 😆). And if you do that you will understand why they are behaving such way, and why those things happened and that is really helpful to enjoy a show. Then one thing is there, don't mix logic with ITV shows. That will be a blunder. 😆

Originally posted by: inlieu

I understand, but this is exactly what I don't want her to do. I want her to be selfish. Why should she pretend at all that everything is hunky dory?

Sanctity of marriage is fine but this is a deal and I don't want her to repeat what she did with the Deshmukhs. She needs to get out of her bubble.

Had she been a selfish woman, she would have left the Deshmukh house long back .. she still cares for that useless family, that good for nothinh FIL of hers. That's how her character has been portrayed.. so as much as you and I want her to be selfish, her character is not written that way. She will not say or do anything to hurt Jaya or Keerthi. The deal is with Raghav and she will keep it to him and I want it that way. Let the family's be out of their drama.. Let them fight it out between themselves. The most important thing is that this so called deal of a marriage will do far more good to Pallavi than the so called real wedding that didnt last even 24 hours and gave her a lifelong worth of liabilities, pain and humiliation.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Had she been a selfish woman, she would have left the Deshmukh house long back .. she still cares for that useless family, that good for nothinh FIL of hers. That's how her character has been portrayed.. so as much as you and I want her to be selfish, her character is not written that way. She will not say or do anything to hurt Jaya or Keerthi. The deal is with Raghav and she will keep it to him and I want it that way. Let the family's be out of their drama.. Let them fight it out between themselves. The most important thing is that this so called deal of a marriage will do far more good to Pallavi than the so called real wedding that didnt last even 24 hours and gave her a lifelong worth of liabilities, pain and humiliation.

I know exactly what you mean. Perhaps selfish isn't the right word. Self-preservation - she lacks that. I think Raghav will also coach her indirectly, or directly, about being more street smart and opening up her eyes. One can hope, eh?

Originally posted by: inlieu

I understand, but this is exactly what I don't want her to do. I want her to be selfish. Why should she pretend at all that everything is hunky dory?

Sanctity of marriage is fine but this is a deal and I don't want her to repeat what she did with the Deshmukhs. She needs to get out of her bubble.

@bold

Jean... here everyone is upset about how RR could be selfish and how Amma could be selfish and here you want pallu to be selfish too.. 🤣

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

If Keerthi could guess that her brother must have resorted to some unfair means to get Pallavi to accept his proposal then Jaya Rao is Raghav's amma.. She obviously knows that her son must have unfairly put pressure on her.. she is ignoring the short term losses for the long term gains..that's how she must be justifying her actions in her head.

Anyone remembers IPK? Anjali blackmails Khushi to get her in Raizada house to train Lavanya? I know this is marriage and doesnt equate to brnging someone home temporarily but my point is they make the otherwise fair character do unfair things to get the leads together lol

Anjali was a sweetheart though. All she wanted to do was get Lavanya to understand what kind of woman Nani wanted to see as her bahu (I didn't like the word "train" that they used in the show and I definitely didn't like the way La changed her clothing and speaking. She was a good girl as is, just needed to learn some customs, rituals, etc)

Anyway, Anjali had a harmless mission that didn't alter anyone's lives, in fact had I been in Khushi's place I'd have accepted the job immediately, given her total lack of employability. They were in desperate need of money but she was throwing tantrums like "us aadmi ka shakal nahi dekhna" 🤔 Girl, in every workplace there are people we do not like or get along with, maana ki your hate equation is a bit on the extreme, but please straighten your priorities 🤔

Anywaayy (seriously, why can't I ever stay on topic? ) Anjali apologised to Khushi for her blackmailing. I hope that amma does the same to Pallavi, there is no way she doesn't realise that Raghu is pressurising her in some way.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

Had she been a selfish woman, she would have left the Deshmukh house long back .. she still cares for that useless family, that good for nothinh FIL of hers. That's how her character has been portrayed.. so as much as you and I want her to be selfish, her character is not written that way. She will not say or do anything to hurt Jaya or Keerthi. The deal is with Raghav and she will keep it to him and I want it that way. Let the family's be out of their drama.. Let them fight it out between themselves. The most important thing is that this so called deal of a marriage will do far more good to Pallavi than the so called real wedding that didnt last even 24 hours and gave her a lifelong worth of liabilities, pain and humiliation.

They could be like Zain-Aliya from Beintehaa, dunno if you guys watched that show... they had a very cordial relationship with each other's families, and even when they got stuck in a hate marriage, they kept that hatred between themselves. Their equation with the families remained unchanged. I really liked that.

@bold: word!! You said it! 👍🏼