Anupama Pakhi are two sides of same coin - Page 4

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Tumhari marji ki tum pakhi ko paalne mein daal do

Maine to nahi kaha pakhi ko paalne mein daal do

I am just talking ki even children Ae grown up thst doesn't not mean a mother can never can talk their children

I. Just said about conversation between anupama amd three grown up children not baby sitting of grown up children

But some people jabardasti baby sitting ke baat daal Raje hsi which I have never said in my post .so don't talk those things which I have never mention in my post

Pehli baat, paalne me daalne wali baat toh aap hi ne kahi na? Ya woh manghadand hain? Waise hi kisne yeh likha hain ki Anupama ko apne adult, married bachchon se baat nahin karni chahiye ya rishta todna chahiye? Toh Jo hua nahin uspar baat nahi kare toh achcha nahin hoga?

She clearly wasn't going to Shah House for "kids" only because she went there when the kids aren't supposed to be home. Or are we saying the kids did nothing in their life either?

You are saying, adult, married "kids" needed their mother's presence for everything? To do what?

If they need their mother for everything, they are clearly not adults, right?

Either ways, what is the definition of adulthood if they cannot be independent, take their decisions and take responsibility of their own actions?

Look at it another way:

When Barkha (who Anuj in the intro had called Maa samaan Bhabhi) interfered in Anuj-Anupama's life, it was wrong.

When Malati Devi (who was a mother herself) interfered in Anuj-Anupama's life, she did not like it.

Then how is it right for Anupama meddling with her adult, married "kids'" life?

And ALL this at what cost? I can never get over the scene. She had to be reminded that she had a kid?

Here, she ran to tend to Pari who was amongst an army of adult family members when she was cranky and on the other hand, she did not even know her kid was unwell on the trip and a stranger tended to her. Ironically strange isn't it?

See 16:00 - 18:01

https://youtu.be/v_cCUCoD_o4?si=0WvZo22ppxYPiQQH

First of all quote the word where I use adult chidren need mother everytime

Ad far I know I mention in my.post if children are adult that does not mean anupama can never talk to their children I use talk between adult chidren and mother

No where i use to adult chidren need mother every time

Yes I use paalne do because people accuse me that I accept maturity from 9 year child as If I don't understand what is maturity

If 9 year child can't do basic addition subtraction then should we not call out that he or she can't do basic addition subtraction koi yeh yeh to keh nahi raha 11 th standard ka use trigonometry calculus kyon nahi aata or logic will be given ki 9 year old to khaali bius a for apple b for boy yahi bache ise 9 ywar age mein kar paate hai ya phir khaali counting kar paate hai that from only 1 to 20

Atleast 9 year ke bache se woh to expect to kar ki sakte which she or he is capable at 9 year old

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Wow what a comparison by anuj fans

So children are grown up that mean mother can never talk their aduit children. Really ??

Kaun se world ka yja,eh rule hai

Where it is Said that anupama should baby sit their aduit children but iit is anuj fan who just raise objection even anupama is just talking with adult children.

Who said anupama should baby sit adult chidren. But she is not even allow to talk with her adult chidren anupama baat kya kar leti hai Apne bachon se isme bhi anuj fans rai ka pahad banate hai

How Is this fair

Yes according to age Har bachon ki requirement hoti .hai

Pakhi toshu certainly don't need mother bbavy sitting but certainly they can talk to their mother

Anu fans are so unpractical and illogical nome of their logic make sense

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Kripaya yeh bata deejiye ki yeh baat kisne aapko kahi?

Originally posted by: surabhi01

First of all quote the word where I use adult chidren need mother everytime

Ad far I know I mention in my.post if children are adult that does not mean anupama can never talk to their children I use talk between adult chidren and mother

No where i use to adult chidren need mother every time

Yes I use paalne do because people accuse me that I accept maturity from 9 year child as If I don't understand what is maturity

If 9 year child can't do basic addition subtraction then should we not call out that he or she can't do basic addition subtraction koi yeh yeh to keh nahi raha 11 th standard ka use trigonometry calculus kyon nahi aata or logic will be given ki 9 year old to khaali bius a for apple b for boy yahi bache ise 9 ywar age mein kar paate hai ya phir khaali counting kar paate hai that from only 1 to 20

Atleast 9 year ke bache se woh to expect to kar ki sakte which she or he is capable at 9 year old

Sorry main samjhi nahin. Maturity ka Mathematics se kya lena dena?

Jo maturity adults se expected nahin hain woh maturity aap ek 9 saal ki bachchi se expect karengi toh yeh toh galat hain na?

Agar ek adult bachcha "Mummy" ke paas hone ki zidd kar sakta hain aur woh jayaz hain toh kya 09 saal ki bachchi ki request Jaya nahin?

Agar ek adult bachchi ek naya sadasya se jealous ho sakti hain, ya insecure ho sakti hain ki ab woh sabse Choti nahin rahegi ya use apni Maa ka attention nahin milega toh kya yahi ya isse kayi guna gehri insecurity ek 09 saal ki bachchi ki nahin ho sakti?

Baa bapuji kavya mishter shah dolly Ben yeh sab bhi upma ke grown up bacche hai kya ? Because kapadiyas se ziyada maid maa ne inko Khana pani serve kiya hai..

Coming back to the topic from a series of derailed discussions,

Anupama's savagery with Pakhi and Vanraj is ok, but Anupama ji, the joke's on you, don't you realise?

Jitne parenting and life tips Pakhi ko de rahi ho, palat kar usne aapko Adhya ke sandarbh me pooch liya na, toh kya jawab doge?

Actually, yeh sawaal toh Vanraj ko karna chahiye Apnupama se. Kisi aur ke kehne se farak thodi padta hain Anupama ko?

Isme samajhana kya

Pehle aap batayiye ki aapka maturity se ky jo i aap baar bol rahe ho i hum aadhya se maturity se umeed kar Rahe Hai

Tell me hum aadhya se Kaun se maturity ki umeed kar Rahe Hain

As 9 year old Jo aadhya ka behavior hona chahiye wohi to expect kar Rahe Hain

Aadhya at 9 year old behavior lis like 5 year old

9 year old child ka 5 year old ki tarah ehave karna aapko normal lagta hai???

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Isme samajhana kya

Pehle aap batayiye ki aapka maturity se ky jo i aap baar bol rahe ho i hum aadhya se maturity se umeed kar Rahe Hai

Tell me hum aadhya se Kaun se maturity ki umeed kar Rahe Hain

As 9 year old Jo aadhya ka behavior hona chahiye wohi to expect kar Rahe Hain

Aadhya at 9 year old behavior lis like 5 year old

9 year old child ka 5 year old ki tarah ehave karna aapko normal lagta hai???

Dekhiye, ab jab aap aur main ek hi baat par agree nahin kar rahe, toh examples ke saath samajhne ki koshish karte hain.

Main toh bol rahi hn ki 9 saal ki bachchi jaise honi chahiye waisi hi thi, infact apni umr se badhkar maturity dikhai hain Adhya ne?

Example: sabse pehle uthkar khud se ready hokar, apne aur apni parents ka tiffin pack karna, apni Khushi se pehle doosre ko rakhna.

Kayi baar toh khud Anuj aur Anupama ne agree kiya hain ki woh apni umr se pehle badi ho gayi hain jo galat hain.

Ab 9 saal ki bachchi goad lene ke liye nahin kahegi toh Kaun rahega?

Ab aap bataiye:

What examples did you see that Adhya was not behaving like a 9 year old?

Jub aadhya ko 6 year old ki Tarah behave karna chahiye tub to Kiya nahi tub to 18 year ki Tarah behave karti thi 6 year ki age mein

Ab jub aadhya 9 year ki ho gayi to ab woh 5 year ki Tarah behave kar rahi hai ??

Yes Maine kain na dekha ki I 9 year old ka bacha godi mein jaane ke liye itni jid karta ho .jaise woh godi mein jaane ki jid kar rahi thi aise jid to toddler karte hsi to kya aadhya toddler hai jo use godi chahiye hi chahiye

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Jub aadhya ko 6 year old ki Tarah behave karna chahiye tub to Kiya nahi tub to 18 year ki Tarah behave karti thi 6 year ki age mein

Ab jub aadhya 9 year ki ho gayi to ab woh 5 year ki Tarah behave kar rahi hai ??

Yes Maine kain na dekha ki I 9 year old ka bacha godi mein jaane ke liye itni jid karta ho .jaise woh godi mein jaane ki jid kar rahi thi aise jid to toddler karte hsi to kya aadhya toddler hai jo use godi chahiye hi chahiye

🤔. Ek 9 saal ki bachchi ka Goad me uthane ki zid karna ek maatra reason hain aapka yeh kehne ke liye ki Aadhya immature hain?

Aapke hisaab se kis umr tak bachche goad me uthane ki zid kar sakte hain?

Yaha toh Kinjal and Pakhi, infact Paritosh aur Samar toh apni khud ki zimmedari uthane ki baat kar rahe the na? Iska matlab kya hain?