Originally posted by: InsaneDivine
I don't know what to say. Honestly, I am feeling bad for Tosu. No matter what chamchi Kinjal says, all I can see Maa recruiting Tosu to ZALEEL him and keep him under her thumb and flaunt her Maalikin status in front of him. It's almost as if she wishes to extract respect from Tosu for her identity as "Maa", but since he wouldn't do so, she tightens the noose around his neck by becoming his Malkin and is now forcing respect out of him for being his mother...
I refuse to believe that after 30-35 years, Maa remembered to instill sanskars in Tosu and only now she has got the chance. Why is she so late in every aspect of her lyphe ? Is it not too late to instill values in Tosu that every work is important? That all hard-working people of every strata of society must be respected?
A mother who only lectures, never walks the talk, and keeps hammering all the time, their children turn like Tosu only. Ideally, if She or Kinjal really meant well for Tosu, the best thing would have been to leave him alone. Since both Maa and Kinjal never think about themselves and only think about the well-being of their "apne", even by that yardstick the best thing to do is leave Tosu on his own, to fend off himself against the world. Either he will make or break, but Maa and Kinjal's constantly beating him down and being around him, not because they love him, but only to make him feel inadequate, turns him into a bigger monster than he already is. I don't believe there is any return path now for Tosu. He has turned into a criminal. But Maa toh Maa hain, aur Biwi toh Biwi hai na. But still what Maa and Biwi is doing is not help. In fact they are creating a bigger monster out of Tosu, than he already is and is unleashing him on society and their unfortunate co-workers to suffer..
I can’t feel bad for Toshu now for any of his failures or insults because like you said he is a Criminal now, and irredeemable, he is a full grown adult, ek bachchi ka baap, Loser with a capital L, but of course feel bad only for one thing about him that he got parents like AnuRaj.
Vanraj always favored him no matter what, and Maa was an ignorant irresponsible mother who instead of setting her kids straight at the right age, pampered them and tried everything to please them be it listening to their abuses, bearing the insults, selling her jewellery to buy an engagement ring for another Loser Crinjal, pampering both the Son and DIL to an extent ke wo iske sar par Tandav kare, babysitting not just her grand daughter but also the parents of that child, he had called her Characterless and what not when she stayed separate after divorce with Vanraj, but her kids have learnt to shed crocodile tears from her so one emotional drama and she forgives them. She allowed Toshu to keep seeking favors from Rakhi Dave and Anuj, favored him in all the frauds done by him, even went to jail for him and still shamelessly goes to his house for every small thing, so Toshu is actually a product of her own doings, not Vanraj but Anupama is responsible for Toshu turning out to be such a vile monster.
Even today, she said, abhi to mey hu iske Papa hey Baa Bapuji hey, hum kar rahe hain humare baad iska kya hoga? Ye kab sudhrega? Like really He must be 30-35 or even more, jobless loser who bites the hands that feed him, be it Crinjal or his Mother or Family, still she thinks iss bechare ka kya hoga kab sudhrega Kash iskaa 1% bhi choti si bachchi ko chod kar jaane ke time socha hota.
He demands money from Crinjal and Maa for his business as if they owe him something and when they refuse, he calls them jealous and insecure of his non existent skills 😂
Actually this whole family is each other’s Karma, it’s a waste of emotions to even feel bad for anyone of them including Anuj 😂
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