What is wrong with Charu? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Priya12000

Every one at poddar house is at the hands of dadisa. Especially Madhav. The guilt that madhav has for stepping out in his marriage has led to him being a mute spectator for years in his own house where his biological son was emotionally blackmailed by his wife and mother. And with the entry of abhira, madhav could see that history was repeating again and he does not want abhira to become another victim just like armaan's bio mother.

With ruhi, he has no scenes because ruhi is approved by dadisa. she is an extension of the poddar family and not an outsider like Abhira.

Charu is the worst of both her parents. She is a selfish opportunist who hides behind the facade of being a victim. That is why she could relate to ruhi. there is so reasonable excuse for charu to be angry at abhira. it was ruhi who revealed her truth for her own selfish reasons. Charu did not lose her love because of circumstances. she lost it because she never fought for it. She went against the very people who tried to fight for her.

fighting for love is running on roads and going against family make everyone angry so she won't do that. In India many girls keep calm that way. She accepted her choice of family and is happy not crying. Not all are same in real life too. Madhav has strength time oppose dadi but he fell prey for them in the name of family when he lost interest in these people or seeing fakeness he kept calm nit not intruding much. He should guide arman first . All are selfish in their own way none is saint there. If ruhi is selfish for arman, ar is selfish for his family and abhira, abhira is also for arman and a family which she is craving for. Same for dadi vidya madhav charu fufa kajal krishh. They use each other to exist there

Originally posted by: Firefly_shines

that’s exactly what I was thinking Tania ji… Charu is a curious case, she is supporting the one who blurted her truth more than the one who initially supported her because she timely realised her what she was doing was wrong.. her choice her decisions were wrong… Abd that realisation thankfully happened due to Ruhi… Ab khud pyaar mein pagal thi toh duniya bar ke logon ko unke pyaar se milane ke mission mein lag gayi… it was practically no of her business to hide the truth from her family, usne toh ek baar nahi socha, ek 21 saal ki ladki apne se 15 years bade aadmi and that too with a kid ke sath khush rahegi kya… you perfectly summed, Charu needed guidance not a supporting hand in her stupidity… and woh guidance Ruhi ne diya.. Charu being pro Ruhi will create some problems when ab will be back to PH… the problem is Ab is immensely impulsive and short sighted, bas abhi ka sochti hai, koi jugaad karke problem uss moment keliye problem solve karna but long run mein situations kya honge, uske decisions cheezo ko kitna complicate kar sakti hai woh sochne ki akal nahi hai usme… one day when her impulsiveness will cost a life tab baby queen ko akal aayegi….

Husband ke bhai-beheno ko hamesha support ko zarurat nahi hoti, guidance ka bhi zarurat hota hai. Charu ke case mai clearly sahi tarike se usko guide karne ko zarurat thi , support ko zarurat bilkul nahi thi. Jav usko sahi se yeh bataya gaya ki agar uski shaddi dev se ho bhi gayi toh kya woh 21-22 ki age mai dev ke bete ki amma ban payegi? Tab uske uper se pyar ka bukhar utra. Anyway Charu ko ruhi ki vibes se kabhi issue nahi tha. Abhira se toh dono same class mai padhne wali girls type relation tha jiske sath vibe he match nahi hota tha Charu ka . Kabhi file chori toh kabhi project fight toh kabhi koi dusri fight chalti rehti thi so there no surprise ki Charu anti-abhira kyun hai.

@bold: Abhira ke liye toh mere paas ek he word hai ki usko koi totally impulsive ladki jisko 21-22 ke age mai koi duniyadaari he nahi hai. Charu dev love story angle mai aj tak usko ek baar bhi dimag mai yeh nahi aaya ki woh kaisa faltu support de rahi hai bina samje ki charu 21-22 ki age mai kya he step mother banegi dev ke bacche ki! Abhira ka aisa pagalo wala support dekh kar he Meri soch zyada cement ho gayi ki lamba sochne ki capability iss female lead mai bilkul bhi nahi hai or na he yeh samaj hai ki kaha support deni chahiye and kaha guidance deni chahiye kyunki jab aap ko dusro ki problems ko family problem bol kar solve karne par bade haqq se utar aate ho toh definitely yeh samaj honi he chahiye. Muje toh lagta hai yeh kahi wapas Poddar house ja kar fir se charu-dev milap jaap na shuru kar de

Her zidd to prove her decisions are right won't let her accept mistakes. Today madhav reminded her when ar fought with her for charu. She got on head ar scolding her for charys accident. She pushed her that way in front of car when ar came in front of her so he saw the accident of charu happening. Same for ruhi also. If abhira reminded instead of that bit ar saying don't intrude that family matters she will get on head. Now with madhavs support she will Start her sab badalni hi motto with yes madam behind her. 🤣

Originally posted by: viji2111

Atleast somebody is showing concern for a girl who was left in the mandap otherwise other poddars don't even care( they don't know about Roohi and Armaan's relationship and for them it was vidhya who proposed the alliance)

Charu and Roohi has spent a long of time together while coloring books😂. Abhira has helped her a lot but I don't think they are emotionally connected just like how Manisha Chachi connects with Abhira but not with Roohi or madhav connects with Abhira but not Roohi when both of them are his Daughter in laws.

t Manisha ki vibes ruhi se match nahi karti and Charu ki vibes abhira se match nahi karti. Sab ki vibes sab se match ho aisa zaruri nahi. Manisha ko ruhi ki tooti hui shaddi se koi lena dena nahi and Charu ko abhira se koi lena nahi.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

fighting for love is running on roads and going against family make everyone angry so she won't do that. In India many girls keep calm that way. She accepted her choice of family and is happy not crying. Not all are same in real life too. Madhav has strength time oppose dadi but he fell prey for them in the name of family when he lost interest in these people or seeing fakeness he kept calm nit not intruding much. He should guide arman first . All are selfish in their own way none is saint there. If ruhi is selfish for arman, ar is selfish for his family and abhira, abhira is also for arman and a family which she is craving for. Same for dadi vidya madhav charu fufa kajal krishh. They use each other to exist there

You are making it sound like she took the decision due to circumstances. It was a calculative decision. Charu is an inconsistent character who is her father's daughter in every sense.

Every one is selfish. there is no doubt. and it starts with dadisa who does not want anyone to breathe without her permission.

And that is exactly what madhav is doing..guiding armaan. He could never do it in that house because his mother and wife had clouded armaan's judgement with their unlimited supply of ehsaan.

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Originally posted by: Priya12000

You are making it sound like she took the decision due to circumstances. It was a calculative decision. Charu is an inconsistent character who is her father's daughter in every sense.

Every one is selfish. there is no doubt. and it starts with dadisa who does not want anyone to breathe without her permission.

And that is exactly what madhav is doing..guiding armaan. He could never do it in that house because his mother and wife had clouded armaan's judgement with their unlimited supply of ehsaan.

if she had calculations on brain when she knew about divorce and kid she could have backed off nit going ahead telling it as a reason. She is not that smart person. She can't go against that family who raised her to hold a divorcee with baggage make them accept their love by elders. There is a way to be near kids ex as father madhav was shown not attending function of college in the name of duty. If you remember he is introduced as jimmedari nahi letha by dadi or jimmedari se bhaag jata hi. If he has that love on his kids he could have guided them as father irrespective of family politics when that man is not nearing kids genuinely kids tend to be with mom who gives love by giving food and caring their needs.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

if she had calculations on brain when she knew about divorce and kid she could have backed off nit going ahead telling it as a reason. She is not that smart person. She can't go against that family who raised her to hold a divorcee with baggage make them accept their love by elders. There is a way to be near kids ex as father madhav was shown not attending function of college in the name of duty. If you remember he is introduced as jimmedari nahi letha by dadi or jimmedari se bhaag jata hi. If he has that love on his kids he could have guided them as father irrespective of family politics when that man is not nearing kids genuinely kids tend to be with mom who gives love by giving food and caring their needs.

Charu is a character jiske ke baare mein sochke hi gussa aajata hai..Suprisingly she irritates me more than the goenkas.

Madhav, as i said, is hand bound because of his own guilt due to his own actions. The poddar house is under the tyranny of dadisa and madhav was the first black sheep. Vidya had used that guilt of his for years which included loving his son he had with another woman. it would have taken him years to understand that what she was doing wasn't her bada dil but it was indirectly punishing him and armaan's bio mom for deceiving her by emotionally abusing their son.

Charu is a snake that bites the hands of those who feed her. It was because of Abhira that she was able to have a chance at making a career, but what did she do? Stole documents for Dev, got her Dadi into trouble and shifted all the blame onto Abhira's shoulders, the very person who made it possible for her tk have a career. And Abhira never ratted her out despite of getting blamed for it. And her joke of a mother was blaming Abhira for apparently ruining Charu's career lol.