The Borderline Criminal Acts of Ruhi Birla (6th point updated)

While people are debating whether the slap on Ruhi is domestic violence or not (IMO: It's not), let's delve into what can be held against Ruhi Birla for her heinous, borderline criminal acts before she goes and files a case against Vidya:

1 Fraudulent marriage: Ruhi Birla only intended to stay married to be near to ex lover via ex-lover's brother, whose death is due to her immoral love for his elder brother.

2. Mental harassment: Ruhi Birla harassing a MARRIED man despite him being uncomfortable af. Repeated emotional pressuring, repeated emotional manipulation. Heck, Ruhi Birla does not even SPARE his wife, who has repeatedly told her to STOP interfering in their matters

3. Vandalism: She broke Ab's mother's portrait despite not being a Poddar family member. Her husband is dead so she doesn't have any right to break existing Poddar family and their spouses objects.

4. Adultery: Sure, Ruhi Birla has not gotten to the physical part of it. But the way her antics are escalating up in the unhinged meter, yikes woh baat bhi door nahin. Besides, Ruhi is trying to have relations with a MARRIED man and trying hard to break his alliance with Ab (IMO, personally hope she succeeds because Ab deserves better than this man full of loser qualities). While she may disprove herself in the court of law, the society is not that forgiving.

5. Thievery: So not only Ruhi Birla is on the grand scheme of stealing Ab's husband, she is also steals Ab's dupatta with ARMAAN written in big letters (IMO which itself is atrocious but okay it befits Ruhi Birla's cringe personality).

6. Domestic Abuse: Ruhi's SCRATCH on Ar turned into a bruise, and she SHOVED Ab purposely and hurt her too.

You forgot to mention about her thievery. She has another title to her credit in her already stellar record: stealer of Dupattas.

Btw, adultery has been decriminalised by our esteemed SC and it has become a civil case.

Originally posted by: Lostin90s

You forgot to mention about her thievery. She has another title to her credit in her already stellar record: stealer of Dupattas.

Btw, adultery has been decriminalised by our esteemed SC and it has become a civil case.

That's why I mentioned borderline criminal acts. Ruhi Birla anyways has to do court ki charcha...

U know thw irony of it all ? Her lover cum ex lover cum jeth is a lawyer

Her sasuralis are lawyers..foofa / charu etc etc

Her sautan is a lawyer ..on the way ..whatever..

Ghar baithe apne masle toh hal hote nai inse

You just look at her family lineage .. all these things has been going on since great grandparents time ..

her grandmother sirat was married to ranveer and was having an EMA with kartik .., the ranveer died unexpectedly and then after some drama she married Kartik .. sirat ‘s mother was another fraud

Her dadi had an affair with married man her dada and a son ( her father ) who was brought by the fathers family

her mom loved her brother in law but gets married to the younger brother has a child with him when he dies is for a long time engaged with her brother in law ( nothing wrong there .. as no Ema is involved both were single ..

but Ruhi has very low standards for loyalty in marriage

Her biggest crime is Farting in Abhira's face

Originally posted by: Aadi04

You just look at her family lineage .. all these things has been going on since great grandparents time ..

her grandmother sirat was married to ranveer and was having an EMA with kartik .., the ranveer died unexpectedly and then after some drama she married Kartik .. sirat ‘s mother was another fraud

Her dadi had an affair with married man her dada and a son ( her father ) who was brought by the fathers family

but Ruhi has very low standards for loyalty in marriage

Even the female lead family lineage is also interesting

Her grand mother naira had a habit of running away. Did some shady business for sometime.

We don't even know her paternal grandmother

Now she wants a man though she knows he loves someone else

edited gen 3 talk

Originally posted by: Saikhi.is.love

Even the female lead family lineage is also interesting

Her grand mother naira had a habit of running away. Did some shady business for sometime.

We don't even know her paternal grandmother since her driver dad was an orphan. We don't know what kind of product he was...whether he was born out of adultery, wedlock etc

Her mother kept ping ponging between two men. She was ready to romance her ex husband as soon as her husband died.

Now she wants a man though she knows he loves someone else

Atleast there was no emea ya cheating but baki ka toh seedha seedha cheating tha and abhira loving ar not at all wrong pati hei uska feelings ho hi sakta hei.

Which law states that a widow doesn't have any right in late husbands family or inheritance. This is not 4 or 5th century, were widows are supposed to live in some other place leaving every rights or believed to have jump in to her husband's pyre. Sorry but no sorry ruhi is very much poddar family member even if rohit is alive missing or dead. And ruhi destroyed the portrait of the lady she believed to be reason behind her parents death.

All the other crimes you mentioned, Armaan, the very married man and the husband of the FL abhira is the one encouraging. He is the one silently give acceptance with his promise when Ruhi decided to get married to rohit to be near him. He is one never stopped ruhi's advancement once Rohit's goes missing. He is the one OK to talk about their relationship to Dadi once deal is over. He is the one always tells his wife abhira is just a responsiblity for one year when Ruhi talk to him about his actions and affection towards his wife. So all that crimes are matching him also.

And one more thing, With the way the show is going I won't be surprised if maker's show armaan knows ruhi took the duppatta.

I won't comment on abhira's love, armaan and ruhi supposed love/ infactution because love just happens and it can't be forced. This is same for everyone.

Note: Please Don't fight under my comment. I am just having a difference in opinion, others can also have.

Ruhi epitome of sacrifice, love and maturity

Ruhi made a big sacrifice for love by marrying her soulmate’s brother just to stay close to him.. but that useless fellow vanished making her a widow and now they are not letting her celebrate Gangaur for her soulmate the way she wants… where is her fault here?
She has all rights as her husband’s widow to stay in that house and also she is single who is in true love with her married brother in law and by that right also she can stay in that house.. she is just staying in her husband’s room while allowing her true love to stay with his wife… she is letting her soulmate to do Gangaur Pooja with his wife.. what more sacrifice you want her to make??

She so cutely and adorably got ready for Pooja by herself while her soulmate helped his wife get ready.. on top of that he didn’t admire or compliment her.. she even complimented his good looks and how it’s affecting her poor heart still he didn’t catch up and compliment her. Dumb fellow!
she let her soulmate’s wife wear duppatta of his name which is Ruhi’s right as she is his true love.. she only tried it in her room and gave it back too.. how can you call her a thief?? She took what is rightfully hers and she is a teenager in love..

Ruhi is mature, kind, good hearted human who is in true love.. she can’t loose her soulmate.. so even when his wife is in the verge of loosing her home, she put on a brave face to make divorce papers for them to fight for her love.. even if his wife was on the verge of loosing her life because he had to save ruhi first .. there is no need to feel guilty because she should have died so she could have had her soulmate back. It’s Abhira’s fault… she is so mature that next day she wants to sit in the front seat of the car along with her soulmate to show his wife her place.. but she didn’t let it happen.. how dare she??

She just wanted to help her soulmate and not loose him.. but how dare his wife blurt about they to his mother! What will happen to her “ best bahu on the planet” image….?? It’s abhira’s fault.. she is the temporary one who will leave while ruhi is the permanent bahu who will marry one or the other brother to stay in that house…

Ruhi is fighting for her true love.. ok? Doesn’t matter if someone looses his life, someone looses their son, wrecks someone’s marriage, she is just waiting to get her share of happiness.. she will marry her soulmate at any cost even if he is not happy with it or burdened by her behaviour.. he said he loves her so better take a stand now.. useless fellow! Have to manipulate every time to get words from him! After everything can’t even trust him so has to get promises every now and then.. you know how hard is that to fight for love single-handedly.

She is the epitome of love! She is mature, kind and loving.. not an ounce of selfishness in her blood.. she just expects everyone keep her on a pedestal and worship her.. her loved ones are not suppose to care about anyone else.. what’s wrong in that!

There is so much more to write but post is getting longer .. so stopping with this.. besides everything is fair in love and war!