Top South actress forced to quit acting by director husband, in-laws - Page 3

Originally posted by: MoonBow.

@Justmoi:

You can watch some of the recent Jyothika's IV she said that she didnt regret quitting cinema back then cos she decided marriage and kids had to happen at a specific time.. And for the talent and ability, they can still continue to act. Jyo definitely doesnt want to be a main stream heroine with skimpy clothes. With her hubby owning a production house, she is able to pick and choose what type of films she wanna do now..

And yes, without sorting out her responsibilities as a mom and wife, i doubt she can give 100% to her career. So she took her time but she is back and is going to do her 2nd film after marriage. And no, they are not against her doing films.

Not everyone wants to continue acting even after marriage. And not everyone wants to place career ahead of family.

Originally posted by: yamyam

Parents pressure nahi daal rahe honge.. he himself is using them to cover up his chauvinism in that case.. Hide under the garb of being an obedient son to cover up the fact that you are a pathetic husband

Originally posted by: BullsEye777

There are very few industry people in the South who actually want their daughter or wife to be part of the industry. I guess it's because the industry has got that bad a reputation and these men know it first hand.

Like Jyothika's case elaborated by Justmoi, Manju Warrier was more famous than her husband when they married. They finally had to divorce before she could make a comeback. He tried everything he could to sabotage her career including telling potential lead actors and producers/directors to reject her.

What I didn't like in this case was how Vijay brought in his parents and is conveniently using them to take the blame for a decision that is actually his. Now he can continue to be the nice, shy, obedient guy who unfortunately 'made a mistake'

Originally posted by: BullsEye777

The parents might be silently encouraging him. I remember an interview after these two got married and the father's snippet was about how shy, quiet and perfect his son was and how he didn't have any bad habits. His opinion about Amala was that she was too bubbly (when things go wrong , other words would be used to describe the same character). Now they can get him a girl who suits their personality better.

Originally posted by: Justmoi

Manju Warrier made the original Malayalam movie (a very woman friendly movie) which was the comeback Tamil remake for Jyothika. But in this case her husband Surya produced it.

Originally posted by: Justmoi

I have no problem with Jyo choosing to stay at home or not working after marriage. What I have a problem is Sivakumar (her fil and not as successful as her) saying her priorities are kids, husband and career in an event for her movie.Who is he to set her priorities ? That is interfering. Jyo has said her mil made her speak only in Tamil. She is a muslim north Indian, IDK if she converted but she seems like a proper Tamil Hindu girl now. All this speaks to a level of control from the in laws which is disturbing and this is a film family with a husband who is an actor, a very successful actor and she was a top actress.

Originally posted by: Anachronist

welcome ji

I dont think she agreed , yeh ghatiya insaan doing bakwaas under pressure from his parents