Is Ranbir an emotionally unavailable husband? - Page 3

I'm not a fan of gossiping, but if she had so many issues with him or if he had so many issues with her, they shouldn't have gotten married in the first place. Stop boring the audience with these idiotic statements every now and then. Got an issue with the spouse and are not able to sort it out internally. Consult a god damn family therapist to settle things down instead of creating 10x headlines.

These faux pas can’t be accidental

They both have put themselves into a situation where both don't get (certain things) from the other what (which) they would like to get...

I'm sure that Ranbir wouldn't have married Alia without a certain social pressure...well, and Alia knows that (and not only she).

Originally posted by: RaniPreityAish

I don't agree. There's a power imbalance between Ranbir and Alia. Between his age, his family name and wealth, and the security that provides him. She married up which means she will never really feel like his equal unless he goes out of his way to make her feel that way, which doesn't seem likely from all the stories that circulate here plus their public appearances.

In a situation with a known philanderer like him, if you want to accept the bargain given you to become the Kapoor daughter-in-law, you basically have no choice but to accept physical cheating. She claims she's okay with it because she knows that's the only way she'll hold onto him. Is she really happy with it? As any woman (or man) willing to accept this if they could have the choice not to? I find this coercive and just more indicative of the power imbalance between these two, very similar to Neetu Singh, who came from a very hard background and was forced to accept all of Rishi's shortcomings because she was still better off with him than where she was before. The amount of torment and humiliation these women have to receive to keep the Kapoor surname is really so unjust.

Doesn’t really affect the definition of cheating though.

Why do you think she has no choice other than to accept cheating ? Its not like its an arranged marriage or Alia doesn’t has successful career !!

As long as we aren’t in their private life, why we are not taking their words into account instead of rumours and our bias!!

There exist people who don’t mind physical relationship outside marriage (open marriage). Not necessarily it because there is a power imbalance.

Dp and rs fans need to chill. At least ranbir didnt sexual harassed some crew females while his wife was pregnant or was everywhere expect with his pregnant wife during that important time.

How would you know where all Ranveer was during Deepika's pregnance 24h/7days/9months that you make such a statement.

And what do you know what Ranbir did on the sets...had you been present all the time?

Isn’t Ranbir basically known as an emotionally detached person? 🤷🏽‍♀️

I think Alia shares these stories because she thinks they make them seem like a normal happy couple and it never works the way she intends for it to work. She’s inarticulate and desperate for validation, bad combination 😳

As for her saying that was the first time she didn’t feel alone, taken at face value it is sad. She has her parents, siblings, life long close friends, and of course her husband. Anyone’s partner is supposed to be the closest person to them. So if Alia was being genuine in that moment then it’s sad, and a little worrying given that she there’s a family history of depression. But it is also possible that her intention here was just to start some headlines about herself as a mother and her bond with her child. Except, she just went about it the wrong way. Again, inarticulate and desperate for validation 🤷🏽‍♀️

Originally posted by: Shaitan-Haiwan

This is such a big red flag only someone color blind could miss it

It is sad also .. As you said it is a big red flag if a wife is saying that she felt alone unless she felt her motherhood

Originally posted by: IAmLuvBolly

Isn’t Ranbir basically known as an emotionally detached person? 🤷🏽‍♀️

I think Alia shares these stories because she thinks they make them seem like a normal happy couple and it never works the way she intends for it to work. She’s inarticulate and desperate for validation, bad combination 😳

As for her saying that was the first time she didn’t feel alone, taken at face value it is sad. She has her parents, siblings, life long close friends, and of course her husband. Anyone’s partner is supposed to be the closest person to them. So if Alia was being genuine in that moment then it’s sad, and a little worrying given that she there’s a family history of depression. But it is also possible that her intention here was just to start some headlines about herself as a mother and her bond with her child. Except, she just went about it the wrong way. Again, inarticulate and desperate for validation 🤷🏽‍♀️

We can give RK a benefit of doubt by saying that Alia is not good with the selection of words, which RK is also equally at fault, but still since these people are A-list stars and have PR, how come they end up saying subtle things that can be taken against their spouses and pretend that nobody will discuss about it?

With Alia, it is a consistent pattern now, first the lipstick wipe-off, then the loud voice, now the loneliness thing, god knows why she keeps saying things that only makes RK look worse as a husband than he was already projected as before.

Originally posted by: bollymolly

I have a different take on this.I am the only one who believes that Alia is a head strong woman who was/is able to control her husband...She tried to act dumb, innocent girl in the beginning of her career and that worked in her favor.she was never dumb. Now trying to act like a poor wife not getting enough love from her husband...Exactly opposite...She dictates his career...She decides who should act with him...She decides which actress can attend publicity events with him. Everything is under her control. She is continuously fooling people showing a different face in public..

Ranbir is a detached person, because he was/is surrounded by controlling people all along his life till now..Thats it..

So, you are implying that she uno-reversed on the toxic saas-pati khaandan and in public she looks like bechari, and gains all sympathy while both Neetu and beta RK are under her control.