Originally posted by: -Lostindreams
I wud have said EXACTLY the same thing, if i hadn't discussed abt this subj. wth my cousin.Being alone is a scary thing 2.And i agree tht evn islam doesn't permit husbands 2 be violent, but in our culture i bet evn if the sasural burned their bahu, ppl wud say "haan woh larki ne nakhre dikhaye ho ge".A girl like Kiran Husband se to adhi mar hi rahi thi, after divorce logo ki baatein sun kar poori hi mar jaaye gi.Personally i feel words hurt ALOT more.After have said all tht, i have a feeling i wud have done the same as Kiran.
This all depends. Some girls in our culture who get divorced have it really bad, and people treat them horribly. However by the same measure many are able to move on easily. Two of my Aunt's are divorcees, they got married again to men their own age who had never been married before, and no one ever said anything to them about being divorcees.
I also have a cousin who got divorced, she got married to a man her age who had never been married before, and they've been together for ages living a happy life.
Also other members of my extended family, have gone through divorces and remarried easily.
In fact I know a lady who got divorced because her husband physically abused her, she got remarried pretty quick afterwards, and has been married for well over ten years now with no problems.
So it just depends. You should never believe getting divorced dooms you to a life of hell. Yes there's a possibility that getting divorced will lead to difficulty, but there are also many divorcees who live their lives totally normally after divorce.
To be honest this drama is the first time I've seen a divorcee being treated like a criminal.
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