So well said. I hate it when star wives like Gauri or Jaya or Twinkle give advice on marriage or act like perfect family women or feminists or queens that they are not.
I wish everyone had guts like, say Dimple Kapadia who had guts to separate from Rajesh Khanna no less and go her own way. Though she too did not divorce him legally and later came to fight over his property.
I am okay with Suzanne also leaving HR when it did not work out, though she too was no saint. I admire courage of Reena and Kiran to divorce Aamir and not tolerate cheating with younger women or kid out of wedlock with other women. At least they never used excuse of image or kids to continue a sham. I admire guts of Vani and Sarika to divorce Kamal Haasan despite knowing Southern fans can be really possessive and give backlash when woman divorces their fav idol.
Cheating, philandering and constant philandering can and should never be tolerated. It traumatises and breaks a woman. I wonder why should only a woman keep quiet for sake of kids and why man cannot keep loyal and keep it in his pants for sake of wife and kids.
I dislike to see the sham family man image these stars like Akki, SRK, Sunny, Dharam, Amitabh blah blah project despite open awareness of what they are and despite some of them like Akki still being rangeela shaukeen. I also dislike this martyr act that Aamir puts up by crying in front of media and pretending to take breaks and talking about how he takes care of kids to help them digest divorce etc as if he is a martyr and get sympathy of audience. Reena and Kiran kept quiet while this man always played victim and cried in public, leading them to think maybe modern women are to blame for not adjusting.
I hate this tamasha by media worldwide and society to blame women - either wife or other woman, and give free pass to men or claim it is natural male behaviour to cheat or males are easily swayed or manipulated or polyamorous blah blah. While giving 'nibhana padta hai', 'fight to keep your man' gyan to women or calling other woman a seducer or witch or homebreaker.
Amused how women should be isolated from industry but men should stay there no matter how many new starlets they use and throw in lieu of getting them work.
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