@clarity: I don't think you can take Kunal at face value when he is talking to Meenu. I totally accept that I am filling in the blanks here because there is no getting around the fact that Kunal isn't authour-backed enough to analyse him without a little imagination but in stringing all of the disparate scenes we got together, I formed this image of a guy who makes no bones about the fact that his mom and brother are his highest priority -- and that is a conscious, adult decision on his part. He keeps trying to distance Kuhu from his life to stand by this decision but circumstances and Kuhu herself don't oblige. Kuhu keeps hanging on and becoming more and more essential to him, making it harder and harder for him to put a cap on his own feelings.
If you juxtapose the scene where he tells Meenu he doesn't like her with the bachelor party scene, where he tries to tell Kuhu that he doesn't love her but ultimately can't do it when he looks in her eyes, it becomes more about him not understanding this connection they have as "love" (which persisted until recently when he asked Jugnu what love was), because it's simultaneously so much bigger and so much quieter than anything he has associated with that word before.
When he was saying he doesn't like Kuhu, I read it more as him protecting her from a marriage with someone who could never be the husband she deserves. He was saying to Meenu, don't make me ruin this person's life permanently, and extremely angry with her for making him into this horrible, deceitful person. And for me, that is the appeal of their story -- he keeps pushing her away and she keeps loving him anyway. In the process, he discovers that he is worthy of love and she discovers that she is capable of a lot more depth than anyone ever gave her credit for.
Edited by Samanalyse - 6 years ago