Rocky Aur Rani Ki Prem Kahani
Spoilers maybe? IDK.
I finally gave in to my FOMO and watched the movie. Between some of the rave reviews and harsh criticism, I don't know what I expected. But I felt both sides had painted an incorrect picture. What I got was mixed bag and a mediocre film.
- Rocky is earnest, has a big heart, genuinely cares for Rani, and is willing to change for her. He is not bothered or intimidated by her fiery independence and loves her for it. So I can see why Rani falls for him over the other intellectual equals she's dated. But at the same time, the love story doesn't make sense and moves too fast. Almost overnight, Rani goes from physical attraction to falling head over heels in love. A girl like Rani would have needed a lot more time and Rocky's willingness to wait. Also - their kissing was just so awkward.
- Jaya Bachchan is fantastic as Dhanlakshmi and is having the time of her life playing the crotchety villain Amitabh usually played. But the character is so one note. There is no character arc, and even the backstory is hollow.
- The use of oldies is fantastic. The movie really taps into nostalgia for beloved old songs and utilizes them wonderfully. But the actual soundtrack is just so mid. Not a single song stands out as a banger or earworm.
- The romance between Dharmendra and Shabana Azmi that forms the crux of the story was sweet and heartwarming. But it had an ick factor to it. I was expecting something like 'The One,' where they reminisce on what could have been, but it turned out to be more like 'Illicit Affairs', where they rekindled their romance while one had a living spouse. [This situation is the exact reason why I advocate for divorce vs. staying together for obligations. Dhanlakshmi remained married to a man who she did not love or respect. She never cheated on him, but there essentially is no relationship. Kanwal decided to return to his wife only to become an invalid dependent who would never receive care or love from his family. Jamini also decided to return to an abusive husband instead of leaving for a man who probably may have been a more supportive father to her son]
- I really appreciated the progressive beats and messaging of the film. It was refreshing to see them in a mass family entertainer. But I felt like we were being hit on the head with it than an organic narrative.
- Overall, the movie is entertaining and fun but could have done with a shorter runtime and less melodrama.
---
The big question for me was whether Rocky was an alpha male or appropriating queer culture. TL/DR - neither.
Rocky is the spoiled brat of an obscenely wealthy Punjabi household. As such, he is privileged and used to having things his way. He's also a stereotypical gym rat who likes to behave macho and flaunt his body. Were he an alpha male, he would be stuck in these ways, and it would be a taming of the shrew kind of deal where he tames Rani into appreciating him.
But he's not that. He may not be highly intelligent, but he has emotional intelligence where he sees his shortcomings and that of his family and is willing to change. He is uncomfortable with Rani's progressive family and taken aback by their habits, but not once does he look down or judge them for it.
That being said, you do wish his persona was less loud and his outfits less garish. I mean some of the outfits look like someone took Taylor Swift's glitteriest, most multicolored dresses and made shirts out of them. But flamboyant clothing isn't queer culture unless you want to be stereotypically reductive about queer culture.
If anything, he is a classic nouveau riche. Men whose families are not historically rich but have come into wealth more recently. They wear a lot of bling and dress outrageously garish to signal their wealth and stature. Hip Hop culture is full of stars from the hood who made it big and now they peacock around. Delhi has tons of guys who like to flaunt their wealth similarly.
His dancing Kathak or wearing a bra also have nothing remotely to do with queer culture, but his bonding with his girlfriend's parents and trying to understand and embrace their progressive values. Not for one moment does he drop his testosterone-fueled heteronormativity.
Honestly, I find the argument that he embraced queer culture reductive and somewhat intrinsically homophobic.
Edited by return_to_hades - 1 years ago
comment:
p_commentcount