Sept 4th: Balcony adventures - Page 7

i would like to know when was it shown that mickey was dating two girls together😕

because currently he is NOT. him helping mini out & trying to understand her feelings is not trying to date her. People obviously dont understand friendship & that a guy & girl can be friends

Originally posted by: naq5

so mini will never cheat on preet with mickey even if she develops feelings for mickey she will try to hide them and not act on them.

I agree. Once Minnie develops/realises her feelings for Mickey, she will suppress them and hide her thoughts from her own self. It will be an internal struggle for her. But I feel, if things stay the way they are currently, nobody will end up happy. MiMi have a soft corner for each other, and I hardly think Preet is completely into this relationship. I've said this before, I doubt Mi-Reet will be a long term couple.

So you have not watched from the beginning if you dont remember him dating more than 2 girls at the same time. Please view and check.

He is using Preeti till he gets Mini. I have friends who are boys but is shown here with Mickey and Mini is taking it a bit far.

The sudden wisdom in him is a bit hard to justify seeing his past.

Originally posted by: naq5

i would like to know when was it shown that mickey was dating two girls together😕

because currently he is NOT. him helping mini out & trying to understand her feelings is not trying to date her. People obviously dont understand friendship & that a guy & girl can be friends

EDITED

It was shown in the initial few episodes. The day he left his umbrella for Minnie for the first time. But I really don't want to judge his character by something he did 170 or so episodes ago. He has evolved SO MUCH since then, it's commendable.

When the show started, he had Happy and Billa for friends and he knew that they are with him because of his father's money and connections that they used for partying and getting adult CDs from Khatri. He made them apologise for misbehaving with Minnie and it wasn't just because he wanted to impress her. He had clearly stated that he will not support those guys if they troubled any girl.

Mickey, before Minnie entered his life, had no outlet for his feelings or his true self. He was surrounded by shallow people, whether it be his friends or girls who went out with him for the money or the looks.

His father hardly seems like someone who would have sat him down to have heart-to-hearts. This makes his relationship with HS so much more heartwarming. Explains why he's growing under HS' guidance too. He respects his mother a lot, and he always upholds the swear he gave her to never be physical with girls, but I don't know how much say his mother has in decisions related to him. Plus, she lives away from him.

I feel Minnie brought about a lot of change in Mickey, mostly good. Being around her, he could be his real self - the emotional, caring, sweet guy that he is seen as now. He wasn't shown around another girl till Preet and he started dating. He didn't push Minnie even once to be with him since the Holi episode, turning over a new leaf.

If we start judging people by their past then what's the point of trying to improve as human beings? Everybody makes mistakes, but it matters how you learn and move on from them.

So trying to justify by saying that Preeti is not in the relationship and Mini and Mickey are. Its crazy and if Mini has any sense and wisdom that she is learning she should keep away from Mickey when Preeti is not there.

She knows what type of boy he is. Even if Preeti and Mickey break up and he takes up with Mini the sense of deceit and cheating will still be there.

Which is why swapping boyfriends in friends has never worked and never will as it is deceit.

The world is full of Boys so its not the end of the road for Mini but will be the end of there friendship i fear.

Originally posted by: tk2015

I agree. Once Minnie develops/realises her feelings for Mickey, she will suppress them and hide her thoughts from her own self. It will be an internal struggle for her. But I feel, if things stay the way they are currently, nobody will end up happy. MiMi have a soft corner for each other, and I hardly think Preet is completely into this relationship. I've said this before, I doubt Mi-Reet will be a long term couple.

i actually feel preet lacks the depth that mini has. for her a guy will act nice to her will look handsome & that is enough for her to fall in love. She is quite insensible & superficial which was seen in the track where she fought with mini. For mini emotions run much deeper than that she will like the person for what he/she is.

If any feelings had to develop between mickey- mini mini needed that time which neither preet gave her nor mickey. somewhere these both are at fault for getting into a relationship without thinking. here nor mickey is into it nor preet is.

And i disagree that if they continue to be like this & if only friendship is there between mini & mickey they will not be happy. the only thing i see happening in future is mickey -preet breakup (because even i dont see them as a long term couple) & mini going through the dilemma of whom to support

Originally posted by: tk2015

EDITED

It was shown in the initial few episodes. The day he left his umbrella for Minnie for the first time. But I really don't want to judge his character by something he did 170 or so episodes ago. He has evolved SO MUCH since then, it's commendable.

When the show started, he had Happy and Billa for friends and he knew that they are with him because of his father's money and connections that they used for partying and getting adult CDs from Khatri. He made them apologise for misbehaving with Minnie and it wasn't just because he wanted to impress her. He had clearly stated that he will not support those guys if they troubled any girl.

Mickey, before Minnie entered his life, had no outlet for his feelings or his true self. He was surrounded by shallow people, whether it be his friends or girls who went out with him for the money or the looks.

His father hardly seems like someone who would have sat him down to have heart-to-hearts. This makes his relationship with HS so much more heartwarming. Explains why he's growing under HS' guidance too. He respects his mother a lot, and he always upholds the swear he gave her to never be physical with girls, but I don't know how much say his mother has in decisions related to him. Plus, she lives away from him.

I feel Minnie brought about a lot of change in Mickey, mostly good. Being around her, he could be his real self - the emotional, caring, sweet guy that he is seen as now. He wasn't shown around another girl till Preet and he started dating. He didn't push Minnie even once to be with him since the Holi episode, turning over a new leaf.

If we start judging people by their past then what's the point of trying to improve as human beings? Everybody makes mistakes, but it matters how you learn and move on from them.

i agree mini has brought a lot of positive change in mickey. & if a person has changed so much then why judge him for his past. .

Originally posted by: guddi01

So you have not watched from the beginning if you dont remember him dating more than 2 girls at the same time. Please view and check.

He is using Preeti till he gets Mini. I have friends who are boys but is shown here with Mickey and Mini is taking it a bit far.

The sudden wisdom in him is a bit hard to justify seeing his past.

U must mean his introduction episode. Was that not done for emphasis tho to show he was a Romeo? Also, is he not capable of change? This was a long time ago. Once upon a time hs was a drunk and a wife beater but look at him now. It’s quite evident the change in mickey from that first episode and there has been no mention of being a loverboy since then. Mini would struggle to find any guy who at one point when he was younger thought it was cool to have two “girlfriends” at the same time.

Ppl do not forever remain the same.

Originally posted by: naq5

i agree mini has brought a lot of positive change in mickey. & if a person has changed so much then why judge him for his past. .

Exactly! This is the height of hypocrisy when we are constantly admiring the man hs has evolved into.

I also don’t get why preet’s feelings come above mickeys just because preet has been around longer. Who’s shown mini loyalty and real friendship between the two ppl? Where was preet during the divorce and mini’s depression? She was spreading stories in school about mini making things worse, telling everyone how wild she’s becoming. I am 100% certain even after all that, mini will not act on any feelings because she is fiercely loyal, but let’s be frank here, she’s never got or will ever get that loyalty from preet. Mickey, yes, Bobby, yes but not preet.

If we are judging all by their first impression that means babitas evolution doesn’t count also. For all we know this could be done on purpose by the writers to show how we CAN change, if we start associating ourselves with better ppl!

But people forget that Preeti is not strong like Mini and when the Marriage proposal came for her and that too from canada she was over the Moon but did not see till later that he was controlling her and telling her who to be friends with even and was lucky that Mini saved her from a marriage that would have been hell. She apologised to Mini and become friends and did ask Mini before taking up with Mickey. Some even make body shame her which is wrong.

But Mini should know better and she is uncomfortable with him and I think that he is forcing him self to be near her all the time. A leopard never changes his spots and he is one who on seeing that Mini is not interested in him takes up with Preeti.

No its wrong to say that HS has changed him. Oh please when. Even HS has asked him many times what he is doing there and even today he was not happy to see him there and it was till Mini said he is helping that HS let it go. Its why Mini did not tell HS what Mickey was doing when she got locked out as she knew it would lead to trouble.

This is all going to end in tears and a big breakup as well.

Or is it that Mini is attracted to Mickey because after all there is a saying that a Apple will not fall far from a tree.

Very sad if they go down this route as its not a good signal.