Apni izzat apni haath mein hoti hai - Subtle, yet powerful - Page 2

Originally posted by: Abhinaya_Abhi

In between all these, Virat considers Patralekha more mature than Sai🤣

To understand Virat and Pakhi's maturity level, we must belong to another universe, where everything is ulta🤣

Yes and how true were those words.

Virat's expression to that line seems like he was enlightened😆

Originally posted by: ..Peppermint..

Yes and how true were those words.

Virat's expression to that line seems like he was enlightened😆

Exactly! It felt like that's when he realised how "immature" Sai was🤣

You're so right. Also, it seemed like she was giving Pakhi a slight warning. She has tried to degrade Sai so many times now but Sai always comes out looking better because she has nothing to hide and her intentions are pure. If Pakhi continues this, she will end up looking like an idiot.

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

You're so right. Also, it seemed like she was giving Pakhi a slight warning. She has tried to degrade Sai so many times now but Sai always comes out looking better because she has nothing to hide and her intentions are pure. If Pakhi continues this, she will end up looking like an idiot.

Exactly!! Sai definitely has no intention of demeaning Pakhi and she never has. She only called out Pakhi and Virat on their BS when they don't respect her. But Pakhi does demean Sai and her intentions are definitely disgusting. Sai definitely has the moral high ground here and Pakhi should tread carefully now, If not, she's gonna fall into a big puddle one day, no one can actually save her.

Originally posted by: I-Am-SherLOCKED

You're so right. Also, it seemed like she was giving Pakhi a slight warning. She has tried to degrade Sai so many times now but Sai always comes out looking better because she has nothing to hide and her intentions are pure. If Pakhi continues this, she will end up looking like an idiot.

You know what, even while she was "warning" Pakhi, she never put a label on her. She never said Pakhi is this, that. Yes, she told her off for invading her privacy but she never called her names. There is no attempt whatsoever to character assassinate(even if she had reasons to).

This was wonderful on her part and she definitely stands in contrast to Pakhi who baselessly accused her of being badtameez, amongst many other label she's placed on her.

This is what a strong woman is. Strong woman do not bring others down to reach the top.

Originally posted by: LadyWhistledown

To understand Virat and Pakhi's maturity level, we must belong to another universe, where everything is ulta🤣

Exactly🤣

Well said

Lovely post, Niyaaaaaaaa! ❤️❤️❤️🤗 I am so loving this war between the two women. It's Sai's way of saying that she doesn't want to accept her invitation to this war but somehow she's already pulled into it.

I actually can't justify PP's anger and rage because I personally believe that we choose our happiness or sorrow by our own reactions to the situations. So, as part of my value system, I cannot understand why she is putting herself through this pitiful situation when she has all the backing, confidence and intelligence to make the right choice. While we want to blame Virat for it -- yes his inability to speak up the truth is a big hassle but I will not blame him for PP's misplaced notion. I agree with someone who said that he's been trying to push her away, he is NOT making the first move towards her for any new gestures etc that should make her feel that he wants to continue a relationship with her. If I were in her place, I would convince myself that this man has moved on and never loved me because he couldn't fight for me in the first place. Period. What is my jagah in his life doesn't even matter.

But PP holds on to her own illusion of what she wants from Virat, trying to find it in his words or actions, even when he has not actually done it the way she sees it. For example, regretting the marriage - I never felt from any of those dialogues that he regretted the marriage. He was just angry and ranting and Sai -- the person he feels a connection with -- was at the receiving end. Not PP. But PP saw it from her own lens which continues to be tinted with the colour of the vaada.

I so LOVED how Sai was restless recalling Virat saying he's choked to the throat and won't be able to push down the food. He already explained his action of pushing away the plate and she got the point. She wasn't hysterical about it but was trying to cool it off by finding a solution, which is her typical trait.

Yes, we can blame Virat for the vaada but well PP knows it's already broken. So what's the point of holding on to it? I don't think she's in such dire straits that she won't survive without the vaada. She should have the courage to walk up to Virat and tell him : vaada nibhana ya Nahi nibhaana tumhare haath me Hain. Like Sai.

But no, she won't do it because that is her drug. She wants to live in this fantasy that she holds so much importance in his life that he's promised to set himself on fire and let her watch the show.

Sai did feel bad for her during the Gadchiroli scenes right after their wedding and even later when she would sense her discomfort while Virat was blindly trying to push her as a 'guide'. But now, as she has seen PP's true colours within three days, I don't think it's as much sympathy as the need to show her the mirror.

Her "mujh se Judi cheez ke baare me bolengi" had weight. She even looked at Virat when she said it. Sai knows that Virat's My best friend essay and PP's 'dosti' for Virat are not the same thing. I thought more than even showing her the mirror, it was Sai's way of knocking at Virat's head indirectly. Because she knows that people like Karishma are speaking about their relationship behind their backs in the house. To Sai, Virat may not be her 'husband' yet, but she will still guard his reputation. And she knows that the gossip mill is working overtime in Chavan niwas, which Virat is almost oblivious to. So she also warned him about someone seeing PP in their room at night.

But yes, PP has invited Sai into a play area that she really doesn't need to step into. Sai already owns the field.

That's just my opinion.

I totally in love with sai and virat jodi...but root problems is due to virat vada yo pakhi..we can't totally blame pakhi for whatever happening.. first virat should make a clear mind about what he want in life.

Why he made a vada to pakhi?? What exactly he meant by that vada?? In my point of view virat is the cause of all problems.

Samart become scapegoat..I feel so sorry to him..pakhi and virat done wrong to him..sai on the other hand known that virat have a commitment..

Originally posted by: jankiraghav

Lovely post, Niyaaaaaaaa! ❤️❤️❤️🤗 I am so loving this war between the two women. It's Sai's way of saying that she doesn't want to accept her invitation to this war but somehow she's already pulled into it.

I actually can't justify PP's anger and rage because I personally believe that we choose our happiness or sorrow by our own reactions to the situations. So, as part of my value system, I cannot understand why she is putting herself through this pitiful situation when she has all the backing, confidence and intelligence to make the right choice. While we want to blame Virat for it -- yes his inability to speak up the truth is a big hassle but I will not blame him for PP's misplaced notion. I agree with someone who said that he's been trying to push her away, he is NOT making the first move towards her for any new gestures etc that should make her feel that he wants to continue a relationship with her. If I were in her place, I would convince myself that this man has moved on and never loved me because he couldn't fight for me in the first place. Period. What is my jagah in his life doesn't even matter.

But PP holds on to her own illusion of what she wants from Virat, trying to find it in his words or actions, even when he has not actually done it the way she sees it. For example, regretting the marriage - I never felt from any of those dialogues that he regretted the marriage. He was just angry and ranting and Sai -- the person he feels a connection with -- was at the receiving end. Not PP. But PP saw it from her own lens which continues to be tinted with the colour of the vaada.

I so LOVED how Sai was restless recalling Virat saying he's choked to the throat and won't be able to push down the food. He already explained his action of pushing away the plate and she got the point. She wasn't hysterical about it but was trying to cool it off by finding a solution, which is her typical trait.

Yes, we can blame Virat for the vaada but well PP knows it's already broken. So what's the point of holding on to it? I don't think she's in such dire straits that she won't survive without the vaada. She should have the courage to walk up to Virat and tell him : vaada nibhana ya Nahi nibhaana tumhare haath me Hain. Like Sai.

But no, she won't do it because that is her drug. She wants to live in this fantasy that she holds so much importance in his life that he's promised to set himself on fire and let her watch the show.

Sai did feel bad for her during the Gadchiroli scenes right after their wedding and even later when she would sense her discomfort while Virat was blindly trying to push her as a 'guide'. But now, as she has seen PP's true colours within three days, I don't think it's as much sympathy as the need to show her the mirror.

Her "mujh se Judi cheez ke baare me bolengi" had weight. She even looked at Virat when she said it. Sai knows that Virat's My best friend essay and PP's 'dosti' for Virat are not the same thing. I thought more than even showing her the mirror, it was Sai's way of knocking at Virat's head indirectly. Because she knows that people like Karishma are speaking about their relationship behind their backs in the house. To Sai, Virat may not be her 'husband' yet, but she will still guard his reputation. And she knows that the gossip mill is working overtime in Chavan niwas, which Virat is almost oblivious to. So she also warned him about someone seeing PP in their room at night.

But yes, PP has invited Sai into a play area that she really doesn't need to step into. Sai already owns the field.

That's just my opinion.

I honestly can read your posts all day. Such great insight to every dialogue and in-depth analysis of all characters. It gives new perspectives to the entire show.