What makes Anupama a terrible Female lead?? - Page 9

Any social media platforms is NOT immune to artificial intelligence. Your mobile phone, for instance, is always listening and this influences what one sees on their social media feed.

(This explains why you might see Ads related to items you are thinking to buy or discussing with people.)

So, if there is a certain preference, a certain thought, one is more likely to view similar viewpoint on their feed, search results etc.

I remember a famous public event when the parlance was given: "Jaaki rahi bhawana jaisi.....".

So, there may be contrasting views of the show of only one can see beyond name calling.

One can see, it's a pattern on social media.

One decides on their viewpoint and will do anything to defend it, right or not. Then comes subtle name calling. Then accusations, discrediting. Finally jibes.

Media is a double edged sword. While it empowers one to put their viewpoint without fear, it can be equally brutal even to the silliest of errors.

Hence, one should either be accommodating of varied viewpoints and atleast weigh contrasting opinions or, be prepared to receive what one may be knowingly ir unknowingly giving others!

Originally posted by: hinz

Anupamaa is a very nice person

she blessed the planet with her presence

she lets everyone else breathe the air around her

she provides troll material for us to have a laugh

she is maa, she gave birth to 3 kids

she is so nice she makes people pholl in lou with her!

Bas ab mujhe rona aa jayega

Hinz you should be handed over the women empowerment award instead of her.

You did the impossible

Finding points to prove anupama as nice person .

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

apne bacchon se zarror mil sakti hai. But, there is a way to do it, since she is now divorced <-- most important point!!

50 days or 1 day does not matter. She was abused ( & continues to be abused!) in that house. Anyone with an ounce of self-respect would never set foot in that house.

After divorce, she ( & her ex husband, V) must have an arrangement to meet/live with their children ( who are adults to boot!), outside of the house. She cannot/should not live/meet under the same roof as her ex-husband.

She did not go on her own, but they called her - does not matter. She needs to use her common sense!
She went because her son was handicapped - no, she should not pack her bags and move into their house.

She went because of her grandchild's naming ceremony - nope, she should not go if the event is in SH. She should ask for the event to be held elsewhere. Otherwise, she must skip. Nothing is more important than the new lease of life she had( Anuj & CA)

Once, twice 100 times does not matter at all.

She is wrong. Period. Anyone doing that ( i.e living with their ex, going to meet their children in ex's house etc) will be called out like we are doing with Anupamaa.

This .

Everybody justifying her going to her ex house like she is some helpless kid who doesn't know the difference between right and wrong is ridiculous.

She is grown women who goes around schooling everyone what is right and wrong, but won't see how wrong she is by constantly involved in her ex's life while being married to anuj.

She simply misused anuj and choti's good nature and then plays victim when pointed out.

Blames waqt,halat,kismat, even kanhaji but never for once reflect what is her mistake.

She has no sense of owning her real mistakes.

She takes a stand for others but rarely for herself.

She doesn' tjustify her kids' wrongdoings but never fails to auto flatter herself as a Maa.

She failed BIG time as a daughter, as a wife, as a mother, as wife 2.0, as a step mom, as an entrepreneur, as a dance pupil, as a confidant, as an heir, and as a dancer too.

Yet, she boasts as if she's a reference for the world.

Woman empowerment, needs another definition,

Originally posted by: Paru...

He seemed to be as an understanding husband in the beginning ,But as time passed he started becoming more selfish and demanding. His only concern was to prioritize his adopted daughter, which now looks like the biggest blunder MaAn has made .

Wanting time for family and kid is not demanding. It's normal expectations from a relationship. Anupama didn't do the bare minimum.

No relationship in the world survives like this.

Are you saying every husband and wife in the world is demanding just because they want their spouse to prioritise their relationship?

Originally posted by: Harish111

Wanting time for family and kid is not demanding. It's normal expectations from a relationship. Anupama didn't do the bare minimum.

No relationship in the world survives like this.

Are you saying every husband and wife in the world is demanding just because they want their spouse to prioritise their relationship?

She has always prioritized her relationship with Anuj. But whatever she did wasn't enough for them. They wanted a full time wife/mom to look after them. After marriage her children and relationships from her first marriage had started suffocated him, though she has given him a clear picture about her responsibilities for her other children prior their marriage he found it difficult to accommodate them in their life.

Anupama ne pehle se apne baggage ke bare mein bata diya tha! Ok

btw, I wasn't aware that Baa, Bapuji & Kavya were Anupamaa's kids too.

Kissi ko bhi karenge , who will like their partner becoming masiha for her ex & his current, Anuj never really had problem with anupama helping her kids he had problem that anupama majorily neglect his family to serve Shah's . Anuj ne ye sab dekha tha but shaadi ke baad anupama u turn mar ke humesha shah house padi rahegi ye nhi pata usko . Who is vanraj & kavya to her , that she take so interest in their relationship, anupama thinks keeping happiness & peace in Shah house is her responsibilities which is wrong

Aap enjoy karoge apke partner ka ex aaye din aake aapke Ghar tamasha kare , shah family hardly do anything on her own , they r totally dependent on anupama, anupama don't denying it that's wrong on all perceptive . Anuj galat hai kanta Ben bhi galat hai, even she has pointed out this manytimes infact she blamed Shah's to push Anuj to that limit that he left anupama.

Kitne logo ne ye point out Kiya anupama should concentrate on her current family not on her past . No wonder Shah's don't really respect her coz they know her quite well

Shah family ki responsibility vanraj ki hai , anupama ki nhi , kaise jee rahe vo log anupama ke Bina 5 saal se .

Originally posted by: Paru...

She has always prioritized her relationship with Anuj. But whatever she did wasn't enough for them. They wanted a full time wife/mom to look after them. After marriage her children and relationships from her first marriage had started suffocated him, though she has given him a clear picture about her responsibilities for her other children prior their marriage he found it difficult to accommodate them in their life.

I had no idea holding baby showers for your ex-husband's new wife was 'responsibility towards relationships from first marriage'

Or that running out at midnight to console ex-husband over his marital woes came under baggage from first marriage.

Or that taking care of ex-husband's parents, bringing them to current husband's house whenever you feel like it was something current husband was supposed to be okay with.

Or that not being on time for an event you have committed to already just because you are making food for ex-husband's mother is Anupama being clear in her priorities.

Anuj never wanted full time wife/mom. But Anupama toh half time wife/mom bhi nahi thi.

Of course the relationships started suffocating him. Ex-husband muh utha kar kabhi bhi aa jata tha and collar pakad leta tha bechare ka.

Aur dedh shaani corner me khade khade bas Mr. Shah, Mr. Shah karti rehti thi.

Baa KM me matlab Anuj ke hi ghar me reh kar usko hi kuch bhi bol deti thi. Aur ye sirf Baa Baa karti rehti thi.

Itna toh koi tolerate nahi kar sakta.