Yeh Rishta Kya Kehlata Hai 06th Sep 2024 Written Update and EDT - Page 23

Originally posted by: firewings_diya

mujhe samajh nahi aatha ab flaunts her victory and mocks KP everytime when she wins against her. 😂 no wonder kp wants her sign on prenup kya patha potha hadap kar dhol bajaye 😂

Haan ek dum se Abhira ko Rona aur dhol bajana start ho jata hai.

Apni shaadi mein Kipling uncle ko bhi nahi bulaya abhira ne. Udaipur mein koi friend hai nahi mussoorie mein bhi koi nahi hai Abhira ka.

Armaan character looking like a sidey in this track. In every gen marriage track leads together used to solve problems. Here either it is hiding from partner or gaslighting partner.

What happened to abhira's self respect while getting money from arman's cousins when she showed her shwabimaan to arman when he wanted to give money. Dadi ki Baath toh chodo.

Aise chalti toh after marriage they can't live a single day peaceful as abhira will have self respect to even buy an ice cream on their date.

Originally posted by: Docworld

I am completely fine with Ab not taking financial assistance from Ar. This whole act of keeping him in darkness is something which I cant relate. Emotional support to leleti yaar..Yes Ar will try to confront Dadi had Ab told him the truth. But if Abhira forbids him to do so,I think he will listen.Whats even the need of deliberately suffering everything alone??During ArRu wedding too Ab had a similar plight. But then she didnt know Ar loves her. But now things r very diff. Afterall mutual understanding and trust also matter right? Atleast disclosing truth to Ar is still better than her signing those disgusting contract. If Ab cont to behave like this, then KP and Ru need not do something extra to seperate them.

I dont have any issue with Ab's dancing or smiling. But I do have issue with she still going to Kaveri pleasing mode after all these sufferings.Also the so calmly approach of Armaan towards prenup hasn't also sat well with me. Yeah people may think that he is trying to balance everything. But this type of balancing is not my cup of tea.

Fully agree!!!

@bold : exactly, that's the major issue I have. Why dont she seek emotional support from armaan Or manisha Or madhav (useless hain but he has supported in her difficult times), if she thinks they are her apne.

I don't have issue with abhira enjoying or dancing or smiling. But frankly speaking, she can't take the credit of sorting this issue. She messed it up totally. Entire credit goes only to her mumma, agar woh paise nahi milte toh abhira apne parents ki izzat ki band baja chuki hoti along with her own self respect. She has mentioned self respect ample amount of times, but it's time to put it in action.

We all know how she survived after divorce, the sad part she didn't learn anything from that experience. Else, instead of waiting for clients, she would have taken up a part time job & account mein 5000 se zyada paise hote. She always saw her mother managing multiple jobs even after being a successful lawyer, then what was stopping abhira. Job pe jaate nahi dikhate atleast dialogues toh de dete that she was working part time. She had enough time before engagement (advance toh de sakti thi for the function) tab tak poddars ki bahu ka tag bhi nahi tha uske upar.

Abhira must sit in silence with peaceful mind & introspect what she actually wants from her life. Right now she is a total mess.

Originally posted by: hari15

What happened to abhira's self respect while getting money from arman's cousins when she showed her shwabimaan to arman when he wanted to give money. Dadi ki Baath toh chodo.

Aise chalti toh after marriage they can't live a single day peaceful as abhira will have self respect to even buy an ice cream on their date.

self respect comes on selective basis that too to show on arman not on others 😜

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

Signing on the prenup papers is just so she gets the loan right ..and there are people willing to give her the money .:but she’d rather contemplate signing the papers or taking a bribe as opposed to taking the help of people who care for her …Armaan has told her that he trusts her to handle things ..that surely doesn’t imply trusting her to sign the papers ..he has already told Kaveri the prenup is unacceptable and unfair to Abhira..the reason he is buying time till the event is over is because he doesn’t want there to be a showdown prior to then…he wants the event to pass off peacefully for Abhira since she is the one hosting it…Armaan should have forbidden Abhira from accepting Kaveri as a guarantor and insisted she take a loan from him ..if he had done that, there would’ve been huge drama and Abhira would’ve said he did not trust her ability to repay a loan or live up to Kaveri’s trust …

My sympathies were entirely with Abhira during the IPL season ..but the day she put up with her parents being abused, something in me snapped ..today she talks of her parents and their honour ..what about when Sanjay and Kaveri and even Vidya called her parents names …what kind of selective self-respect is this ..and how is it self-respect to take the support of the one person, who has already made it clear that she is not fully on board and that her trust will have to be earned blah blah ..what kind of a lawyer will Abhira make if she can’t see the implicit threat behind those words and is still willing to accept her as guarantor …the prenup is vile and disgusting as is the person who drafted it ..that’s a given ..but this whole event tamasha is of Abhira's own making ..so sorry but my heart no longer breaks for her like it used to in the past ..I just feel like saying ..you signed up for this or rather actively created this situation ..so bhugto 🤷🏻‍♀️

you know it’s either a make or break situation ..if she sees Kaveri as vile and holds a grudge against her for that contract ..then she should tell armaan that she can’t live in kaveris house…but they are not making kaveri seem vile in this contract agreement..( even though we all know it’s actually dehumanising and takes all abhiras rights away from her) because they’re giving her dialogues like abhira won’t think of leaving Armaan..and it will be in armaans best interest..so they are trying to show that kaveri is not the villain in their love story trying to break them up ..but she’s rather just a control freak..who wants to control the lives of everyone who,lives with her .. and they’ve made ruhi the main culprit in this track who used phufasa and dadisa to get what she wants. Yes abhira could have taken the money from Armaan or other family members and paid them back...but she seems to want to do,it without their involvement..although the loan was still due to kaveris involvement..these writers mess up the characters too much. If abhira didn’t want podaars involved then she shouldn’t have used kaveri as a guarantor ..but then how could they have shown kaveri manipulate her to sign the contract. These writers want to write drama but then the mess up the characters by making them behave illogically and contrary to,their character traits. Anyway Armaan is fine now..but in future they can mess him up again completely..then people will be back on abhiras side and hating him. This is how itv drama goes..very rarely they write a good consistent lead character character 🙄

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

self respect comes on selective basis that too to show on arman not on others 😜

Abhira doesn't need any 3rd person to destroy her relationship with arman she herself is enough.

Originally posted by: Indira1211

you know it’s either a make or break situation ..if she sees Kaveri as vile and holds a grudge against her for that contract ..then she should tell armaan that she can’t live in kaveris house…but they are not making kaveri seem vile in this contract agreement..( even though we all know it’s actually dehumanising and takes all abhiras rights away from her) because they’re giving her dialogues like abhira won’t think of leaving Armaan..and it will be in armaans best interest..so they are trying to show that kaveri is not the villain in their love story trying to break them up ..but she’s rather just a control freak..who wants to control the lives of everyone who,lives with her .. and they’ve made ruhi the main culprit in this track who used phufasa and dadisa to get what she wants. Yes abhira could have taken the money from Armaan or other family members and paid them back...but she seems to want to do,it without their involvement..although the loan was still due to kaveris involvement..these writers mess up the characters too much. If abhira didn’t want podaars involved then she shouldn’t have used kaveri as a guarantor ..but then how could they have shown kaveri manipulate her to sign the contract. These writers want to write drama but then the mess up the characters by making them behave illogically and contrary to,their character traits. Anyway Armaan is fine now..but in future they can mess him up again completely..then people will be back on abhiras side and hating him. This is how itv drama goes..very rarely they write a good consistent lead character character 🙄

totally agree ..the writing is terrible and that’s why the characters are coming across so poorly ..there is no consistency or logic..like today, showing Abhira going to court and trying to source clients when the event is a couple of hours away ..this is 70s Nirupa Roy type melodrama ..making her fall on the road and break down and all ..the worst part is the TRPs are not skyrocketing either ..so I am not able to understand the logic behind why the writing is the way it is !

Originally posted by: sharadrocks

actually 23-24 is too young to get married ..these days most girls don’t marry until they’re financially independent ..here they’re showing her trying to find clients on the day of the event right ? What kind of absurdity is this? Both of us have had sympathy for Abhira in the past ..par the contrived writing now is making it impossible to empathize with her ..I’ve been saying nothing much for long but aaj toh mujhse saha nahi gaya ....such manipulative writing and blatant attempts at tear jerking..anyway our thoughts match yet again

her runninG around to get clients is all dkps stupid writing..gosh ..couldn’t they show a heroine working in a smart office setup…abhira could have got a job at a nice law firm after phufasa was exposed. But dkp wants her to,sit in podaars house every day ,.,.instead of dressing up smartly and going to work at an established firm.. this is all dkps heroines traits…they must Sit in the house and do kitchen politics..🙄..even if they’re educated and have a professional career 🤦🏻‍♀️

Originally posted by: Indira1211

you know it’s either a make or break situation ..if she sees Kaveri as vile and holds a grudge against her for that contract ..then she should tell armaan that she can’t live in kaveris house…but they are not making kaveri seem vile in this contract agreement..( even though we all know it’s actually dehumanising and takes all abhiras rights away from her) because they’re giving her dialogues like abhira won’t think of leaving Armaan..and it will be in armaans best interest..so they are trying to show that kaveri is not the villain in their love story trying to break them up ..but she’s rather just a control freak..who wants to control the lives of everyone who,lives with her .. and they’ve made ruhi the main culprit in this track who used phufasa and dadisa to get what she wants. Yes abhira could have taken the money from Armaan or other family members and paid them back...but she seems to want to do,it without their involvement..although the loan was still due to kaveris involvement..these writers mess up the characters too much. If abhira didn’t want podaars involved then she shouldn’t have used kaveri as a guarantor ..but then how could they have shown kaveri manipulate her to sign the contract. These writers want to write drama but then the mess up the characters by making them behave illogically and contrary to,their character traits. Anyway Armaan is fine now..but in future they can mess him up again completely..then people will be back on abhiras side and hating him. This is how itv drama goes..very rarely they write a good consistent lead character character 🙄

Armaan is fine because everything is going as per his preference now. Ideally he should have got angry for the contract thing. But he was acting diplomatic which is not a good sign.

Sorry to say both armaan abhira acting like nibba nibbi who r desperate for marriage by not wanting to see bigger picture.