Originally posted by: PPak
Anum - I dont think Ani is dodging marrying Arshi. He truly has accepted Arshi is his wife...there is no ploy at work here. He wants to minimize his stress but is in no way looking to walk away from his responsibilities later.
He made his bed and has to lie in it now.
He did not give dhoka to J. How can anyone give dhoka to someone when the other person shows every sign of not wanting him in the first place.
He simply resigned himself to his fate and moved on, without thinking through the option of how would he feel if he met J again. Ani was always whatever has to happen will happen and not one to think of consequences. He needs to teach his brain to include long term planning. Also this fatalistic thinking is so off putting and aimless.
Right now Ani is a nightmare of a husband, totally unpredictable and not dependable as well.
I know Ani has done a lot of unreasonable things that won’t justify his actions now as he needs to work on his self and around his feelings. And I won’t try to take his side in any way as I have always been critical with his character. But after the fire fiasco, I had a feeling that Ani wanted to evade himself and others from marrying Arshi afterwards. It was only after doctor assured him how to take care of Arshi’s mental health that could determine whether or not her health deteriorates. He takes Arshi’s responsibility as someone who isn’t at fault rather has suffered a great consequence of her mom’s deeds. So according to his morals, he wouldn’t have left Arshi like this which doesn’t mean what he thought of J during the fiasco is anyway acceptable. The makers have made his situation so baffling that we weren’t sure of his intentions anymore. It was looking more like something he firmly believed on as in loving J and staying loyal to her for himself not that J wanted such commitment openly. But I still think he wouldn’t have married Arshi in the real sense or has done phool shuja. He may have done something to avoid but us se phele Arshi started screaming and accusing him for harassing her mental health and all. It’s not like his mental health didn’t get affected.
The situation that he was in and if we take a moment and zoom in, he has equally been distraught. He felt for J, he tremendously cared for her and loves her, but his love for J hasn’t been able to sustain the validity of J’s feelings. He understood it was getting pretty suffocating for J as same as it was getting for him. So when he felt J needed that freedom and flew off leaving behind the letter, he was devastated, looked for her but then realize that maybe he didn’t feel the need to capture her in his home for life. He didn’t want her to go through misery and disrespect. she needed that time to stand on her feet again. And that’s when he resigned more to his fate that she isn’t meant to be his but as long as she is happy and safe, he is satisfied.
Whether Ani is a nightmare or not, I hope this track is his path to redemption in some way. All of us need to see him breaking the barrier which is pulling him back to Arshi and accept what his heart wants truly.
Edited by Manoshono - 3 months ago
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