Do you think Anupama is a gold digger?? - Page 5

Originally posted by: Blueeeee

The kids are bad therefore Anuj and Anupamaa cannot have regular interaction or spend money or have affection for Anupamaa's bio kids? Instead of just being good parents and setting up corrective measures for them? Adhya is rude af and playing god with Shruti's life, does Anuj abandon her once she turns 18?

Anuj could very well not give Pakhi the credit card, warn Toshu for using his name in the business arena, not let Adhya interfere in his relationship with Shruti. But he didn't/ doesn't. Anupamaa could very well have sided with Kinjal instead of manipulating her to stay with her shitty son. She could have disciplined Pakhi and not let MD manipulate Adhya.

So all this proves is that they are both pathetic parents. What does it have to do with biological or adopted kids?

Am I supposed to give awards to Anuj for funding the treatnent of his wife's son? Which decent human being won't do that?

Smh.

No one saying kids are bad so do not interact

Interact but not in shah house meet them at kapadiya house or outside

Which 2nd husband or 2nd wife will allow their spouse to go to ex house everyday? Is marraige a joke for anupama

Also if pakhi and toshu insult vanraj will anupama be quiet no but they can insult anuj? Why because anupama has never considered him as husband at all so her kids can misbehave and misuse his name?

If Rakhi or brakha get angry on pakhi or toshu will anupama be quiet even if they are right? No but shahs can insult CA

Anupama has noe rule for shahs one for kapdiyas that is problem here on show

What is wrong for shahs become right for kapadiyas

If shahs are insulted anupama become chandi but anuj and kapadiyas insulted anupama become deaf dumb blind everything at once

Regarding pakhi credit card issue why anuj giving her card? adhik should give her? Anuj tries to please shahs and anupama alot over his family that is biggest issue on this show. If anuj acted like normal human and husband nothing like this would happen. No biologila father will also indulge pakhi and toshu as much as anuj did them

Problem is anuj is insecure that anupama likes shahs more than him or kapadiyas so bends backwards to please her and shahs. Hes scared anupama will run away leaving him and adhya that is biggest issue on this show. In real life no 2nd husband will tolerate wife misusing him as much as anuj

Originally posted by: lesh85

anupama wanted anuj to be a hen pecked husband jise wo bewaqoof banakar shah house ke logon ke saath apna fantasy poora kar sake, agar anupama kanta and bhavesh keliye fikar karti, ya unk parvaah karti, that is reasonable,

that is her mayka, ex sasural jahan pe ex pati current wife ke saath rehta koi bhi gairat mand aurat kabhi bhi wahan is tarah jana pasand nahin karegi, ultra anupama toh jaise koi farak hi nahin hai pre divorce and post divorce with vanraj she used to exercise her rights in kitchen and shah house exactly the same way when she was mrs shah, that is why vanraj andbaa exercised their bahu and wife rights respectively because these 2 criminals could never differentiate the period before and after divorce it was exactly the same behaviour of anupama she in spirit still mrs shah and still bahu of baa and hasmukh and she does not want kavya to make a place in shah house for herself ek divorcee agar apne bachhon se milna bhi chahti hai she will never impose her rights on ex sasural in the pretext of mayka when her ex husband is staying with his current wife.

she will respect their privacy and will meet the children outside somehwere. waise iske nalaayak kameene pakhi and toshu so called bacche insaan kehlaane ke laayak nahin hain in dono ko zoo mein kisi khoonkhar janwar ke pinjre mein chhod dena chahiye taaki ye dono us janwar ka break fast lunch and dinner ban jaaye

Problem with anupama is this - she still acts like shah bahu and vanraj wife even 8 years after divorcing vanraj and marrying anuj and ivorcing him too

No woman in real life who took divorce behaves so

Pakhi and toshu do not love anupama or want to meet her, anupama forcefully goes everyday to shahs to be with shahs. Anupama does not really go for toshu and pakhi but because he loves shah house company like baa, hasmukh, vanraj talking and raguing with them she likes

Anupama has rarely done anything for pakhi or toshu going to shah house shes always with vanraj or baa and hasmukh only

Regarding pakhi and toshu they chose to stay with vanraj after divorce ever helped or cared for anupama. So anupama fawning over them is unbelievable

anupama may not be a gold digger for herself but shes abused her powers that anuj gave and anuj wealth to benefit shahs

shes given job to pakhi, toshu, vanraj in kapadiya empire and kept quiet when they looted money and did varoius kaand in anuj name

she has used anuj and malvika money for shahs again and again and not stopped anuj from giving money to shahs

that means she wants anuj to spend his money on shahs and her kids and grand kids

If anuj parents wre alive they would not allow all this

She’s a gold waster.. sab ke paise barbaad kar deti and businesses dooba deti hai 😂

Originally posted by: myviewprem

No one saying kids are bad so do not interact

Interact but not in shah house meet them at kapadiya house or outside

Which 2nd husband or 2nd wife will allow their spouse to go to ex house everyday? Is marraige a joke for anupama

Also if pakhi and toshu insult vanraj will anupama be quiet no but they can insult anuj? Why because anupama has never considered him as husband at all so her kids can misbehave and misuse his name?

If Rakhi or brakha get angry on pakhi or toshu will anupama be quiet even if they are right? No but shahs can insult CA

Anupama has noe rule for shahs one for kapdiyas that is problem here on show

What is wrong for shahs become right for kapadiyas

If shahs are insulted anupama become chandi but anuj and kapadiyas insulted anupama become deaf dumb blind everything at once

Regarding pakhi credit card issue why anuj giving her card? adhik should give her? Anuj tries to please shahs and anupama alot over his family that is biggest issue on this show. If anuj acted like normal human and husband nothing like this would happen. No biologila father will also indulge pakhi and toshu as much as anuj did them

Problem is anuj is insecure that anupama likes shahs more than him or kapadiyas so bends backwards to please her and shahs. Hes scared anupama will run away leaving him and adhya that is biggest issue on this show. In real life no 2nd husband will tolerate wife misusing him as much as anuj

Bhaisahab. You do realise marriage is ideally between two individual autonomous adults who needn't "allow" each other to do anything let alone meet their own children and grandchildren. If your partner is doing something beyond your emotional boundaries, you can divorce them instead of gaslighting them, driving them to the point of suicidal ideation and cheating on them to play house with another romantic prospect in another city.

Anuj bechara victimised billionaire lol.