Pity love or Real love? - Page 2

Actually Armaan is previous season abheera mom pendulum so that makers fav can be relevant ,same will be Armaan will be pendulum till last some time this side ,some times that side,which they couldn’t do previously .will be done this season

They showed armaans feelings for abhira developing long ago..during shehs time. It was developing very nicely then..but after the charu incident,,they changed Armaan and made him go backwards in his relationship to abhira. I think it’s real deep love he has for abhira. But sadly Armaan is a broken man. He needs to face his insecurities and weaknesses before he can be a truly supportive partner for abhira..but on the other hand..maybe abhira is needed to heal this man..he said ..that he learnt to live and have fun only after she came into his life. So looks like both do need each other to feel complete. Abhira needs him as when she’s with him,,she’s not alone in this world..and his family becomes her family,.apart from dadisa and Sanjay..before deal,marriage was revealed..she had a good relationship with everyone,and she wants that. It’s terrible to be alone in this world..maybe after they come back together..this time as it will be a real Marriage she can help him change and become stronger..like how he can help her achieve her best in life..

I don't think it's pity love. Since the day got married they have unconsciously accepted their relationship. There were quite comfortable with each other even sleeping in same bed from day one and also free with touching holding hands, their love was slow burn. Abhira fell first because there's no past, and complicated feeling on her part, but Armaan is very cautious of his feelings and remained in denial always putting stop on whenever he got overwhelmed with feelings by Abhira ke mom ka vaada, jimmedari to give himself fake assurances. And there's Roohi always roaming around him with pityfully to make him feel guilty. The man has tried his entire life to please his family and yearning for their love so standing up for himself and being selfish in love throwing all caution to wind and going against Dadisa in such short period is expecting too much from him. The way he treated Abhira was wrong when all he wanted was for her to stay away from their toxicity. He is for the first time empathising with his father for his dilemma over love and family when all he did was blaming his father for hurting his Dadisa. Now he is in his father's shoes with Dadisa constantly reminding him he is not his father's son is so funny 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

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Abhira is not supposed to be his rehab though. People often seem to forget that at the end of the day she is extremely young to have gone through the abuse and cruelty that Armaan and his family put her through. Armaan won't deserve her until he gets a good redemption hereon and that would require him to choose her, even when it's difficult for him, and even when he is not necessarily in an absolute agreement with her. Abhira has single handedly fought for her relationship with a man who has treated her as someone secondary, someone disposable, so to expect Abhira to be that person who would "heal" Armaan, especially after all the damage he has done to her, seems pretty unfair.

Originally posted by: Nocturnal7

Abhira is not supposed to be his rehab though. People often seem to forget that at the end of the day she is extremely young to have gone through the abuse and cruelty that Armaan and his family put her through. Armaan won't deserve her until he gets a good redemption hereon and that would require him to choose her, even when it's difficult for him, and even when he is not necessarily in an absolute agreement with her. Abhira has single handedly fought for her relationship with a man who has treated her as someone secondary, someone disposable, so to expect Abhira to be that person who would "heal" Armaan, especially after all the damage he has done to her, seems pretty unfair.

in life ..why must we always only accept sorted people..so broken people must not get a chance…? Abhira loves Armaan..so let her help him heal..nothing wrong there…

It's not about accepting only sorted people. It's about the abuse and cruelty that abhira was put through by Armaan and his family. The cruelty that he was a silent spectator too. You think Abhira is any less broken after all that? After everything that this family has done to her, she has lost her light and she needs to heal herself and Armaan owes her an apology at least (a lot more than that actually). Just because she loves him doesn't mean she deserves to put herself through hell for someone who is yet to have the strength to stand for her when she needs it!

Originally posted by: Nocturnal7

It's not about accepting only sorted people. It's about the abuse and cruelty that abhira was put through by Armaan and his family. The cruelty that he was a silent spectator too. You think Abhira is any less broken after all that? After everything that this family has done to her, she has lost her light and she needs to heal herself and Armaan owes her an apology at least (a lot more than that actually). Just because she loves him doesn't mean she deserves to put herself through hell for someone who is yet to have the strength to stand for her when she needs it!

if Armaan hasn’t healed with his family until now..they’re not going to help him..so let him,and abhira heal,each other then.. they can heal other and start a life together without his family…and his family..has hurt her.so if they want her back in their lives..they need to make amends and get her forgiveness…the writers can show this in any way..maybe both of them even living in their own house Away from the family.. until,such time that things are better in podaars house.and she gets respect there by the family members who disrespected her

agree with both to some extent

Armaan needs to prove what this "love"realization means by standing up for Abhira always. His instinct is to always make Abhira the punching bag and in these months she has lost her shine, her bright personality with the nonstop taunts and mistrust. she herself is broken now. and she has NO one. she needs to heal before she can help him heal. but firstly he needs to make her feel secure, make up for everything he has put her through. after all the crying she has done, he needs to go through some angst too and work hard for her.

he needs to realize that he has always had Abhira in his corner but he is the one who alienates her, who prefers to confide in Ruhi over her, who has kept things from her about his past. she has been perceptive enough to still see the dynamics of relationships and try to fix it all.

I really don’t trust Armaan at all .. he will only give more pain in Abhira ki life

After accepting his love for Ab at the mandap which is a very difficult thing even for a courageous person , I think we can agree that is not pity love. Whether he stands beside her at all times when facing day 2 day battles in his home that is yet to be seen.