Originally posted by: Apsvenky
@bold -💯. People worried that Armaan will blame Abhira once his anger has calmed down - have you seen how he has been treated in that house? Usse koi khane nahi puchta (except taunting him). No one cares what he feels and whether is doing okay or not - except Abhira.
People forget what has happened to him in the past. Armaan was outside Abhira's house for 2 days, yet not one of them had the courage to go and be with him or even bring a change of clothes for him for the darr of Dadisa. Even the people who support their marriage (incl Manoj-Manisha, chorus gang, Madhav-Vidya) not one of them is willing to take a stand in front of Dadisa to support him. The last hope he had with Rohit also shattered for Armaan coz he understood that Rohit has deeper issues with him even before Ruhi, jo itni aasaani se resolve nahi hoga. He literally has no one to tie himself to PH andis there right now only because Abhira insists.
I think even Vidya understood that very early on and smartly took the promise from Abhira to nit allow Armaan to leave. Coz she knew that Ab was the only for tying Armaan to PH. Without that for, he will forever be cut off and really wouldn't bother. For everyone assuming that he will blame Abhira afterwards - nope. I don't think so. This Armaansa has given up, and unless he doesn't get some gesture to show that he matters for the P family, this man is really not going to bother prioritising anyone else other than the one person who is his true home - Abhira/Abheera
This has been my entire issue with all the dialogues right! They need to say Armaan wants to leave because he feels unwanted in the house. Because he feels his presence would hurt Rohit. Because he feels KP would always bring up the sautela card for his every mistake. Abhira loves Armaan, there is no doubt there at all. She has told Armaan to his face that she will always stand up for him against whoever if they are being unfair. And this was 2 days ago. With that thought, how would they be happy even if accepted for the moment, because come another kalesh, someone is going to say something and she's goign to speak up and once again insults will follow..
And today also, she is right when she says he may have issues later. But kisko issues nahi hote yaar? All relationships go through phases of anger, blame, apology.. Abhira has also said things to hurt Armaan including blame him indirectly for her mother's death and later apologised. Imagine if Armaan holds onto it and never ever wants to get back with her in the fear that she may blame him again?
Ab Armaan also later agar blame karta hai tho kare, atleast she will be able to say it was your decision that you made because of how you were made to feel in that house. And let's be honest.. Armaan told her when KP decided to leave the house that he is always made to feel like a paraya in the house. So they have had the conversation. So even if Armaan brings it up later, she won't have to take any guilt. And he will also surely apologise after.. And it would be normal for a couple to do that.
Aaaj ki reality ye hai that he's choosing to build his own family away from his existing family. And she needs to understand that and support him and once away, she can continue her efforts of joining the family back. But harbouring notions of being loved and accepted by this family that doesn't even consider Armaan an apna while also being sure that she will never tolerate Armaan being called out is just not sitting right with me is all.
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