What makes Anupama a terrible Female lead?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Of course anupama is nice person

1 anupama support kinjal When she want to do Job after marriage

2,Kimjal able to wear dress on her own choice due to anupama support after marriage

3 anupama refuse to help toshu when toshu caught Ifraud

4 anupama take out glass from body of anuj when glass pierce into anuj body

5 anupama save life of students when students caught in fire in school

6 anupama cancel her udaan for choti

7 anupama oppose baa when baa blame barka that barkha ki wajah se kinjal ka miscarriage hote hote bacha, then anupama reply to baa this was accident

8 anupama again oppose baa when baa comment on barkha dress

9 anupama get panic attack when choti was missing on road and about to come under car

10 anupama shown took responsibility of Bhairavi

11 anupama saved life of three person in car accident

12 anupama did not allow pakhi to use anuj money and ask her leave anuj house and even cancel pakhi wedding

Just anupama not reaching school function on time can't make her irresponsible person

Anupama ne kai baar responsibility dikhayti hai

ek incident ki wajah se anupama ko irresponsible nahi kaha jaa sakta

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What is very nice about it? This is 2024, working after marriage was normal 50 years back in India. Wearing a dress of choice is also normal, there is nothing "very nice" about Anupamaa.

Taking glass out of Anuj's body ( I have no idea what this is...) but isn't that normal human mentality? He is her husband, she should show concern and care for him.

Anupamaa and "responsibility" cannot be used int he same sentence together. She is the most irresponsible char.

Cancel udaan for CA, seriously?! She took the responsibility of being her mother. Abandoned her for the sake of udaan, and then she remembered of her motherly duty and got off the plane. Even if we discount her stupidity at this late realization, doing her duty is what is expected. That is what all mothers around the world do, i.e is be a normal mother to their children.

She took responsibility of Bharavi, only to abandon her?

We can keep going on with examples.

There is a fine line between being nice and being stupid. Apparently, the line is blurred for char Anupamaa., as per the writers.

Originally posted by: Harish111

Not to mention that it was because of Anupama's influence that Kinjal didnt leave her cheating husband and is now living a miserable life with a useless guy.

In every example given the lives of those she "helped" got way worse because of her toxic influence.

I find it highly ridiculous when people unnecessarily eulogies Maa for "supporting" Kinjal. Arey jise khud support ki zaroorat thi wo kya kisi ko support karegi? If Shahs were meek and submissive in front of Kinjal, it was just coz of Rakhi Dave else she would have become next Anupama. Bhashan se koi nahi darta hai.🤣🤣🤣

Anupamaa is a very nice person

she blessed the planet with her presence

she lets everyone else breathe the air around her

she provides troll material for us to have a laugh

she is maa, she gave birth to 3 kids

she is so nice she makes people pholl in lou with her!

Bas ab mujhe rona aa jayega

To anupama mein bus buraai hi nikale kabhi tareef na karein ?

Aise to duniya mein koi na koi maa behan Bua mausi koi na khuch na kkhuch hai kisi na kisi koi duty hoti hai Iska Matlab hum kisi ki tareef na kare ?

Ais to Ghar mein mehmaan aaye aur host ki kabhi tareef na kare kyonki mehmam ko paani Dena Chai snacks Dena to host ki duty

We shuod never praise cooking of hotel kyonki customer ko Acha khana Dena duty of chef ?

Teacher should never praise student if he or she get max marks in subject because it is duty of student to study ?

Jub Anuj ki tareef ki pul baandhey jaate hai to anuj ne anupama ko yahan support Kiya anupama ko achi life di tub to yeh nahi kaha jaata,ki yeh. To anuj ki duty hai

But anupama agar choti ke liye khuch kare to woh anupama ki.duty hai

Agar aapki nazar mein yeh Acha Hona example nahi to aapki nazar mein Acha hona hau kya

Aa0ki nazar mein Acha person hone ki definition kya hai

Of course Anuj was not duty bound to marry Anupama. Let's face this. She was no match for him. Still he accepted her out of love along with her baggage and tried his best to fulfill his marital vows and I won't blame him for adopting CA. What's wrong if a man wants to enjoy fatherhood? Is umar mein bachchi ka bojh dal diya? Really? So Anupama is sweet 16 when it comes to marriage and romance but old and ailing when it comes to marital responsibilities? She divorced her ex so legally it wasn't her duty to look after him and his parents. Her children were adult and married. They could have sustained themselves pretty well. It was Anuj and Ca who needed her the most. She was newly married. Her relationship was fragile and demanded time and attention. CA was orphan suffering from abandonment issues. Young minds are impressionable so u have to be very careful while dealing with them. Anupama was not a first time mother. How she remained so oblivious to such scenarios and expected them to ADJUST every damn time? This is actually "GRANT PE LENA".

Wohi to anuj khuch bhi kare to anuj ki tareef ki pul bandhan shuru ho gaya

Isme Kaun si badi baat hai agar anuj ne anupama se shaadi kar liya Anupama dis not piit gun on anuj ki usi shaadi Karni hai

Father hood enjoy karne ka tabhi kyon khayal.aaya jub anupama se shaadi ko use pehle kyon nahi

In 26 year mein anuj ko father hood enjoy karne ka kyon khayal nahi aaya?

Coz he wanted to have a family with Anupama ji. Though it's another story that he was unaware of her obsession with her ex and considered her a normal woman who believes in "moving on". Itti si baat bhi log nahi samajhte, zara bhi nahi samajhte.🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

What is very nice about it? This is 2024, working after marriage was normal 50 years back in India. Wearing a dress of choice is also normal, there is nothing "very nice" about Anupamaa.

Taking glass out of Anuj's body ( I have no idea what this is...) but isn't that normal human mentality? He is her husband, she should show concern and care for him.

Anupamaa and "responsibility" cannot be used int he same sentence together. She is the most irresponsible char.

Cancel udaan for CA, seriously?! She took the responsibility of being her mother. Abandoned her for the sake of udaan, and then she remembered of her motherly duty and got off the plane. Even if we discount her stupidity at this late realization, doing her duty is what is expected. That is what all mothers around the world do, i.e is be a normal mother to their children.

She took responsibility of Bharavi, only to abandon her?

We can keep going on with examples.

There is a fine line between being nice and being stupid. Apparently, the line is blurred for char Anupamaa., as per the writers.

Ekachh addition, Anupamaa never opposed Baa, speaking truth about an incident of miscarriage is not opposing.
Reminding Baa that we are in 2024 (2023 then) and commenting on someone’s choice of clothes is absolutely shameful and wrong, this is ‘NOT’ opposing Baa.

Anupamaa threw Pakhi out of Kapadia house only to welcome her back later with her double badtameez behavior and an add on card from Mere Anoooj.

Where is Bhairavi today, any news of her? Or she is also a part of failed ventures and adventures of Anupamaa, she forgot Bhairavi on a US flight few yrs back.

Originally posted by: hinz

Anupamaa is a very nice person

she blessed the planet with her presence

she lets everyone else breathe the air around her

she provides troll material for us to have a laugh

she is maa, she gave birth to 3 kids

she is so nice she makes people pholl in lou with her!

Bas ab mujhe rona aa jayega

She makes Khichdi for Baa, ceam roll for Bapuji that too soogar phree, Cold Kopheee for Pakhi, Hot Kophee for Tosu, Kheer for Bakuda and in memory of Bakuda, Khichdi for an entire week for Anoooj and fool of Choti Anu

She is so nice and a responsible person that’s why she cooks for them

Aur haan, CA ka school ka admission form bhi bhara tha.

Anupama hired undergraduate Pakhi princess in KE while rejected Barkha's proposal (who is an MBA from US). Sums up how unbiased she actually is.