Satyaprem Ki Katha
The movie makes a sincere attempt to tell a meaningful and important story. Overall, it is a good movie but falters in many aspects.
Both the leads, Sattu and Katha, do not develop as characters until almost the second half. Until then, the proceedings feel awkward and half-baked. Sattu's failures, desire to get married, and falling for Katha are barely scratched or explained.
But once their marital challenges enter the foray, both characters quickly develop a lot of depth, display a myriad of emotions, and grow as characters.
Some things that stood out to me are
- Sattu is perceived as good-for-nothing and lazy. However, he is constantly cooking and cleaning for the family. A woman who failed an exam and did the same would be lauded and told don't worry - you just have to find a nice family to marry. Sure, Sattu has some indignation and entitlement about not being shooed in to pass - but his challenge is the lack of people supporting him and pushing him to do better.
- Even when he doesn't know any better, Sattu is highly sensitive to his wife's needs, willing to sleep separately and defend her decisions. Despite his good intentions, he's clueless about addressing the situation. Only when his father-in-law advises him to get to know his wife does he connect with her. This should be a no-brainer. On the one hand, Indian society makes sex be something saved for someone you know and love, and on the other hand, it expects you to have sex with a stranger just because you got married. If you have an arranged marriage and don't know your partner well, you should try to get to know each other before sleeping together.
- I'm in two minds about the marriage circumstance. Knowing Indian society, I completely understand why Katha's family forced her into marriage and hid her past. But I felt sorry for Sattu, who felt so lost and lonely. But kudos to Sattu for realizing that he made a mistake by pushing forth with the marriage when Katha wasn't ready.
- Diwali and Sejal were off-putting as domineering women at the movie's start. But in the second half, you really love them. They're so supportive and understanding of Sattu and Katha. And you completely understand why they had to become the kind of women they are. It really shows the misogyny in the henpecked husband/domineering wife trope.
I never really liked Karthik because I felt he played one-note misogynistic characters and could only do comedy. But his depth in this movie made me realize that I need to give him another shot.
On the whole, I think everyone needs to watch this movie because people still don't understand consent - especially between romantic partners.
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