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Posted: 9 years ago
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Shyamala,

In the film "Mayaa Bazaar", it was Gatothgajan and not Bhiman who sings the song "Kalyana Samayal sadam".

Saraswathi.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sashashyam

My dear (what is your name, if you do not mind?),

Thank you so much for liking this one such a lot, and for the part 1 of your comments too.

Yes, the muh dikhayi was lavishly presented, the overhead shots were wonderful, and the flashback to the Gangaur scene was perfect. As Lavanya (Sabdabhala) has pointed out on page 1 above, Jalal, as he circles the basin of water, must have been thinking exactly the same thing. whence his pleased smile!

Jodha looked gorgeous, perhaps her best so far, with those wide, shocked eyes in a drawn face. I agree that from now on she will need a lot of guts and determination, but also good judgement and commonsense. She has plenty of the first two but very little of the second, alas! If this had not been the case, she would never have burnt the shaadi ka joda.

I shall look out for Parts 2 & 3 of your comments.

Shyamala Aunty

Dear Shyamala Aunty, Your Welcome. 😊
My name is Shagun. Will post rest of my comments tomorrow positively. And yes, Jodha has a need for common sense. But her burning the Shaadi ka joda cannot be considered here as it was the result of momentary rage and the current circumstances. It was not something she had done after thinking about the consequences. And here, she can't be blamed...in my opinion.

Edited by -AkDha.Lover- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#43
Wonderful analysis Aunty. Love love love all these Shaadi episodes.
Ok, I am going to play defence attorney here. Yup, Jo's defence attorney.😉 Her behavior may not be the most graceful and princess like but is totally understandable for a normal human being, princess or otherwise.
I agree with you and others that what Jodha did, i.e. burn the joda and then the shartein was very stupid and immature but... I cannot discount her feelings and her emotional turmoil in the situation she is faced with.
Think about it:
*Jalal comes into Amer in disguise, makes an utter fool of not only her but her whole family, kills a bunch of soldiers. All this is unprovoked.
*The Mandir incident where not only did the soldiers loot but also molested Mothi bai.
* The Amer war when Surya lost his life.
Now we know that the last two were not Jalal's doing but for Jodha and the Ameris it is the Mughals and that means Jalal. The leader is where the buck stops. Good or bad. He gets the credit and the brickbats.
This intense hatred that she feels for him is not unfounded.
In this situation how else is she going to behave? She is having a serious panic attack. She is completely trapped. It is fight or flight for her now. She knows that her family has made its decision and they are in no position to change it. She is alone, alone and alone.
All her commonsense is out of the window.
For her Jalal is the Jallad and not someone that she even respects.
For us it may seem extremely unreasonable and stupid. But for Jodha her feelings, her fear, her revulsion towards this whole affair is very very real. She is the proverbial sacrificial lamb and she ain't going down quietly. 👏 I hope the real Jodha gave a good fight to the real Akbar too.😆
The reason Bharmal is giving her so much space and making her understand as to what her actions could lead to and not just dragging her to the Mandap and marrying her off is because he himself is not feeling good about this whole transaction.
The shartein, it may not have been so dramatic in real life but I do think there is something to it. There is a strong possibility that Jodha asked for her religious freedom before the marriage happened. There is no way that Akbar offered it to her on his own. And I don't think Bharmal was in a position to ask for anything except for his son and nephews and protection from Sharif.
Devki
Edited by devkidmd - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: devkidmd

The shartein, it may not have been so dramatic in real life but I do think there is something to it. There is a strong possibility that Jodha asked for her religious freedom before the marriage happened. There is no way that Akbar offered it to her on his own. And I don't think Bharmal was in a position to ask for anything except for his son and nephews and protection from Sharif.
Devki

All of Akbars wife converted to islam before marriage
In islam and all judaism religions you cannot marry a different religion person if you do not convert
So for all official purpose and outside world the wives were muslims not hindus
Even Hira Kunwari converted to islam- its not true she remained hindu as being potrayed
Inside agra fort they all followed their religious practices and also their festivals like holi, diwali, dusserha and rakhi
I doubt jodha had that much power to put any shartein or ask anything to akbar for initial few years.
Because Akbar was a casanova till his late 30s atleast and was not one woman man to listen only to jodha. All this freedom he gave his wives was a political tactic to assuage the rajpuths. And he married two three more rajputh princess in same year he married Hira Kunwari. So we cannot conclusively say he allowed freedom listening to her. That was a well thought out political strategy and there is no gaurantee that he immediately allowed his wives to follow religious freedom. May be through the months and years he slowly allowed them religious freedom to get more rajpuths into matrimonial alliance with him.
Rahim, Bairam Khan's son was born to a lady that belonged to Lord Krishna's family. Rahim was tutored in hindu philosophy and was a Krishna follower from beginning(as his mom belonged to that family and not because Hira Kunwari introduced him to Lord Krishna etc)
Edited by myviewprem - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: myviewprem

All of Akbars wife converted to islam before marriage
In islam and all judaism religions you cannot marry a different religion person if you do not convert
So for all official purpose and outside world the wives were muslims not hindus
Even Hira Kunwari converted to islam- its not true she remained hindu as being potrayed
Inside agra fort they all followed their religious practices and also their festivals like holi, diwali, dusserha and rakhi
I doubt jodha had that much power to put any shartein or ask anything to akbar for initial few years
That was because even Humayun, Bairam Khan etc married in other religions to expand the mughal empire
Rahim, Bairam Khan's son was born to a lady that belonged to Lord Krishna's family. Rahim was tutored in hindu philosophy and was a Krishna follower from beginning(as his mom belonged to that family and not because Hira Kunwari introduced him to Lord Krishna etc)

Prem,
When you convert to Islam you cannot, simply cannot idol worship. Period. You say they converted but still prayed to Krishna and followed hindu traditions? I just do not buy that. Things may be a little arbitrary now but back then not so much. And even if she did convert, she was still allowed to worship her own way right? How did that happen? Did Akbar out of the magnanimity of his heart tell her to do that?
Which wife of Humayun's was hindu? Bairam Khan wife's family was said to have descended from Lord Krishna's family. But her ancestors had converted to Islam long back. The possibility of her having been raised as a Krishna follower is very remote. To say that she belonged to Lord Krishna's family is a serious misrepresentation of facts in my opinion.
Rahim's mother was the daughter of Jamal Khan of Mewat and her sister was Humayun's wife.
Devki
Edited by devkidmd - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: devkidmd

Prem,
When you convert to Islam you cannot, simply cannot idol worship. Period. You say they converted but still prayed to Krishna and followed hindu traditions? I just do not buy that. Things may be a little arbitrary now but back then not so much. And even if she did convert, she was still allowed to worship her own way right? How did that happen? Did Akbar out of the magnanimity of his heart tell her to do that?
Which wife of Humayun's was hindu? Bairam Khan wife's family was said to have descended from Lord Krishna's family. But her ancestors had converted to Islam long back. She was in no way raised as a hindu or as a Krishna follower. To say that she belonged to Lord Krishna's family is a serious misrepresentation of facts in my opinion.
Rahim's mother was the daughter of Jamal Khan of Mewat.
Devki

That is as per religion and all those rules are for commoners
Like that akbar should not marry more than 4 wives he had many
Do you think anyone could tell akbar what to do and how to follow rules and religion?
In politics the rich and powerful do what is best for them and empire not what their religion says. Take any empire british - the british king split Church to marry another woman. So all these things are for commoners without power not for emperors anyways
It is not whether you or i believe but that was truth that akbar, jehangir, shah jahan(yes), aurangzeb(hold your breath) had hindu wives or cocubbines who not only converted to marry them but also followed their former religion inside home.
Aurangzeb fav cocubbine wanted to play holi with aurangzeb and aurangzeb to please her even aggred to have tilak on his forehead on holi but then she did not put at last as she knew he would be hurt and was only doing to please her.
Auraganzeb loved the cocubbine so much(now is there any difference between wife and cocubine not really because if you are emperor fav cocubbines you were more powerful than his wedded wives) to allow her to celebrate holi always and even permit to put tilak
Its simple they are your family(wife and cocubbines) and whatever makes family happy that makes emperor(who is husband) happy. So as time passed they gave them freedom to do puja and play diwali and holi and joined them. What is so unbelievable after all your family happiness comes first over any religious dictat- you have to live with your family 24/7
Many books say that what i said that they converted but followed their religion inside house- badauni, mughal harem books etc
That is what happens today too if a hindu marries a muslim man she converts but follows her festivals(i have seen many who do that celebrate both festivals) but usually wife converts never a man
None of humayuns wife were hindu- that fact i wrote wrong, actually the shah of persia adviced him to make matrimonial alliance with local rulers if he has to rule long, so he followed that rule
Edited by myviewprem - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

All of Akbars wife converted to islam before marriage
In islam and all judaism religions you cannot marry a different religion person if you do not convert
So for all official purpose and outside world the wives were muslims not hindus
Even Hira Kunwari converted to islam- its not true she remained hindu as being potrayed
Inside agra fort they all followed their religious practices and also their festivals like holi, diwali, dusserha and rakhi
I doubt jodha had that much power to put any shartein or ask anything to akbar for initial few years.
Because Akbar was a casanova till his late 30s atleast and was not one woman man to listen only to jodha. All this freedom he gave his wives was a political tactic to assuage the rajpuths. And he married two three more rajputh princess in same year he married Hira Kunwari. So we cannot conclusively say he allowed freedom listening to her. That was a well thought out political strategy and there is no gaurantee that he immediately allowed his wives to follow religious freedom. May be through the months and years he slowly allowed them religious freedom to get more rajpuths into matrimonial alliance with him.
Rahim, Bairam Khan's son was born to a lady that belonged to Lord Krishna's family. Rahim was tutored in hindu philosophy and was a Krishna follower from beginning(as his mom belonged to that family and not because Hira Kunwari introduced him to Lord Krishna etc)



prem i agree with you and i strongly believe Akbar was not a one woman man and was a casanova till mid thirties but i guess with age and esp when salim was born his closeness and trust might have been grown with jodha over time, but he was an alpha male and no joru ka ghulam as shown in the show and why would he be when he had a paltoon of women at his disposal but he believed in maintaining good relations not only with rajputs but all sectors and was secular in true sense and i would say the transitions were not just because of jodha, they were innate and he was an intelligent and strategic person, he very well knew what he was doing !

and also the false story portrayed in the serial is taken word for word from indu's the twentieth wife which is based on salim noor's love story! since there is no material on jodha and akbar's love saga the material is taken from another novel and how jodha saves akbar from britishers which is the joke of the century is exactly taken from that book which explains a scenario how noor saves salim when he was almost dying!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: myviewprem

All of Akbars wife converted to islam before marriage
In islam and all judaism religions you cannot marry a different religion person if you do not convert
So for all official purpose and outside world the wives were muslims not hindus
Even Hira Kunwari converted to islam- its not true she remained hindu as being potrayed
Inside agra fort they all followed their religious practices and also their festivals like holi, diwali, dusserha and rakhi
I doubt jodha had that much power to put any shartein or ask anything to akbar for initial few years.
Because Akbar was a casanova till his late 30s atleast and was not one woman man to listen only to jodha. All this freedom he gave his wives was a political tactic to assuage the rajpuths. And he married two three more rajputh princess in same year he married Hira Kunwari. So we cannot conclusively say he allowed freedom listening to her. That was a well thought out political strategy and there is no gaurantee that he immediately allowed his wives to follow religious freedom. May be through the months and years he slowly allowed them religious freedom to get more rajpuths into matrimonial alliance with him.
Rahim, Bairam Khan's son was born to a lady that belonged to Lord Krishna's family. Rahim was tutored in hindu philosophy and was a Krishna follower from beginning(as his mom belonged to that family and not because Hira Kunwari introduced him to Lord Krishna etc)


Not true. It is a historical fact, from reputable sources that some of Akbar's wives were cremated. That is only possible if they were Hindus and not converted to Islam. If some remained Hindus all their lives, then why should a chief wife like Hira Kunwari be denied that option.

Some people assume that Hindu wives must have converted because the strictest interpretation of Islam warrants it. But these rules never applied to Akbar, he broke so many of these rules that you will have a hard time counting.

For a man who practically invented his own religion, do you think he would care for any strict rules.

Secondly, Rahim was born to a Muslim woman, the daughter of Jamal Khan of Mewat(source Ain I Akbari, Vol 1). So no childhood inspiration, the influence came later.
Edited by Donjas - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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All of Akbars wife converted to islam before marriage
In islam and all judaism religions you cannot marry a different religion person if you do not convert
So for all official purpose and outside world the wives were muslims not hindus
Even Hira Kunwari converted to islam- its not true she remained hindu as being potrayed
Inside agra fort they all followed their religious practices and also their festivals like holi, diwali, dusserha and rakhi
I doubt jodha had that much power to put any shartein or ask anything to akbar for initial few years.
Because Akbar was a casanova till his late 30s atleast and was not one woman man to listen only to jodha. All this freedom he gave his wives was a political tactic to assuage the rajpuths. And he married two three more rajputh princess in same year he married Hira Kunwari. So we cannot conclusively say he allowed freedom listening to her. That was a well thought out political strategy and there is no gaurantee that he immediately allowed his wives to follow religious freedom. May be through the months and years he slowly allowed them religious freedom to get more rajpuths into matrimonial alliance with him.
Rahim, Bairam Khan's son was born to a lady that belonged to Lord Krishna's family. Rahim was tutored in hindu philosophy and was a Krishna follower from beginning(as his mom belonged to that family and not because Hira Kunwari introduced him to Lord Krishna etc)


prem i agree with you and i strongly believe Akbar was not a one woman man and was a casanova till mid thirties but i guess with age and esp when salim was born his closeness and trust might have been grown with jodha over time, but he was an alpha male and no joru ka ghulam as shown in the show and why would he be when he had a paltoon of women at his disposal but he believed in maintaining good relations not only with rajputs but all sectors and was secular in true sense and i would say the transitions were not just because of jodha, they were innate and he was an intelligent and strategic person, he very well knew what he was doing !

and also the false story portrayed in the serial is taken word for word from indu's the twentieth wife which is based on salim noor's love story! since there is no material on jodha and akbar's love saga the material is taken from another novel and how jodha saves akbar from britishers which is the joke of the century is exactly taken from that book which explains a scenario how noor saves salim when he was almost dying!
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Nowhere have I said that he did it out of love for Jodha. But I will not believe that he just offered to let her follow her religious traditions on his own. There is a strong possibility that this may have come from her and he, being politically savvy might have agreed to it.
Mandy, transitions only happen when the person is ready for them on his own. No one can change a person, just like no one can make an alcoholic give up alcohol. Everything comes from within. But to disregard other people's influence is not right either. There are always influences, good and bad. All I can say is company matters.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hahahaha and the debate goes on - my suggestion - let each believe what they feel in their hearts - because today none of us will know what really Akbar did or didn't do - unless we find some diary of his that he kept and wrote - and that would be a miracle in many many ways 😉😆
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