The point I am trying to drive is, Anuj-Anupama's marriage survived 3 years (albeit on life support), because one person in the relationship gave up on ALL his relations and self respect because his wife had to support her pseudo relations.
He believed words of a 7 year old and started blaming her. She tried to convince him ,but it was of no use. His prejudiced mind made him believe Ca's half truth. That scene is still a torture to watch. At the end he said their marriage was a hasty decision. He wasn't concerned about her. Only Romil and Ankush has enquired about her health after the accident. I am glad she left him at the right time.
He didn't believe anything, he saw Anupama neglecting CA again and again and again throughout their 3 year marriage and his question was for their entire relationship.
If Anupama hadn't neglected CA many times before she would not have reacted like that to one incident.
If Anuj hasn't begged Anupama many times before to give time to their family, he would not have reacted like that to this one incident.
You are STILL pretending it's because of one incident. This is a complete lie. Both Anuj and CAs reaction were because of 3 years of behaviour, not one incident. CAs insecurity was because of 3 years of behaviour Anuj's questions were because of 3 years of Anupama's behavior during their entire relationship.
There is no point in debating if people are not honest about the point under discussion.
At least we agree on one thing, it's a good thing she left them. What a one sided relationship when Anuj saying one time marriage was a mistake means he is evil, but Anupama neglecting marriage and house and responsibilities again. and again and again makes her hero. Hypocrisy, thy name is Anupama. Saddest thing is that there are many abusive real life spouse like her who want marriage to be so one sided and spouse to be unquestioning slaves who can never question what they do or they will threaten to run away. It's classic abusive technique..
No one deserves an evil two timing wife who left a 9 year old orphan and ran away. Such a person will never be happy in any relationship in life.
There is absolutely no point in debating with people who pretend it was one incident which broke the marriage and not 3 years of repeated behavior by Anupama. If they don't even understand or accept this basic point how can they understand any reality or how relationships work?
It's like seeing the last scene of the movie Singham and believing Jaykant Sikre was the poor, innocent victim of police brutality.
Also Anuj saying one time that marriage was a mistake makes him evil but Anupama neglecting him and his family again and again and again makes her a hero. There are many real life abusive spouses who want their other half to be slaves who can never ever question them and threaten to leave them if they do.
Sorry Harish Bhai Anuj never said his marriage mistake he said he should given her more time it was hasty decision which is not wrong , had anupama ever asked for closure ? Anuj to phir bhi closure ke liye usse Milne ki koshish kar raha hai , irony she never understood Anuj & CA happiness lies with her , how idiot she is too think Anuj will forget her , even CA will forget how can a child forget her mother , ca never forgot her after meeting maaya her real mom maybe she thought seeing her own kids .
I know she will not answer his questions as she will keep running away from him both Anuj & aadhya needs closure , untill Anuj & aadhya see her again spending times with kintosh happily serving them jabki bol ke nikli thi I won't fulfill any responsibilities towards shah family toshu comes in Shah family only .
18 pages and still we are going in circles.
So, here are my closing comments on this thread.
Going purely by the title:
When practically ALL characters on the show (including kids), ALL topics (however sensitive) have to be butchered to garner sympathy (which, even then, they can't seem to capture) for one Lead Character, there is NOTHING more to explain.
It is terrible writing. As for everything the show tries hard, very hard to justify
Originally posted by: Harish111
He didn't believe anything, he saw Anupama neglecting CA again and again and again throughout their 3 year marriage and his question was for their entire relationship.
If Anupama hadn't neglected CA many times before she would not have reacted like that to one incident.
If Anuj hasn't begged Anupama many times before to give time to their family, he would not have reacted like that to this one incident.
You are STILL pretending it's because of one incident. This is a complete lie. Both Anuj and CAs reaction were because of 3 years of behaviour, not one incident. CAs insecurity was because of 3 years of behaviour Anuj's questions were because of 3 years of Anupama's behavior during their entire relationship.
There is no point in debating if people are not honest about the point under discussion.
At least we agree on one thing, it's a good thing she left them. What a one sided relationship when Anuj saying one time marriage was a mistake means he is evil, but Anupama neglecting marriage and house and responsibilities again. and again and again makes her hero. Hypocrisy, thy name is Anupama. Saddest thing is that there are many abusive real life spouse like her who want marriage to be so one sided and spouse to be unquestioning slaves who can never question what they do or they will threaten to run away. It's classic abusive technique..
No one deserves an evil two timing wife who left a 9 year old orphan and ran away. Such a person will never be happy in any relationship in life.
CA always felt Anu loved her more than her bio mom. But MD ,BB and to some extent Palki were the people who had poisoned her mind against Anu. Anuj always had this trust issues regarding Ca as Anu had 3 bio kids.This is the reason he believed that Anu had always given priority to her bio kids.
What still disappoints me is the Anuj and Ca had forgotten all good deeds and sacrifices she has done for them. They had taken her for granted.
Presently Anuj is doing two timings. He is in a relationship with Shruthi but still does shayari and dreams about Anu.
After pretending to give more importance to her 202235324th udaan, MAA is still doing maid work in Kinjal and Toshu's house. Why? Matlab Biji ne toh apna ghar bhi offer kiya hai to stay.
Toh waha pe rahe, Spice and Chutney me work kare. Why is she still serving her adult son and his adult wife like a slave? That too after Toshu insulted her so badly!
Aur phir Bhakts kehte hai ki MAA is not biased. Bhar bhar ke serve karti hai ye Shahs ko, even after they insult and humiliate her far worse than Anuj and Adhya have ever done.
Koi self respect naam ki chizz nahi hai iss aurat me. Aisi lead ko kaun support karega? Of course she is terrible.
Anupama ne Kapadia house mein bhi kaam Kiya hai
She was shown doing dusting in Kapadia before gong to kinjal baby naming ceremony
There are other episode too when anupama show in working Kapadia
Ab kisi ko yaad nahi rakhna hai to main kya karoon
Main Jo.versiion Dekh rahi hoon usme anupama ne Kapadia house mein bhi kaam Kiya hai
.and also one thing yeh Jo khuch log anupama bhakt gone ka Jo taunt karte rehte hai yes we will support anupama because we talk about what is shown ijn show not somme imaginary stuff
.and let me remind bahut hum logon ko bhakt kehte ho na
Magar khuch log yeh baat bhul rage hain
Anupama ne akele jaa kar toshu ki Seva nahi kahi thi
Anupama ne us time sabko kaam .divide Kiya tha aur yahan tuk ki ek nurse bii rakh waya
Agsr anupama ne shsh mein stay Kiya to woh bhi
Jub uska pag Fera tha doosra stay usne Pari ke whatever thar fon only 6 hrs usme bhi anuj ne anupama ko khud neend se utha kar anupama ko shsh mein chod aaya tha woh bhi next day anupama Pari ko lekar khud Kapadia aayi but yeh baa yeh aone aap aayi thi
Baaki mein anuj ne khud anupama ko toshu ke paas bheja tha jahan pur woh ek din le liye ruki thi
Aur toshu ke affair ke baad anuj ne khud anupama ko bola tha ki ek raat tum kinjal ke saath ruk jaao she need u
And.durimg samar wedding and 13 Days after samar death
Otherwise anupama ne shaadi ke baad kinjal aur toshu ko Kapadia mein rakh ke kinjal ki pregnancy time mein care ki thi taaki anupama ko shah house na jaana pade jahan pur anuj kimjal ke liye pregnancy ladoo aur bapuji le liye cream role Bana raga tha
Baaki mein anupama shah mein2 and hr se jyaada Riki nahi and anupama tabhi shah mei. Gayi shah ya to function raha ho ya phir koi badi problem rahi
Anupama kabhi bhi baat baat pe shah house nahi gayi
Lekin vanraj ne afat kar diya, ki anupama ko wapas kimjal ko shah house mein chodna pada
Anupama kare to kya karei
Anupama shsh house bachon se mil nahi sakti
Vanraj bachon ko Kapadia jaane nahi deta anupama se milne ke liye
Anupama kahan mile bachon se
Sadak pe ???
Anupama ne sabse pehle choti ko priority di when kimjal was waiting for anupama to take her to gynae when kimjal was pregnant
Anupama tub bhi choti ko first priority di Jun kimjal shah house chod ke Pari ke saath Kapadia aayi thi
Where anupama clearly told kimjal ki mujhe choti ke liye art admission ke liye jaana
Agar itni biased anupama fo anupama Pari ko chod ke kabhi bhi choti ke art ke liye admission ke liye nayi hi jaati
So this is absolutely wrong allegation that anupama is biased amd ignore choti every time
And yes we support anupama
Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika
18 pages and still we are going in circles.
So, here are my closing comments on this thread.
Going purely by the title:
When practically ALL characters on the show (including kids), ALL topics (however sensitive) have to be butchered to garner sympathy (which, even then, they can't seem to capture) for one Lead Character, there is NOTHING more to explain.
It is terrible writing. As for everything the show tries hard, very hard to justify
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Nothing truer about the show than this.. very apt, absolutely agreed.. 👍💯💯
Originally posted by: HoneyBee7312
After pretending to give more importance to her 202235324th udaan, MAA is still doing maid work in Kinjal and Toshu's house. Why? Matlab Biji ne toh apna ghar bhi offer kiya hai to stay.
Toh waha pe rahe, Spice and Chutney me work kare. Why is she still serving her adult son and his adult wife like a slave? That too after Toshu insulted her so badly!
Aur phir Bhakts kehte hai ki MAA is not biased. Bhar bhar ke serve karti hai ye Shahs ko, even after they insult and humiliate her far worse than Anuj and Adhya have ever done.
Koi self respect naam ki chizz nahi hai iss aurat me. Aisi lead ko kaun support karega? Of course she is terrible.
If our mom prepares breakfast for us out of love ,will we call her maid??I don't.
She went there to see Pari as she has promised and is not staying with them and doing her job for living. Ab problem kyaa hain.??
She isn't touch with Shahs since 5 years. Presently Shahs are in India and she is in U.S. She has started to move on ,so u guys also plz move on from Shah obsession.
I like her and i am very much sure majority of people who watch the show love her. Otherwise sirf bash kar ne ke liye only pagal log hi time waste karthe hain.
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