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Posted: 8 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

What was the urgency? She could have convinced dadisa and prepared Nandini. She could have avoided ugly scene between Nandini and her teesa. She did the same mistake in the past. She did not inform or prepare Shivam which led to ugly fights between the siblings.

Don't want to rake up past but Dsa was a recipient of Anandi's goodness in the past.
Anandi could have very well held Dsa responsible for the way her life was ruined but she didn't.She never even pointed a finger against her.
Dsa should have understood what Anandi has been trying to do.She should have supported Anandi in this on her own accord.
It would be difficult to convince Nandini at this stage when the child is still angry and hurt about Mangala's betrayal.
But here Nandini is in a happy space she just started to enjoy her new life.Mangala pretending or not she is in need of urgent help.
Anandi didn't even want to discuss Mangala with Nandini when the child asked why Teesa behaved this way.She told the child that they can talk about it later.She wanted the child to settle down first and then talk about this.
After that she got news about Mangala losing her balance. Anandi and Nandini may not be responsible for that but the lady did become like this because Nandini has exited from her life and that precipitated this behaviour.Anandi being Anandi wants to do what is right by Mangala and wants Nandini also to do that so that they can move on along with Mangala.

It is clear whether Dsa agreed or not Anandi would have gone ahead and helped Mangala and do the needful.

Does Anandi need Dsa's permission to do what she thinks is right?

I really hope this means Anandi shifting out of BH.

Dsa thinks that she can restrict Anandi from doing what she wants because she loves her and cares for her.She is no different from Mangala when it comes to her wanting to control over Anandi's life.


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Posted: 8 years ago
#82
It is not about dadisa. And dadisa cant be compared to Mangala. Dadisa never prevented anandi from meeting her folks. And anandi also received lots from dadisa. It is both give and take. Their relationship is unique unlike the one between Mangala and Nimboli. Dadisa always behaved like a saas inspite of her saying that anandi is like her beti.

I think Nimboli can understand and even cooperate if anandi only cared about telling her about Mangala. Anandi could have made another trip to Jhalra. Nimboli who is just recovering had to see teesa once again and could not control herself. Just the way Shivam reacted in the past. Anandi wanted to make Mangala stay at BH instead of at SN. Without taking the permission of BHwasis. Why should they put up with Mangala?


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Posted: 8 years ago
#83
While not keeping Shivam in the loop is a sheer stupidity on her part in this there is no way Nandini can be convinced to help Mangala.
So as a mother she is using her rights to make her daughter do the needful.

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This current phase reminds me of how we were waiting for Anandi Shiv's journey to start but how they both were constantly dragged back by the problems in Singh house.😛😆

Before Anandi confessed her love to Shiv and just after she confessed her love to Shiv both times they were brought back from their world by J in the former scene and Dsa in the latter scene😆

Anandi was never allowed to lead a carefree existence with her husband Shiv now with her kids.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

It is not about dadisa. And dadisa cant be compared to Mangala. Dadisa never prevented anandi from meeting her folks. And anandi also received lots from dadisa. It is both give and take. Their relationship is unique unlike the one between Mangala and Nimboli. Dadisa always behaved like a saas inspite of her saying that anandi is like her beti.

I think Nimboli can understand and even cooperate if anandi only cared about telling her about Mangala. Anandi could have made another trip to Jhalra. Nimboli who is just recovering had to see teesa once again and could not control herself. Just the way Shivam reacted in the past. Anandi wanted to make Mangala stay at BH instead of at SN. Without taking the permission of BHwasis. Why should they put up with Mangala?


Dsa likes to control Anandi's life and it is just that Dsa has a better control over her emotions than Mangala.

Dsa changed only after she realised how her actions beliefs and behaviour ruined so many lives around her.Mangala has not yet realised that how destructive her actions can be.

Anandi received a lot from Dsa only after the lady realised how she was responsible for ruining that girl's life.

Nandini can understand and cooperate but right now Nandini is not in a mood to listen. Mangala needs help sooner the lady gets better sooner Anandi and her children can get on with their lives.

If they have to leave the past behind they need to get over the hurt and betrayal.Only way is to forgive and help that lady who is already facing the punishment.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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The thing is dadisa and others were relieved to get rid of Mangala after putting up with her tantrums for such a long time. It is natural for dadisa to get irritated. Afterall she is not a mahaan. She is quite practical and can be heartless when needed.

Yes, she has no right to control anandi. But she has got a right to get angry with her. Anandi got a right to do whatever she feels is the right thing. For that she first should shift to SN. Nimboli should know that SN is her real home, not BH. As Mangala is in hospital, they can visit her on a daily basis.

But Anandi and Jagya are talking of taking Mangala back to BH which is not proper. Or Anandi should find an independent house to house herself with her kids plus Mangala. Even if Kamli comes with Pushkar it will be more nice for anandi to live in her own house.

They cant get away from the past so easily. It will take time and efforts. Past in the form of Mangala will be with Nimboli for lifetime. Nimboli will have two mothers. Hopefully both will be on good terms.

Dadisa understood and she is ok with Mangala being treated.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#86
We all knew anandi will help mangala to come out of this but cvs 😡

After reunion cant they spare us atleast 2, 3 episodes to show the bonding between anandi and her kids?

Anandi always kept others happiness above hers,

She will not think of her happiness at the cost of mangalas tears though whatever has hapoened to mangala is fue to her own doing

But atleast they coukd have shown us few intense scene of the mother with her daughter who got her back after 11 years, so much to talk , so much to care

But no in the name of ansndi they will show everyone, we were forced to see middle aged akhi harki romance but they are so kanjush to show this bond which is so much needed for the story

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Posted: 8 years ago
#87
We needed some break from Jhalrawasis which we did not get. We wanted to see Nandini going to school as anandi's daughter. Shifting to SN.

They could have shown Mangala leading a meaningful life with Kamli and helping her to face akheraj when he comes back.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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There was a time when some viewers wanted to move away from Badi haveli n dadisa n her ladeswar.
But some were very much keen to see them because they were essence of BV.
Now bh is modern no problem dadisa educated independent Jagya settled with happy family.
So the essence is shifted to jhalra. Each one of them has a story to tell.
Mangla how she re assemble her life and start living a life for self, Kamli how she handled her mom and bro. Akhi how he gets all his karma back.
Kundan still young how does he settled down in his life and harki what does she do with life. May be she will become pregnant again.
So slowly the jhalra wasis will become Badi haveli wasis or they have to rent out bh set as theme wedding hall. Only they give one or two episodes in six months where the next turn happens.
So I think akhiraj will die after six months. Till then mangala s treatment n Anand baba.
I think ds will invite Akhi to start his ashram at bh only
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Posted: 8 years ago
#89

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

The thing is dadisa and others were relieved to get rid of Mangala after putting up with her tantrums for such a long time. It is natural for dadisa to get irritated. Afterall she is not a mahaan. She is quite practical and can be heartless when needed.

Yes, she has no right to control anandi. But she has got a right to get angry with her. Anandi got a right to do whatever she feels is the right thing. For that she first should shift to SN. Nimboli should know that SN is her real home, not BH. As Mangala is in hospital, they can visit her on a daily basis.

But Anandi and Jagya are talking of taking Mangala back to BH which is not proper. Or Anandi should find an independent house to house herself with her kids plus Mangala. Even if Kamli comes with Pushkar it will be more nice for anandi to live in her own house.

They cant get away from the past so easily. It will take time and efforts. Past in the form of Mangala will be with Nimboli for lifetime. Nimboli will have two mothers. Hopefully both will be on good terms.

Dadisa understood and she is ok with Mangala being treated.

Dsa is irritated at the thought of having Mangala back which is quite natural and may be irritated at Anandi for wanting to bring this head ache into her life.
But she can't order around Anandi.
Nandlni doesn't need two mothers.
Mangala can move along in life and may be adopt Kamili Pushkar's children if she wants.
Yes Anandi should shift to SN ASAP.

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Posted: 8 years ago
#90
🤢exactly I thought now show will get better n new tracks will be introduced but why CVs r still stuck on sane thing are they doing this purposely bcz they r bored n want to end show

Originally posted by: hisusmita

We all knew anandi will help mangala to come out of this but cvs 😡

After reunion cant they spare us atleast 2, 3 episodes to show the bonding between anandi and her kids?

Anandi always kept others happiness above hers,

She will not think of her happiness at the cost of mangalas tears though whatever has hapoened to mangala is fue to her own doing

But atleast they coukd have shown us few intense scene of the mother with her daughter who got her back after 11 years, so much to talk , so much to care

But no in the name of ansndi they will show everyone, we were forced to see middle aged akhi harki romance but they are so kanjush to show this bond which is so much needed for the story

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