The topic actually started with Zayn ranting about the grammys being rigged😆 I mean he basically said that grammys award those who send them stuff/bribes which is completely different from that socializing I think.
Now even in the corporate world, from my experience, the ones who get noticed/picked for promotions are those who excel at work and also those who communicate well. This also includes selling yourself for sure. You have to make your presence felt. For example my brother is a top guy at one of the Big4s and his biggest strength I've always felt is how he communicates. But this is restricted to his workplace. He doesn't even have any social media, thats how much he hates unnecessary conversations lol. But at work, they all LOVE him. But he just won't meet anyone post work hours, he says I see enough of them at work😆 Anyways they're pretty much at office only like 10 am to 10 pm.
From what I've seen(in India), the whole idea of getting work based on your sucking up skills works only in mid-size corporates, but not in the Bigger ones. They know better than to let someone take them for that ride.
Also I remember my uncle telling me how his office had someone who literally used to suck the boss' ass and ended up getting some key projects(it was a mid size corporate). That guy eventually messed up and got sacked. Theres only so much that buttering will do.
Infact during my internship, people in my office used to meet up during weekends for football including the partners. I avoided it all because I wanted to sleep😆 But my communication skills during office hours really helped me and I could tell that I was favored compared to the others.
Edited by aish. - 4 years ago
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