Why all blame on Ragav? - Page 4

Originally posted by: maanmeet1

the same idiotic mentality that "ladka bigda hua hai, shadi kar do thik ho jayega"........and for that spoil life of the gal.....i was waiting that someone will point out or make a topic of this......

keerti is the only unbiased one here........

There was one point that amma made that makes her different from the typical ones, though... it's that she knows Pallavi will get a better family here than at the Deshmukhs. There she is judged and made to suffer, especially by her sasur (Pallu herself doesn't understand this but amma does)... but here she'll get the freedom and respect she deserves. Raghav won't dare mistreat her in front of amma, and in private quarters, she knows Pallavi has the fire to match his.

In her own way, she truly believes she's making both their lives better.

Originally posted by: Bee222

There was one point that amma made that makes her different from the typical ones, though... it's that she knows Pallavi will get a better family here than at the Deshmukhs. There she is judged and made to suffer, especially by her sasur (Pallu herself doesn't understand this but amma does)... but here she'll get the freedom and respect she deserves. Raghav won't dare mistreat her in front of amma, and in private quarters, she knows Pallavi has the fire to match his.

In her own way, she truly believes she's making both their lives better.

I think she has the right intentions, even if it's selfish. As a widow herself, she knows what women go through and she knows that if she lives with Raghav she can also ensure he doesn't cross his limits. Sure, Pallavi has the fire to match Raghav's but the point is that Pallavi is entitled to love and happiness from her husband, of which there is no guarantee. I know they are endgame as per the story but in general, nope.

Originally posted by: Bee222

I don't think Raghav will ever mistreat Pallavi in front of amma — he knows how much amma adores her. In private, he might think to trouble her, but I think it'll be childish stuff 😆 Whatever hatred he had for Pallavi, he meted out the punishment for it. He's kinda calm now, and as he starts living with her, it'll become clearer and clearer to him the kind of person she is.

Raghav's hatred will diffuse in a few days, it'll be Pallavi's that keeps going strong. She has suffered a lot! Na khud bhulegi na use bhulane degi...

@bold- exactly my thoughts.. plus the fact that Pallavi is the reason, his amma and Keerthi are living with him now.. he could be irritated with her constant lectures or even the fact that amma and Keerthi support her over him in every matter but he really has no reason to ''hate'' her anymore and if the MU about Keerthi's scandal somehow clears up he should be guilt ridden.. and when he sees Pallavi do all her duties as the bahu of the house, take care of his amma and all, he will begin to appreciate her for what she truly is...

Originally posted by: inlieu

I don't know why but I get the feeling that a big part of the audience is going to side with Raghav despite his methods. Not because they like MCPs or torture but because the CVs are showing him as being almost helpless in this situation due to his desire to ensure he doesn't miss this once in a lifetime opportunity to reunite with his family.

The irony will be that at least Keerti (and maybe later on Amma) will disapprove of his methods and the rift grows. I could see how agitated Keerti was and she will come to live with him as part of the deal, not because she really wants to. How's that for a cruel hand of fate? Raghav sab ko paa kar bhi nahin payega. I hope Keerti continues to resist. I'm loving her character.

@Bold :

Same feelings here. I love Keerthi. She is the most sane person right now and is thinking from both sides which I really like. She thinks that the marriage is going to break her brother and friend but here amma thinks that the marriage will do good for his son and Pallavi. That's differences of opinions. Let's see who will win though we already know. 😆

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

@bold- exactly my thoughts.. plus the fact that Pallavi is the reason, his amma and Keerthi are living with him now.. he could be irritated with her constant lectures or even the fact that amma and Keerthi support her over him in every matter but he really has no reason to ''hate'' her anymore and if the MU about Keerthi's scandal somehow clears up he should be guilt ridden.. and when he sees Pallavi do all her duties as the bahu of the house, take care of his amma and all, he will begin to appreciate her for what she truly is...

Honestly, I don't want her to be doing the duties of the bahu. You only become a bahu after you become a biwi. Since this whole relationship is a farce, why should she do all this? Or is she going to be an annoying person who takes this marriage seriously? Gross...

Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic

@Bold :

Same feelings here. I love Keerthi. She is the most sane person right now and is thinking from both sides which I really like. She thinks that the marriage is going to break her brother and friend but here amma thinks that the marriage will do good for his son and Pallavi. That's differences of opinions. Let's see who will win though we already know. 😆

It will break, then make

Originally posted by: inlieu

I think she has the right intentions, even if it's selfish. As a widow herself, she knows what women go through and she knows that if she lives with Raghav she can also ensure he doesn't cross his limits. Sure, Pallavi has the fire to match Raghav's but the point is that Pallavi is entitled to love and happiness from her husband, of which there is no guarantee. I know they are endgame as per the story but in general, nope.

Well, I think her talk with aai convinced her that Pallavi won't marry anyone in an ordinary situation... she's too devoted to that family. So she decides to get her own son tied to her 😆 Businessman bete ka businesswoman amma... she saw an opportunity and she cashed on it 😆

But I really want to see her questioning Pallavi at least once, exactly how she got convinced for this marriage. She knows her enough to understand that the situation must've been extreme...

Originally posted by: Bee222

Well, I think her talk with aai convinced her that Pallavi won't marry anyone in an ordinary situation... she's too devoted to that family. So she decides to get her own son tied to her Businessman bete ka businesswoman amma... she saw an opportunity and she cashed on it

But I really want to see her questioning Pallavi at least once, exactly how she got convinced for this marriage. She knows her enough to understand that the situation must've been extreme...

Yeah and he knows that Raghav's wife would need to have a special character or she won't be able to adjust with him. Plus, she's always liked Pallavi as a person.

Keerti already suspects it, but Amma is deliberately looking the other way.

Originally posted by: inlieu

Honestly, I don't want her to be doing the duties of the bahu. You only become a bahu after you become a biwi. Since this whole relationship is a farce, why should she do all this? Or is she going to be an annoying person who takes this marriage seriously? Gross...

By being a bahu, I dint mean she has to do household chores, though there is no shame in that.. but in this case I meant giving respect to amma as her MIL, accepting Keerthi as her SIL.. This maybe a deal to bring his family home for Raghav but Pallavi believes in the sanctity of marriage..so she will be the bahu for Jaya Rao but not Raghav's wife till the time they fall in love..

Originally posted by: inlieu

Yeah, so far he's in hisaab baraabar mode with her. She's just a means to an end for him right now. He will tolerate her antics and maybe ignore her but when it goes out of hand, I don't expect him to stay calm. His temper flares easily.

His temper flares easy but she'll have amma on her side 😆 It's gonna be fun 🤣