Did Virat save or ruin Sai's life? - Page 4

I do know their relationship has not started on a good note.

I don't think either of them wanted to marry each other. Rather the ppl in gathchiroli(?) forced them to marry probably out of fear from that goon or smh.

They don't understand each other. Virat thinks Sai is always immature but is far away from understanding a woman's perspective. That's why he can't see the sneaky PP antics. Sai is too young to handle all this alone. It's too much for her to handle at the moment. Tbh Virat should have let her stay at hostel for time being of her studies even more so when he knew how the chavans treat her. She doesn't need that stress in addition to her studies.

Also I want this couple to communicate properly fgs! Virat should listen to everything Sai faces and Sai should actually tell him clearly wht vile things they say.

Originally posted by: yyyy

Marriage happened between two adults. Why blame one of them for this decision? As per law, 18 yr old is adult enough to take decisions related to marriage. Age is not an excuse.

He saved her from people like Vital Mane and she found a supporting partner in Virat and a family in Aai, Shivani, and Devi. Accusing him of ruining her life is an insult to Virat who did not have I'll intention or selfish reason.

After her suicide attempt, he realized she needs a family, not just financial support. He could do this only by marrying her. If he had done this without marrying, society would have raised questions about Sai’s character and would have hurt her more than anything

1000% correct!!

1-He didn’t marry her to only provide her financial support, he said it clearly that he could do that even without marrying her.

2-However, after Sai attempted suicide he became extremely concerned and came to conclusion that she couldn’t be left alone. I think that’s what even doctors suggest for suicidal patients😊!

3-He was in emotional turmoil too when the GC gang insisted he marry Sai because that’s how they interpreted the vada Kamal sir asked.

4-Ushamausi and GC people really emphasized that Sai needed protection from Vittal and Jagtap when even her dad was gone.

4-He never married her out of any intentions of harming her, in fact he wanted to protect Sai from a potential rape in his absence, potential another suicide attempt or success, potential depression of being totally left alone in this world.

5-One doesn’t only need home and food, we need to be loved, cared for and supported. To Sai it’s evident that Virat doesn’t have ishqwala love for her, which is not true😂😂😂, but she is well aware of his care and affection towards her.

6-Virat’s family has Lalu and gang, but then in form of Ashwini she has a mother that she never had before. 💕💕💕How many of us can do this kind of laad with our MIL?

7-In form of Shivaji and Devi, she has an older and a younger sisters to befriend💕💕

8-Birat is flawed, just like Sai is flawed. He stands up to his family for her a lot, but asks her to choose important battles only because he is loosing his peace of mind and sanity with her nature of taking stand for every thing. I thinks it’s fair. He is human too.

9-I disagree with his soft attitude with Papi-didi when she just walks all over him and his wife, he needs to take a stand.

10-He hasn’t realized his love for Sai and his possessiveness is obvious, not yet to Sai( poor girl), but the day he realizes it will be an affair to remember 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Virat. Is an amazing character, but does have flaws just like every character or person we would know.

Disclaimer : I totally disagree with how his cruel family members treat Sai and his blind eyes towards that and his soft treatment towards Papi-didi.

I think GC people destroyed both Sai and Virat's life forcing them for a marriage.... Sai is 18 years old... As a adult Virat could have refuse this marriage thing.... You don't want to marry someone to protect her from gunda... For god sake he is a IPS officer....he could think a another way...He was the only one who could have stop this marriage....marriage is a most illogical option here....He knew he never be able to love her..at least he believed so... so why he did this marriage thing.... Is he going to divorce her and made her marry to someone after she become a doctor....Whatever relationship they have had after being married for years who is going to marry a divorcee...I mean its difficult to find someone for a divorcee or are they going to stay in this way forever... Doesn't she deserve love, loving in laws, kids...

Originally posted by: methebest

1000% correct!!

1-He didn’t marry her to only provide her financial support, he said it clearly that he could do that even without marrying her.

2-However, after Sai attempted suicide he became extremely concerned and came to conclusion that she couldn’t be left alone. I think that’s what even doctors suggest for suicidal patients😊!

3-He was in emotional turmoil too when the GC gang insisted he marry Sai because that’s how they interpreted the vada Kamal sir asked.

4-Ushamausi and GC people really emphasized that Sai needed protection from Vittal and Jagtap when even her dad was gone.

4-He never married her out of any intentions of harming her, in fact he wanted to protect Sai from a potential rape in his absence, potential another suicide attempt or success, potential depression of being totally left alone in this world.

5-One doesn’t only need home and food, we need to be loved, cared for and supported. To Sai it’s evident that Virat doesn’t have ishqwala love for her, which is not true😂😂😂, but she is well aware of his care and affection towards her.

6-Virat’s family has Lalu and gang, but then in form of Ashwini she has a mother that she never had before. 💕💕💕How many of us can do this kind of laad with our MIL?

7-In form of Shivaji and Devi, she has an older and a younger sisters to befriend💕💕

8-Birat is flawed, just like Sai is flawed. He stands up to his family for her a lot, but asks her to choose important battles only because he is loosing his peace of mind and sanity with her nature of taking stand for every thing. I thinks it’s fair. He is human too.

9-I disagree with his soft attitude with Papi-didi when she just walks all over him and his wife, he needs to take a stand.

10-He hasn’t realized his love for Sai and his possessiveness is obvious, not yet to Sai( poor girl), but the day he realizes it will be an affair to remember 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Virat. Is an amazing character, but does have flaws just like every character or person we would know.

Disclaimer : I totally disagree with how his cruel family members treat Sai and his blind eyes towards that and his soft treatment towards Papi-didi.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

I find it hilarious all his expectations from Sai when the man is still in love with his sister in law

if he wants a quiet dinner so badly why not with Pakhi ...the girl is just waiting to jump his bones ...all that pent up sexual frustration is coming out with her constantly wanting to be near him all the time. Viraat has set no boundaries with Pakhi but tries to set them with Sai

Virat is a MCP in PML clothing

(PML = progressive male lead)

R u really sure virat is in love with pakhi ? Why sai is not divorcing virat . Aise kya kasiyat hain virat mein jo sai itna majboor hain usse ke saath rehne ke liye.

ACP virat chavan is magic☺️jalwe hain inke 2 women is ek ACP ke attention ke liye lad rahi hain.

Virat kiska hoga sai ya pakhi ka ?

Jane ke liye dekhte rahiye

Ghum hain kissi ke pyar mein

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I dont think Virat ruined Sai's life. He definitely cares about Sai. He is trying to be supportive. But his family and PP are definitely out to ruin Sai. And they are so evil that they have the potential to ruin her life. I'm not sure why they are SO angry with Sai. It would be much more "real" if they would ignore her because they dont consider her family. But instead they keep provoking and engaging her in fights. I guess thats because they need to show melodrama on the show. Virat obviously will not see how evil his family is right now. Kyunki he thinks "dil ke acche" hain and he has learnt since childhood to " toe the line", not answer back, and so he expects the same fom Sai. But Sai does not care for all these "norms". If she sees something unjust, wrong she will speak up and her tone will not be as "gentle and diplomatic" as Virat. Virat also speaks to only Sai in a loud tone. He only loses his cool with her, never with pp or his family. I guess thats because unconsciously he feels like Sai ke saath he can haq jataofy. Shes younger than him and shes his wife so . But if he does not clarify that he has changed the T&C of this "deal" waali shaadi and let her know that he wants them to actually be husband-wife in spashta shabd then Sai will get confused by his mixed signals. Virat thinks that he is very straightforward but actually his thoughts and actions are all full jalebi. He has started having wife- expectations from Sai already. Sai hasnt realized that yet.

Originally posted by: nilmi

I think GC people destroyed both Sai and Virat's life forcing them for a marriage.... Sai is 18 years old... As a adult Virat could have refuse this marriage thing.... You don't want to marry someone to protect her from gunda... For god sake he is a IPS officer....he could think a another way...He was the only one who could have stop this marriage....marriage is a most illogical option here....He knew he never be able to love her..at least he believed so... so why he did this marriage thing.... Is he going to divorce her and made her marry to someone after she become a doctor....Whatever relationship they have had after being married for years who is going to marry a divorcee...I mean its difficult to find someone for a divorcee or are they going to stay in this way forever... Doesn't she deserve love, loving in laws, kids...

Law give right to 18 yrs old to take decision of his or her life . Sai has a choice to run away maybe she would had been in happy place.

Aaj court bhi sai se yahi puchega why she said yes for marriage ?

Originally posted by: anjali0111

Definitely virat has not "ruined" sai's life.

However regressive, orthodox and crude this sounds but what he said in today's episode was true that "ek bar ghar se bahar jakar dekho, aate daal ka bhav pata chal jayega, tum apni scholarship aur aaba ke paiso se life nahi chala sakti"

Hum chahe kitne bhi progressive kyu na ho jaye lekin hum puri duniya ko to nahi sudhar sakte na ek bar mein ....na hi expect kar sakte hai ki hume sab achhe hi log milenge hamesha...aur agar sai itni hi mature aur samajhdar hoti toh wo suicide karne ki koshish nahi karti

Pehle virat ne shadi se mana kar diya tha...wo apne ghar wapas ja raha tha, chala bhi gaya hota agar sai ne suicide attempt nahi kiya hota...iske baad hi virat ko andaza hua ki chahe wo kitni hi intelligent kyu na ho par wo impulsive hai, usme tehraav nahi hai...wo nahi survive kar payegi akele. Isliye usne shadi ka decision liya.

Aur jaha tak ye baat hai ki sai ne to mana kiya tha shadi se.. toh mauka to sai ke pas bhi tha...chahe to wo bhi bhag sakti thi but she chose to stay.

Aur govt aid ki baat toh na hi kare toh achha kyunki wo show mein nahi bataya gaya hai...aise toh reality mein aur bhi bahut sari cheeze hoti hai jo show mein nahi hui hain...rahi baat scholarship aur aaba ke paiso ki to wo ab tak mile bhi nahi hai sai ko... Admission to pehle hi ho chuka...koi bhi college fees liye bina to karta nahi to kya sai ek year waste kar deti aur agle saal phir try karti agar virat nahi hota toh

Maana ki chavans bahut orthodox hain, kameene hain to the core but joint family hai...kuch log bure to kuch achhe bhi to hain

Aur virat ki wo baat bhi bilkul theek hai ki sai koi kitaab padh lene Se life mein successful nahi ho jayegi use experience, maturity, tehraav ki jarurat hai jo virat use sikhana chahta hai

Maana ki virat ka ekdum se itni ummeed karna aur chillana theek nahi hai lekin galti sirf uski nahi hai...dono ki barabar hai...isliye sirf virat ko doshi maanna aur keh dena ki virat ne sai ki life ruin ki hai ye bilkul galat hai.

Unki koi love marriage nahi hai...bahut weird se haalat mein shadi hui hai....time lagega...fights bhi hongi...mis understanding bhi hongi...but they will survive agar unke rishte mei wo baat hogi nahi to ise tutne se koi nahi rok sakta

Isliye kuch fights and arguments se sirf ek insan ko galat batana theek nahi hai

I agree with you on several points , but the question was" has Virat ruined Sai's life by marrying her?"

I am not blaming him for marrying Sai, but unconsciously when he supports his Kaku and Baba, knowing there vengeful nature, when he does not clears his situation with Pakhi(Sarplekha) either he is with her or he has left her due to lack of this clarification Sarplekha is so vengeful against her , if not Virat what is the reason Sarplekha is after Sai? When he is failing to do so, the ultimate result is Sai's disrespect and torture.

Yesterday toh when he was harping about Ehsaan, if I was in Sai's place : I would have told him, if her father would not have died saving him, none of the ehsaans were required, so ultimately the biggest ehsaan was from Sai's side; which she did not mention(point to be noted), instead she thanked him for sar pe chat and badon ka aashirwaad.

Coming to finances, we are talking about Indian Parents, they start saving for our education before we are even born. Now, if Kamal ji knew her daughter wants to be a doctor since childhood,I am sure he was not planning his early retirement since that time, as mentioned in show; So he would have prepared accordingly finance wises, that even without his VRS money/scholarship she would be able to complete education.So monetary wise, Sai should be independent; it's a whole different deal ITV is not showing that clearly.

But in any situation, with the current track going Sai's life is getting ruined.

Ab ITV mein loopholes toh 100% honge. Its too much to expect a solid loophole free story. If Virat didnt marry Sai they would not have a love triangle premise which is an ITV staple. They love this unrequited pyaar nonsense! In the real world this marriage would never happen. Virat is an ips officer. Sai is a state topper. Both are educated, modern and smart people. Even if Sai tried to commit suicide Virat would have got her treated for clinical depression and not got married. What if Virat was a married man or already engaged to be married to someone. How would the GC villagers expect him to get married to Sai....but obviously ITV mein aise logical questions cant be asked. Even if they were to get married Virat did not need to make that decision without informing anyone in his house. Even if he knew they'd oppose it, no one would make such a big decision without any consulation.

Infact, even after marriage they have shown Sai "move on" too quickly. She was so affected by her fathers death that she was suicidal and now she is only involved in this family drama. We never see her struggle to get over her father's death and we dont get to see any sweet moments where Virat realizes how much she misses her father and consoles her. Jis "emotional support" ke liye Virat married Sai voh dikhate hi nahi. Instead they have only shown family drama which is OTT.

Originally posted by: deepikagupta9

R u really sure virat is in love with pakhi ? Why sai is not divorcing virat . Aise kya kasiyat hain virat mein jo sai itna majboor hain usse ke saath rehne ke liye.

ACP virat chavan is magic☺️jalwe hain inke 2 women is ek ACP ke attention ke liye lad rahi hain.

Virat kiska hoga sai ya pakhi ka ?

Jane ke liye dekhte rahiye

Ghum hain kissi ke pyar mein

Mon 2 sat , raat 8:00 baje only on star plus.

Rishta wahi soch nayi😆

🤣

Hahahah they should hire you to write their montages lol 😂