What is wrong with Charu?

I don't understand teh problem with Charu. Why is she interferring in this mess? Who asked her to be so generous towards Ruhi and visit her in temple? Is she really this dumb!!

This girl is gonna create more problems in future. Armaan and Abhira should stay away from her. I can already see her acting as Ruhi's eyes and ears in Poddar house and relaying all the happenings to Ru may be even helping her in some of her future evil deeds.

Why exactly does Charu dislike Abhira and like Ruhi when Abhira was the one who helped her and Ruhi told everyone about her relationship with Dev. Did I miss something?

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Why exactly does Charu dislike Abhira and like Ruhi when Abhira was the one who helped her and Ruhi told everyone about her relationship with Dev. Did I miss something?

Just like her mother the ehsaan faramosh and darpok...

Charu is opportunistic and selfish, so she is able to relate more with Roohi than Abhira

Originally posted by: Noorain13

Why exactly does Charu dislike Abhira and like Ruhi when Abhira was the one who helped her and Ruhi told everyone about her relationship with Dev. Did I miss something?

The thing is Charu abhira ka relation day 1 se school girl types hai jo daily ek he class mai jati hai , waha unki vibes kabhi match he nahi karti , kabhi project ke liye competition toh kabhi file chori toh kabhi ekdusre ko ulta sunana type he vibes rahe hai unke.

Charu abhira ki vibes kabhi match hui he nahi thi . Yeh toh abhira ko badi chul machi thi Charu ko uske sacche pyar se Milane ki lekin jab Charu ko yeh pucha gaya ki kya woh ready hai dev ke bacche ko palne ke liye 21-22 ki age mai tab ja kar Charu ka pyar ka bukhar utra. Dev ke mamle mai Charu ko sahi guidance ki zarurat thi , support ki nahi. Abhira ke intentions ache the lekin abhira ki dev ke matter mai guidance sahi nahi thi jo woh de rahi thi apni marzi se ache intentions ke sath.
Isiliye toh kehte hai ki jinse kabhi day 1 se vibe match na hua ho unke liye na acha karo na bura, durr he raho and unke mamlo ko family matter matt bolo , love life /marriage life sab ka personal matter hota hai, family matter nahi.

Charu ko ruhi ki vibes se day 1 se issue ho aisa dikhaya nahi hai that’s why ruhi ne uska bhanda foda uske baad woh gussa hui thi ruhi par lekin usse zyada mann mai ruhi ke liye kuch nahi rakkha but abhira ke sath toh day 1 se vibe match nahi kiya and disliking was also there kyunki she felt her brother supported abhira for career but not her so ya there is a history of disliking and not matching vibes with abhira. Hota hai aisa sab ki vibe sab se nahi milti.

Her issue is with Armaan bhaiya who drove out her ex-boyfriend whom she loved. I don’t see a problem in her taking a revenge against Armaan lol Abhira is just collateral damage lol also, someone has to be on Ruhi’s side na lol all the other family members are on Abhira’s side. No rhyme and reason are required lol

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

The thing is Charu abhira ka relation day 1 se school girl types hai jo daily ek he class mai jati hai , waha unki vibes kabhi match he nahi karti , kabhi project ke liye competition toh kabhi file chori toh kabhi ekdusre ko ulta sunana type he vibes rahe hai unke.

Charu abhira ki vibes kabhi match hui he nahi thi . Yeh toh abhira ko badi chul machi thi Charu ko uske sacche pyar se Milane ki lekin jab Charu ko yeh pucha gaya ki kya woh ready hai dev ke bacche ko palne ke liye 21-22 ki age mai tab ja kar Charu ka pyar ka bukhar utra. Dev ke mamle mai Charu ko sahi guidance ki zarurat thi , support ki nahi. Abhira ke intentions ache the lekin abhira ki dev ke matter mai guidance sahi nahi thi jo woh de rahi thi apni marzi se ache intentions ke sath.
Isiliye toh kehte hai ki jinse kabhi day 1 se vibe match na hua ho unke liye na acha karo na bura, durr he raho and unke mamlo ko family matter matt bolo , love life /marriage life sab ka personal matter hota hai, family matter nahi.

Charu ko ruhi ki vibes se day 1 se issue ho aisa dikhaya nahi hai that’s why ruhi ne uska bhanda foda uske baad woh gussa hui thi ruhi par lekin usse zyada mann mai ruhi ke liye kuch nahi rakkha but abhira ke sath toh day 1 se vibe match nahi kiya and disliking was also there kyunki she felt her brother supported abhira for career but not her so ya there is a history of disliking and not matching vibes with abhira. Hota hai aisa sab ki vibe sab se nahi milti.

that’s exactly what I was thinking Tania ji… Charu is a curious case, she is supporting the one who blurted her truth more than the one who initially supported her because she timely realised her what she was doing was wrong.. her choice her decisions were wrong… Abd that realisation thankfully happened due to Ruhi… Ab khud pyaar mein pagal thi toh duniya bar ke logon ko unke pyaar se milane ke mission mein lag gayi… it was practically no of her business to hide the truth from her family, usne toh ek baar nahi socha, ek 21 saal ki ladki apne se 15 years bade aadmi and that too with a kid ke sath khush rahegi kya… you perfectly summed, Charu needed guidance not a supporting hand in her stupidity… and woh guidance Ruhi ne diya.. Charu being pro Ruhi will create some problems when ab will be back to PH… the problem is Ab is immensely impulsive and short sighted, bas abhi ka sochti hai, koi jugaad karke problem uss moment keliye problem solve karna but long run mein situations kya honge, uske decisions cheezo ko kitna complicate kar sakti hai woh sochne ki akal nahi hai usme… one day when her impulsiveness will cost a life tab baby queen ko akal aayegi….

Atleast somebody is showing concern for a girl who was left in the mandap otherwise other poddars don't even care( they don't know about Roohi and Armaan's relationship and for them it was vidhya who proposed the alliance)

Charu and Roohi has spent a long of time together while coloring books😂. Abhira has helped her a lot but I don't think they are emotionally connected just like how Manisha Chachi connects with Abhira but not with Roohi or madhav connects with Abhira but not Roohi when both of them are his Daughter in laws.

madhav never cared his sons nor has anything for loss of rohit. He is shown nothing affected much except holding vidya. How come a father won't respond much and this man feels for abhira from start. Writing is this shallow on madhav. No doubt he is helping abhira but with ruhi he has no scenes any day she is also his bahu. Poddars are flippers any day. Manish did correct by throwing them out. Ruhi is struck in poddars for arman and all others used her against abhira. When abhira went away they never felt where she went what she ate. So they never care anyone except their own self. Ruhi was not humiliated when she is at poddars but badly in mandap. Abhira was humiliated whenever they had a chance. That's the respect they give to their so called bahus. Charu is their beti they never prioritised her choice of job or man. Charu knows losing love so giving her support to ruhi. They had that bond from start and understanding too. That's why even when charu was angry, ruhi made her understand the value of family.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

madhav never cared his sons nor has anything for loss of rohit. He is shown nothing affected much except holding vidya. How come a father won't respond much and this man feels for abhira from start. Writing is this shallow on madhav. No doubt he is helping abhira but with ruhi he has no scenes any day she is also his bahu. Poddars are flippers any day. Manish did correct by throwing them out. Ruhi is struck in poddars for arman and all others used her against abhira. When abhira went away they never felt where she went what she ate. So they never care anyone except their own self. Ruhi was not humiliated when she is at poddars but badly in mandap. Abhira was humiliated whenever they had a chance. That's the respect they give to their so called bahus. Charu is their beti they never prioritised her choice of job or man. Charu knows losing love so giving her support to ruhi. They had that bond from start and understanding too. That's why even when charu was angry, ruhi made her understand the value of family.

Every one at poddar house is at the hands of dadisa. Especially Madhav. The guilt that madhav has for stepping out in his marriage has led to him being a mute spectator for years in his own house where his biological son was emotionally blackmailed by his wife and mother. And with the entry of abhira, madhav could see that history was repeating again and he does not want abhira to become another victim just like armaan's bio mother.

With ruhi, he has no scenes because ruhi is approved by dadisa. she is an extension of the poddar family and not an outsider like Abhira.

Charu is the worst of both her parents. She is a selfish opportunist who hides behind the facade of being a victim. That is why she could relate to ruhi. there is so reasonable excuse for charu to be angry at abhira. it was ruhi who revealed her truth for her own selfish reasons. Charu did not lose her love because of circumstances. she lost it because she never fought for it. She went against the very people who tried to fight for her.