Abhinav is WAY BETTER than Abhimanyu FOR Akshara

In my opinion, Abhinav is WAY BETTER than Abhimanyu FOR Akshara (and again that is just my POV and I'm not forcing it on to anyone) 

• They are married with each other way longer than Abhimanyu-Akshara
• They have a child and are a family together (just because Abhinav isn't the real dad, it doesn't make him any less)
• They always support each other (Abhimanyu supports Akshara only until his matashree and ego allows him to) 
• They show a great example why in some situtation why arrange marriages could be better than so called love marriage 
• They are not rich by status but rich with a golden heart ❤️

Just because main leads are always shown together, doesn't mean they have to be together. I see many people in social media bashing Abhinav. I actually like the storyline now and it makes much more sense than showing Akshara going back to Abhimanyu. 

People need to come out of the fairy tale world that television shows such as 

• Love and marriages happens once only 
• Once married, you can't be divorced 
• The child belongs to their blood-parents (as long as they're alive)

how can  one compare abhinav with Abhimanyu  ,how is he good from preleap we dont know anything of abhinav,he didnt had a sir name ,he was a helper,before leap,its very good of him he helped akshara ,he also got  family ,how they do every thing together,after leap they showed abhinavis doing everything  akshara say,s and now after udaipur not to lose Abhinav  as friend  she is doing everything  to make him happy, before leap both character  had pov ,but post leap there is no pov of Akshara

Abhinav is good because there is no family in picture we might not know how he will be if he had a family but at this point even chaggan halwai is better than abhimanyu birla for any girl imho 

Originally posted by: Bloody-Mary

Abhinav is good because there is no family in picture we might not know how he will be if he had a family but at this point even chaggan halwai is better than abhimanyu birla for any girl imho 

Lol I think the title says Abhinav is better for akshara as opposed to Abhimanyu not Abhinav is better for his family as opposed to Abhimanyu.  

Originally posted by: sweta2005

how can  one compare abhinav with Abhimanyu  ,how is he good from preleap we dont know anything of abhinav,he didnt had a sir name ,he was a helper,before leap,its very good of him he helped akshara ,he also got  family ,how they do every thing together,after leap they showed abhinavis doing everything  akshara say,s and now after udaipur not to lose Abhinav  as friend  she is doing everything  to make him happy, before leap both character  had pov ,but post leap there is no pov of Akshara

By this logic what did you know about Abhimanyu exactly before his first scene.

Or Akshu did they actually show her teenage years- was she bullied in hostel, had friends, boyfriend, did she visited goenkas often or not.

It's a Serial dude. Any character will have a storyline right from the first he/she is introduced. It's as simple as that. 

Only if needed or for some twist past is shown. 

You are talking as if apni behen ka arrange rishta krna hai and arey ladke k baare mein hume kuch nahi pta krta kya hai kyaa caste hai and all. 

Oh gosh NO he isn't. They have Zero chemistry!

Not true, we know a LOT about both Abhira past. We know Ak's childhood trauma and to a large extent Abhi's childhood trauma too. It's what the basis for everything is, and even why they fell in love with each other. 

Ak was bullied by her sister and never given the first priority by anyone in the family. She lived her life for others and made all her decisions for her family's happiness and especially Arohi's. Honestly, pre-confession Ak was pretty much destined for a life of self-sacrifice and depression. Abhi was the one person who looked at her, wanted only her, and kept her as his first priority ( at least before the wedding ). He gave her the confidence to stand up for herself and defended her against her own family. He slowly got her out from under Arohi's influence. 

Abhi on the other hand, grew up having to defend his mother. He really has a savior mentality because of that. When Ak came into his life, he was able to understand her instantly. We see over and over again that he knew what was going on in Ak's mind, he just didn't agree with it. He wanted her to be more selfish and think about herself because his happiness was related to her happiness. 

Point is, for both of them, the back story allowed us to see why they want to be with each other. For Nav, we only know that he had no family, and Ak gave him a family, so he loves her. But beyond that, nothing. Similarly, Ak loves him because he helped her when she needed help without any judgment or questions. For both of them, it's a marriage of convenience first. They never chose each other. Now they are doing that, after living together for six years. 

Originally posted by: Shinning_AD

In my opinion, Abhinav is WAY BETTER than Abhimanyu FOR Akshara (and again that is just my POV and I'm not forcing it on to anyone) 

• They are married with each other way longer than Abhimanyu-Akshara
• They have a child and are a family together (just because Abhinav isn't the real dad, it doesn't make him any less)
• They always support each other (Abhimanyu supports Akshara only until his matashree and ego allows him to) 
• They show a great example why in some situtation why arrange marriages could be better than so called love marriage 
• They are not rich by status but rich with a golden heart ❤️

Just because main leads are always shown together, doesn't mean they have to be together. I see many people in social media bashing Abhinav. I actually like the storyline now and it makes much more sense than showing Akshara going back to Abhimanyu. 

People need to come out of the fairy tale world that television shows such as 

• Love and marriages happens once only 
• Once married, you can't be divorced 
• The child belongs to their blood-parents (as long as they're alive)

As we know from start abhimanyun character was also very good he was loving caring etc, but gradually his character become possesive etc. And abhinav respect akshara as a friend because they never become couple. Now if they become real couple maybe gradually abhinav character become like that we never know we all know that itv dramas mein ml fl mein separation are very common. reason jo marzi hu ml ki galti hu ya fl ki hu gradually they show how they learn from there mistake. Aur agar abhinav ko abhi ki jagah ml rakh lai after some time jb makers show jo agay bharna ka lia uska character ko bhi spoil kar skta hai. Yeh acha insan itv pe ml tb tk rehta hai jb tk puri trha sa fl usko na mil jai bad mein misunderstanding and possesiveness, jealousy, blaming game go on. And if you want ti invest your time go watch korean and chinese drama they are worth watch. ITV almost same hi huta hai problems separation are very common in itv dramas. 

Originally posted by: lagjagale

Not true, we know a LOT about both Abhira past. We know Ak's childhood trauma and to a large extent Abhi's childhood trauma too. It's what the basis for everything is, and even why they fell in love with each other. 

Ak was bullied by her sister and never given the first priority by anyone in the family. She lived her life for others and made all her decisions for her family's happiness and especially Arohi's. Honestly, pre-confession Ak was pretty much destined for a life of self-sacrifice and depression. Abhi was the one person who looked at her, wanted only her, and kept her as his first priority ( at least before the wedding ). He gave her the confidence to stand up for herself and defended her against her own family. He slowly got her out from under Arohi's influence. 

Abhi on the other hand, grew up having to defend his mother. He really has a savior mentality because of that. When Ak came into his life, he was able to understand her instantly. We see over and over again that he knew what was going on in Ak's mind, he just didn't agree with it. He wanted her to be more selfish and think about herself because his happiness was related to her happiness. 

Point is, for both of them, the back story allowed us to see why they want to be with each other. For Nav, we only know that he had no family, and Ak gave him a family, so he loves her. But beyond that, nothing. Similarly, Ak loves him because he helped her when she needed help without any judgment or questions. For both of them, it's a marriage of convenience first. They never chose each other. Now they are doing that, after living together for six years. 

 Bold above in your post - not exactly. Abhi didn’t want Ak to be selfish for them. He wanted to be Ak’s priority as he considered her as his priority. 

Ak is Abhi’s cornerstone whereas Ak’s cornerstone is Family or her want of the big happy joint family. 

Abhi never felt that Ak prioritised him - this being the base of first leap. They kind of got over that in second chance but were brutally tested again by fate. 

Unlike Ak-Nav - I think they have had smooth sailing because they have not been emotionally involved with each other and didn’t have the tussle in their relationship because of their families. This emotional distance and calm enables them to communicate better, which was lacking in Abhi-Aks relationship, which was more of passionate whirlwind. 

Is Abhinav way better than Abhimanyu for Akshara - Not really for me. If all she want is calm then yes but if she wants a full life, someone who brings out her true self, then it is Abhimanyu. 

With Abhinav, as rightly said in above post, it is a marriage of convenience and even after they move on for real, it won’t be much different. 

Edited by DotDash - 1 years ago

Originally posted by: sweta2005

how can  one compare abhinav with Abhimanyu  ,how is he good from preleap we dont know anything of abhinav,he didnt had a sir name ,he was a helper,before leap,its very good of him he helped akshara ,he also got  family ,how they do every thing together,after leap they showed abhinavis doing everything  akshara say,s and now after udaipur not to lose Abhinav  as friend  she is doing everything  to make him happy, before leap both character  had pov ,but post leap there is no pov of Akshara

The obsession with surnames so clearly betrays an obsession with khoon-khandan (caste and class) but openly call out kardo toh iss forum par self-victimisation ki baadh aa jayegi

Edited by Deltablues - 1 years ago