Tra... I mean Vaani Kapoor - Page 5

either she did something to her face or the magazine photoshopped it in a pretty bad way
she looks bad hear

Originally posted by: Rekha_ji

Reported for transphobia

The topic maker is such a moron, the ignorance is just oozing. A transgender individual by definition is " a person whose self-identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender." How does someones appearance make them transgender? Unless it is you who generalizes and looks down upon this group of people - it's like saying someone looks like a boy when they're a girl or that they look like a girl when they're male. You are simply trying to belittle her looks and that is it, and you seriously need a life.

Originally posted by: TheBoss

She isn't a trans sexual so there is no phobia going around. If she looks like an Apple will call her an Apple. Look up dictionary and that adjective is used to describe somebody with such characteristics. In the picture she doesn't look a bit feminine to me hence I explained exactly how she is looking like one. She looks like a shemale in that picture and there is no politically correct word around it.

3.of, relating to, or characteristic of transsexuals.

But she is not a trans gender. She looks like a shemale in this picture and she wasn't born like that. What she chose to do about herself is upto her. If she looks like one how else would you want me to describe her?

Originally posted by: Bolly*_Crazed

The topic maker is such a moron, the ignorance is just oozing. A transgender individual by definition is " a person whose self-identity does not conform unambiguously to conventional notions of male or female gender." How does someones appearance make them transgender? Unless it is you who generalizes and looks down upon this group of people - it's like saying someone looks like a boy when they're a girl or that they look like a girl when they're male. You are simply trying to belittle her looks and that is it, and you seriously need a life.

I don't think Boss's intentions were to hurt the transsexual community, but wording was poor and it looked like generalizing the transexual community that they all look masculine.
Spare Boss afterall he is a Sallu fan, he like Sallu suffers from foot in mouth or fingers in ass(he is typing) syndrome.

On serious note, I think we all suffer from this systematic homo-phobia, or atleast we associate LGBT community with joke or something undesirable or unnatural. I myself do that at times. when I have to belittle someone I used to call him/her "hijra" or "chakka" or "gay" or "lesbian ". And reaction is worse than if I call him/her "motherfkr". Basically meaning we are more uncomfortable being called LGBT than being called a motherfkr. This is not an excuse but what we are. until and unless we try to change ourselves it will be a very long and painful struggle for LGBT.

I don't need to be spared man - no body needs to pray for my soul here. I know what I meant and this had nothing to do with trans people. If she looked like that what am I expected to call her? Looking like a man? But a man doesn't look like that either. Only a shemale looks like that and she can only blame her plastic surgery or photo shop people for that. And if somebody is a lesbian or a gay that is how they identify themselves as, proudly. How is that trans phobia if you talk about trans gendered people?

Originally posted by: TheBoss

Try again. Calling me moron is like bringing a knife to a gun fight. You can do better. 😆

She looks a lot like Nikita Dutta from Ek Duje ke Vaaste on Sony TV!