abhira has become very annoying now - Page 3

Abhira key dimag key purzey dheele ho gaye hain. Only one thing can fix this pukeworthy bacha sharing and behenchara i-e low TRP but woh ayegi nahi

ITV female leads are all made into the typical toxicity tolerating, family oriented doormats after a certain point of time. Also, they might stand up and against injustice once in a while but at the end they will still go back into that toxic environment after an apology or too. Reminds me of those short Chinese dramas where the FL after being abused by the ML goes back to him after he protects her from the knife of doom.

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

Yeah, it's sad but kinda expected tbh. Every Itv show goes down this road eventually. Like, when Abhira was introduced, she was such a vibe. Her savage line to Kaveri, "Patagobbi kya Ganga snan kar ke aayenge?" Absolute queen !!!. Even when she came to the Poddar house, she would always stand up for herself and her mom. She was that carefree, IDGAF kinda girl who didn’t believe in love

But, her downfall started the moment she fell for Armaan. She suddenly turn into this people-pleaser who just takes all the BS thrown at her. She’s literally junior Anupama rn. And Anupama situation was diff—she wasn’t educated, got married young, had kids early, and her whole world was her kitchen. Her husband, and saas, even her kids treated her like trash. Vo alag baat hai ki Even after getting chances to level up, she still chooses to stay a loser.

Abhira, on the other hand, had way more going for her, her life wasn't as difficult as Anupama's life but she still ended up being another anupama. Idk what’s up with itv makers and their obsession with turning FLs into doormats the moment they fall in love. Like, why can’t they just let them stay savage and unbothered? Audiences would still love them.

I somewhat agree. She was my favourite out of all the female leads . I still like her but i miss the starting wali Abhira. I have said this somewhere her , that fall in love with Armaan is her biggest weakness. Love for him and his family, makes her very subdued. I can empathize and understand her, and I love how pure hearted she is, but once in a while I wish she was her fiery, outspoken earlier self.

Originally posted by: Krinya

It's actually the other way round and the baby is having milk from a diff woman..😆 ab baby ko kya pata , milk is milk and mother's milk is best for baby ..

But how can this situation be in a family unless both the women r expecting at the same time?

Yeah there r wet nurses but in India I've never heard of milk banks or anything like that.. women may choose to feed others babies

In my sister's family she and her sister in law both had babies at same time and they live in a joint family. Her sister in law didn't get enough milk so my sister feeded both the babies for months and that was few years ago.

But recently me and my sister in law both had babies too. She is in India and I am in another country. Both of us didn't get enough milk as well so right from hospital doctors gave us formula as supplements. These TV shows are crap and show anything.

Originally posted by: Phir_Mohabbat

Am I the only one feeling disgusted that as per abhira her kid will have another woman's breast milk 🤮what the actual fck who's this psycho writing the story

First of all why can't abhira feed the kid

Secondly it's a bonding experience done by mom how can she just give it to someone? Is she crazy? Such weirdo behaviour man she don't even feel ick?!

I feel bad for the kid kaha fas gya poor baby.

I feeling pukish thinking about it yuck yuck psycho writers kon hai joote maro inko Sadak pe ghasit k le ao

As a viewer, I don’t feel weird as I know it’s technically Ruhi child

But in general it’s so weird. I wouldn’t give another women to feed my child especially if they’ve just lost theirs. I would be afraid of them putting nazar on my child as theirs just passed away. Even if that person is my closest friend or sister

Originally posted by: Sneha.Narayanan

I somewhat agree. She was my favourite out of all the female leads. I still like her but i miss the starting wali Abhira. I have said this somewhere her, that fall in love with Armaan is her biggest weakness. Love for him and his family, makes her very subdued. I can empathize and understand her, and I love how pure hearted she is, but once in a while I wish she was her fiery, outspoken earlier self.

Abhira has gone on her dad Abhinav who thinks everyone around her is nice and kind hearted that’s not how the real world works

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

As a viewer, I don’t feel weird as I know it’s technically Ruhi child

But in general it’s so weird. I wouldn’t give another women to feed my child especially if they’ve just lost theirs. I would be afraid of them putting nazar on my child as theirs just passed away. Even if that person is my closest friend or sister

when the bacha swap thing came in spoilers I was thinking abhira will feed ruhis baby and I got ick since that time 🤮🤮🤮 some people are saying this common, I didn't know. Still very weird to me

That nazar thing to i didn't even think but that's true. It's so easy for kids to fall ill or something bad might happen. How can they even show it ew.

So whoever were the kid actors in this show they all need to do Puja havan for nazar removal, starting from kairav kid then abhir Ruhi and this small baby. The show is so manhoos people have very bad life whoever was part of this.

I feel so bad for Ruhi, watching her last couple of scenes has been absolutely heartbreaking. Whatever she did in the past, it is still so wrong for Armaan and Rohit to take her child away and gaslight her into thinking that he died. And don't even get me started on Abhira - for someone who's always called selfless and generous, I did not expect this type of insensitivity from her. Ruhi thinks her child is DEAD, why are you taking "your" baby and shoving him in her face when she's already grieving and hates your guts? Literally just leave her alone.

When the truth eventually comes out, I sincerely hope Ruhi divorces Rohit and takes her baby and peaces tf outta that nuthouse.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

But Akshara sharma was never that. People may hate her..but She lived life according to her own terms…she chose to do whatever she wanted to do…and then people called her selfish..But yes..abhira has changed..hopefully once this baby drama is done..and Ruhi will be back to her vile self spewing more hate on abhira while abhira is grieving..she may get back some of her original herself..and yes although Armaan loves abhira…her relationship to him has not been good for her character..she’s like giving up her dreams for him..and becoming what his family wanted. She fulfilled all those conditions in the prenup ☹️

That’s why I won’t be surprised that her not being able to conceive was a fake diagnosis.. as the doctor was kaveri’s friend

Kaveri played reverse psychology card .. she knew .. Abhira and Armaan will focus on their careers.. but she played this not being able to conceive diagnoses

Then later on when Vidya went against this she supported Armaan whole heartedly..

She also supported Abhira joining the office and gave her full freedom . She knew eventually as things were Abhira will conceive ..

So all this pregnancy mess and caution was something that doctor played along so that Abhira values her baby . What happened later in her mess up with Ruhi ( is something beyond her control )

Because now Abhira has fulfilled all the prenup conditions without even thinking about it .. yes she had a miscarriage… but she and Kaveri are both not aware of it ..

I guess they haven’t even completed 1 year into their second innings in shadi . And Abhira is crying over breastfeeding an infant .

After her 6 months check up of the doctor tells her your body is showing good vitals .. it’s the best time for you to have another child .. as it may not be the same again after 2-3 years .. she will jump in and get pregnant again to give a sibling to BSP ..

Kaveri might as well give the cabin to Manoj

I feel sad whenever dedicated homemakers are being portrayed as doormats in ITV, they're being clueless about their family members and always end up being the victims of mistreatment by others. IMHO this is BS, for instance my MIL resigned from her job as an engineer in DRDO to TC of her 3 kids my DH & 2SILs. They're the role models in our entire family and extended families. My MIL is no more but we worship her. My SILs having seen the love being showered on them are both very dedicated and caring mothers to their kids(3nos each) despite their demanding professions(Doctor and IT Manager) Their DH treat them like angels. I've seen numerous uneducated women including my grandma who know nothing but house management but were always like the heart and soul of their house and without their approval even a leaf wouldn't have flipped. These ITV serials are serving crap and mistrust in people's minds thereby spoiling our social fabric and are definitely one of the reason behind the diminishing family values. IMO it's not the mahaanta but stupidity which is the root cause of all problems in these stories. I just want to shout and tell these ITV characters, behave normally why overreact and try to rectify everything happening around. Please let others have a go at things, it's OK to be a passive witness.

Originally posted by: Randomlurker

Yeah, it's sad but kinda expected tbh. Every Itv show goes down this road eventually. Like, when Abhira was introduced, she was such a vibe. Her savage line to Kaveri, "Patagobbi kya Ganga snan kar ke aayenge?" Absolute queen !!!. Even when she came to the Poddar house, she would always stand up for herself and her mom. She was that carefree, IDGAF kinda girl who didn’t believe in love

But, her downfall started the moment she fell for Armaan. She suddenly turn into this people-pleaser who just takes all the BS thrown at her. She’s literally junior Anupama rn. And Anupama situation was diff—she wasn’t educated, got married young, had kids early, and her whole world was her kitchen. Her husband, and saas, even her kids treated her like trash. Vo alag baat hai ki Even after getting chances to level up, she still chooses to stay a loser.

Abhira, on the other hand, had way more going for her, her life wasn't as difficult as Anupama's life but she still ended up being another anupama. Idk what’s up with itv makers and their obsession with turning FLs into doormats the moment they fall in love. Like, why can’t they just let them stay savage and unbothered? Audiences would still love them.